Virgo man driving me mad

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Favourme20 on Sunday, September 13, 2015 and has 7 replies.

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10 Years

Long story short I've been with my Virgo man almost a year and it's been wonderful. We have had some great times until lately I got pregnant and he wasn't happy and wanted me to terminate as he said we are not read. I was upset as I found him cold about the issue any was argued next thing he broke up with me ( crazy !!! )
Anyway I actually lost the baby o think due to stress. I've been heart broken ever since its a double loss I guess. It his birthday this week and I've asked him out to lunch he's agreed, is he trying to now just be my friend or could this be a chance to get back together ?

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11 Years1,000+ Posts

I dont know you invited him he didnt invite you.

On the baby issue tho.. we live in a society where if u get pregnant and its not wanted its okay to corkscrew the fetus out no harm no foul. How nice the world we live in. So tgat coldness shouldnt be surprising.

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

That is the best time to go cold and cut him off.
I knew a girl with a similar story she did though terminate the child for him.. a month or two down the line he left her regardless.
How can there be love if they deny a child they both made out of this so called love?

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@Favourme20
10 Years

P Angel
Let me make something clear here I'm in love with a man and yes we've had a hard time yes I want him back....... BUT I'm also a very smart hard working financially independent woman who owns her own buiness. Grasping is one thing I was not taugh and secondly there is nothing coincidental about a miscarriage !!! Furthermore my partner was with me at the hospital so please never assume just by a feed that all women are the same. I happen to have only lost my baby last week so still very raw I came on here for practical advice not to here someone talking from so far up their own butt it stinks !!!!
Girl you have read me wrong. Two sugars please !!!

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Posted by Favourme20
Long story short I've been with my Virgo man almost a year and it's been wonderful. We have had some great times until lately I got pregnant and he wasn't happy and wanted me to terminate as he said we are not read. I was upset as I found him cold about the issue any was argued next thing he broke up with me ( crazy !!! )
Anyway I actually lost the baby o think due to stress. I've been heart broken ever since its a double loss I guess. It his birthday this week and I've asked him out to lunch he's agreed, is he trying to now just be my friend or could this be a chance to get back together ?

First of all, to get a man to settle down with you, and a Virgo no less is not like it used to be. You didn't mention your ages so I'm not sure about that.

Some Virgo males take a very long time to decide if the woman they are with is the "one." When you throw in (in the beginning) an unplanned pregnancy, the first thing (I believe) every male with brains thinks is.. "can I spend the rest of my life with this woman?" "Are we at the point to make a big move like this?" "Are we financially able to afford this?" You get my drift.

One year is not nearly enough time to answer all of the above questions. In fact most adults will wait a good five years to start having kids AFTER they are married. Clearly he wasn't happy. Which means, NO...to all of the above questions. With that said, I suggest if he decides to continue this relationship you practice birth control that is more efficient than what you were doing prior to getting pregnant. How far along pregnant were you, how old are the two of you, and how long have you been in a serious relationship? I know this relationship didn't start immediately, so that also comes into play. How long did you date him before you both made a commitment to one another? What is your sign?