BadGalVirgo
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Virgo Man - Virgo Woman Relationship
There is a season for everything.
And sometimes a season has to end.
You can't disappoint God by removing yourself from a bad situation.
And sometimes a season has to end.
You can't disappoint God by removing yourself from a bad situation.
Leave. He doesn't appreciate you.
Posted by P-Angel
Virgos are martyrs .... they want to be used, and NOT appreciated, so that they can relish in the "woe"
Eh, never been a fan of this combo. Virgo men are too boring I need fire or water in a chart to keep me interested.
The shadow of the unevolved virgo man.....
Yeah, bruh. I'd bounce. You deserve far better than this train wreck.
Yeah, bruh. I'd bounce. You deserve far better than this train wreck.
ckquote>Posted by helljumperjunkie912
You deserve far better than this train wreck
On The Contrary.
She fully believes that she is suppose to be with this person. She puts forth her energy is proving to him over and again (for 2.5 years) that she is there for his taking, and there to serve him.
Posted by BadGalVirgo
I am a good woman. I cook for him, clean his house, work,etc. I am always excited to see him
She has no intentions of making her life better. A Virgo is there to serve, unappreciated, by virtue of their own actions.
Posted by BadGalVirgo
very much into my religious beliefs and do not want to stray from this relationship and date or be with anyone else because beyond the bad I do see potential in him and the man he can one say be. I pray for him every night.click to expand
In reality, people get exactly what they deserve ... NOT what they fantasize about.
She will cook and love and care for a man who doesn't give a shit about her ..... then by her actions, in the energy she is putting out as being acceptable to her ... serving a man who doesnt' care is what she deserves.
To deserve more .. then she would have to put forth that energy, for it to come back.
If a person wants to deserve better .. then they have to earn better, by their actions
P-Angel you are spot on. I am appreciative of your honesty. Because in your darkest hour, the truth is the light. Thank you everyone.
Sounds emotionally and mentally abusive which is the worst kind of thing to go thru
If you loved yourself enough you would want more for yourself.
If you loved yourself enough you would want more for yourself.
I just don't understand why people have to be told to do what is best for them. Shouldn't a person just naturally and instinctively realize that they should veer away from that which hurts them?
I just can't make heads or tails of it. There's another Virgo lady on the Gemini board, she's like mid 30's I think, and she comes in to update all the time on how another (time frame) has gone by that she has bent over backwards to serve the needs and wants of a man who, by his actions, couldn't give a rats ass about her, her feelings, respecting her, appreciate her, and the list goes on and on.
he doesn't car about any of those things .... he just takes, while she bends over a lets him fuck her
and then come crying in here, like a helpless victim?
And no matter what you say, no matter how rational or logical, even the nice people who come in and are so gentle with her feelings ..... none of it matters. Sweet, rude and everything in between .. and this lady will just ignore all of it, so she can complain about how miserable she is.
You fucking teach people how to treat you. By you allowing this treatment for 2.5 years, he is now treating you exactly the right way, by virtue of your acceptance of it. A precedence has been set, your acceptance of bad treatment has now been established as relationship law between the two of you. You accepting those terms for two years, has rendered his treatment of you correct.
that ^^^ will fly over your head, I have no doubt.
See if you get this: Don't come crying in here when you are at fault for your demise.
Posted by BadGalVirgo
and do not want to stray from this relationship and date or be with anyone else because beyond the bad I do see potential in him and the man he can one say be. I pray for him every night
There's nothing anyone can say to you except .... enjoy your suffering.
You won't see anything beyond wanting to be a martyr .... you are thriving in being unappreciated, it has driven you for over two years ....so, what is your point in coming here with this?
Are you trying to get people to counsel you on how to serve him better, so the crumbs he throws you will be bigger, so you can stoke up your endurance to be to carry a bigger burden?
Let me guess .... you have full intentions of carrying this great suffering to your death.
If you cannot see this for yourself (which you can't by virtue of this thread) ... then there is nothing anyone can do to help you.
If you are incapable of critical thought and/or applying practical standards for yourself .... then there is nothing anyone can do to help you.
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