Virgo Men: Do you want to be pursued?

To all Virgo men I ask you this simple question, do you want to be pursued by a woman? Be asked out on a date? Or would you much rather be in control?.... after analyzing and figuring out what the heck you want after 278394619037564 years.

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
If you have a person asking you out - who's really in control?



Now to your question.

I figure out quick what I want and go from there.

If a person has good qualities, I know there's potential, so little by little I start cutting the diamond to make it perfect.

If the person is trash - won't give them a second thought.

Is this Virgo enough for you?

Curious, what happens DURING the process of cutting that perfect diamond? are you testing her? actively talking to and/or asking questions? do you sometimes show interest but pull away at the same time?

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Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
If you have a person asking you out - who's really in control?



Now to your question.

I figure out quick what I want and go from there.

If a person has good qualities, I know there's potential, so little by little I start cutting the diamond to make it perfect.

If the person is trash - won't give them a second thought.

Is this Virgo enough for you?

Curious, what happens DURING the process of cutting that perfect diamond? are you testing her? actively talking to and/or asking questions? do you sometimes show interest but pull away at the same time?

I put them through various tests right from the start to see who they are.

The immature/not compadible ones drop themselves out without even knowing it.

The smart/wicked/what ever you choose to call them, those are the ones I go for.

You kind of have to see this in progress.

It can't be fully explained with words.

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Interesting. Question, do you expect us to wait around until you decide you like us? Or are we allowed to casually talk to other guys during this process? Keep in mind we assume you have no interest bc you are all naturally aloof. Does that alone make up your minds and move on?

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
If you have a person asking you out - who's really in control?



Now to your question.

I figure out quick what I want and go from there.

If a person has good qualities, I know there's potential, so little by little I start cutting the diamond to make it perfect.

If the person is trash - won't give them a second thought.

Is this Virgo enough for you?

Curious, what happens DURING the process of cutting that perfect diamond? are you testing her? actively talking to and/or asking questions? do you sometimes show interest but pull away at the same time?

I put them through various tests right from the start to see who they are.

The immature/not compadible ones drop themselves out without even knowing it.

The smart/wicked/what ever you choose to call them, those are the ones I go for.

You kind of have to see this in progress.

It can't be fully explained with words.

Interesting. Question, do you expect us to wait around until you decide you like us? Or are we allowed to casually talk to other guys during this process? Keep in mind we assume you have no interest bc you are all naturally aloof. Does that alone make up your minds and move on?

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Would love to know the answer to these questions as well because week 3 and he is so aloof, but I asked are you still interested in me? And he says yes. Haven't called me but text and responds to me in timely fashion, blames it on work and not getting any sleep, anything I plan or ask gets cancelled or not done. And I thought virgos shows through actions if they're interested, but he says he is and I don't see it now. He's being distant and I've reached out and he responds right away so I'm confused. So so confused.

Control is a drug and Scorpios are the junkies.

Posted by Tom_Sawyer

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
If you have a person asking you out - who's really in control?



Now to your question.

I figure out quick what I want and go from there.

If a person has good qualities, I know there's potential, so little by little I start cutting the diamond to make it perfect.

If the person is trash - won't give them a second thought.

Is this Virgo enough for you?

Curious, what happens DURING the process of cutting that perfect diamond? are you testing her? actively talking to and/or asking questions? do you sometimes show interest but pull away at the same time?

I put them through various tests right from the start to see who they are.

The immature/not compadible ones drop themselves out without even knowing it.

The smart/wicked/what ever you choose to call them, those are the ones I go for.

You kind of have to see this in progress.

It can't be fully explained with words.

Interesting. Question, do you expect us to wait around until you decide you like us? Or are we allowed to casually talk to other guys during this process? Keep in mind we assume you have no interest bc you are all naturally aloof. Does that alone make up your minds and move on?

Right, because all Virgos are the same.

All we do is analyze a situation, don't do anything about it, analyze some more, then go radio silence.

smh..



The thing is..I don't go around just talking to every girl I see.

You have to have that something that attracts me, understand?

9 out of 10 times, the girl is not on my level, can't see what I'm doing and fall's for me.

If she fall's for me fast, she is weak and I gradually stop putting effort into getting her, knowing in the start that if this ever turned into a relationship - it would most likely end at some point.

That's when I go "aloof", as you put it (simply stop giving a fuck)

I.e. the hunt is better than the catch, in this case.

If however I meet the girl that's in the 1/10 range (very rare) - tactict's change.

These girl's can see exactly what I'm doing.

They will play the game, use similar tactic's brutally, play mindgames, go aloof, make you jealous without actually owning up to it like..ruthless bitches.

Now we have a power struggle on our hands and all feeling's are tuned down for the time being.

I'm not backing out - she's not backing out, so the psychological war goes on till either 1) we get to a point where we're both fed-up with each other (most of the time this is it) or 2) we understand that we both master manipulation etc. and join forces (rarely happens).

3) Same as #2 but we don't join forces..you never see a predator going for a predator.

If that makes sence.

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Man you guys get touchy so easily! But THANK YOU and I APPRECIATE your response. You literally just described my situation with this Virgo dude. We both have got eyes on each other, we won't give in but we won't let go either. Kinda annoying yet I don't give up that easily.

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Posted by Tom_Sawyer

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
If you have a person asking you out - who's really in control?



Now to your question.

I figure out quick what I want and go from there.

If a person has good qualities, I know there's potential, so little by little I start cutting the diamond to make it perfect.

If the person is trash - won't give them a second thought.

Is this Virgo enough for you?

Curious, what happens DURING the process of cutting that perfect diamond? are you testing her? actively talking to and/or asking questions? do you sometimes show interest but pull away at the same time?

I put them through various tests right from the start to see who they are.

The immature/not compadible ones drop themselves out without even knowing it.

The smart/wicked/what ever you choose to call them, those are the ones I go for.

You kind of have to see this in progress.

It can't be fully explained with words.

Interesting. Question, do you expect us to wait around until you decide you like us? Or are we allowed to casually talk to other guys during this process? Keep in mind we assume you have no interest bc you are all naturally aloof. Does that alone make up your minds and move on?

Right, because all Virgos are the same.

All we do is analyze a situation, don't do anything about it, analyze some more, then go radio silence.

smh..



The thing is..I don't go around just talking to every girl I see.

You have to have that something that attracts me, understand?

9 out of 10 times, the girl is not on my level, can't see what I'm doing and fall's for me.

If she fall's for me fast, she is weak and I gradually stop putting effort into getting her, knowing in the start that if this ever turned into a relationship - it would most likely end at some point.

That's when I go "aloof", as you put it (simply stop giving a fuck)

I.e. the hunt is better than the catch, in this case.

If however I meet the girl that's in the 1/10 range (very rare) - tactict's change.

These girl's can see exactly what I'm doing.

They will play the game, use similar tactic's brutally, play mindgames, go aloof, make you jealous without actually owning up to it like..ruthless bitches.

Now we have a power struggle on our hands and all feeling's are tuned down for the time being.

I'm not backing out - she's not backing out, so the psychological war goes on till either 1) we get to a point where we're both fed-up with each other (most of the time this is it) or 2) we understand that we both master manipulation etc. and join forces (rarely happens).

3) Same as #2 but we don't join forces..you never see a predator going for a predator.

If that makes sence.

Man you guys get touchy so easily! But THANK YOU and I APPRECIATE your response. You literally just described my situation with this Virgo dude. We both have got eyes on each other, we won't give in but we won't let go either. Kinda annoying yet I don't give up that easily.

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You should save yourself the time and move on..these constant game playing are a waste of time. You'll realise it soon enough.

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Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer

Posted by DarkLoneWolf

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
If you have a person asking you out - who's really in control?



Now to your question.

I figure out quick what I want and go from there.

If a person has good qualities, I know there's potential, so little by little I start cutting the diamond to make it perfect.

If the person is trash - won't give them a second thought.

Is this Virgo enough for you?

Curious, what happens DURING the process of cutting that perfect diamond? are you testing her? actively talking to and/or asking questions? do you sometimes show interest but pull away at the same time?

I put them through various tests right from the start to see who they are.

The immature/not compadible ones drop themselves out without even knowing it.

The smart/wicked/what ever you choose to call them, those are the ones I go for.

You kind of have to see this in progress.

It can't be fully explained with words.

Interesting. Question, do you expect us to wait around until you decide you like us? Or are we allowed to casually talk to other guys during this process? Keep in mind we assume you have no interest bc you are all naturally aloof. Does that alone make up your minds and move on?

Right, because all Virgos are the same.

All we do is analyze a situation, don't do anything about it, analyze some more, then go radio silence.

smh..



The thing is..I don't go around just talking to every girl I see.

You have to have that something that attracts me, understand?

9 out of 10 times, the girl is not on my level, can't see what I'm doing and fall's for me.

If she fall's for me fast, she is weak and I gradually stop putting effort into getting her, knowing in the start that if this ever turned into a relationship - it would most likely end at some point.

That's when I go "aloof", as you put it (simply stop giving a fuck)

I.e. the hunt is better than the catch, in this case.

If however I meet the girl that's in the 1/10 range (very rare) - tactict's change.

These girl's can see exactly what I'm doing.

They will play the game, use similar tactic's brutally, play mindgames, go aloof, make you jealous without actually owning up to it like..ruthless bitches.

Now we have a power struggle on our hands and all feeling's are tuned down for the time being.

I'm not backing out - she's not backing out, so the psychological war goes on till either 1) we get to a point where we're both fed-up with each other (most of the time this is it) or 2) we understand that we both master manipulation etc. and join forces (rarely happens).

3) Same as #2 but we don't join forces..you never see a predator going for a predator.

If that makes sence.

Man you guys get touchy so easily! But THANK YOU and I APPRECIATE your response. You literally just described my situation with this Virgo dude. We both have got eyes on each other, we won't give in but we won't let go either. Kinda annoying yet I don't give up that easily.

You should save yourself the time and move on..these constant game playing are a waste of time. You'll realise it soon enough.

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Definitely keeping my options open! I'm just not going to flaunt it in front of him.