Just another quick Virgo question.

So, the Virgo man told a mutual friend and I both, that he'd like to go out again. He did tell us both as well that he is very busy right now. He started a new job and they have lots of overtime.

I've kind of always been under the belief set that a man will make time to go out again no matter what, if he likes you. So, im kind of assuming hes not exactly interested in anything too serious right now.

He did a weird thing this week too. He had told me prior that he'd be in my town getting tattooed on Weds. Then that day he didn't mention it. And was down here with two friends. He found out myself and our mutual friend were down the street and only seemed interested to hang once he found that out. So I declined to go over to the tattoo shop.

I feel kind of confused because he was coming on pretty strong and now I cant tell if we're just friends or what. Its turned more cordial than flirtatious.

I'm not super invested either way just curious, if the whole "work" thing is really just. "Im not really interested."

how passive aggressive @Earthgoddess

not a very good rep for your kind, are you?

heliumfiasco sounds thirsty as fuck .... why don't you just send him a pic of your pussy lips and get it over with

Posted by P-Angel

heliumfiasco sounds thirsty as fuck .... why don't you just send him a pic of your pussy lips and get it over with

No one else on this site really gets under my skin. However, you are rude to literally everyone on here for no seemingly obviously reason. For someone that has such an inflated sense of mental superiority, you carry yourself really poorly. You're quite miserable. I hope at 48 you find something other than belittling strangers on an internet forum to bring you happiness. I genuinely mean that.

Posted by Earthgoddess
I usually dnt like to seem too interested so i tend to make myself "available" so i can be asked out.

Idk if thats wat hes doing but it does sound like hes making sure u know when hes close by.

If u take to long to make a direct mpve he might take that as disinterest and move on.

Ask him out!!!! Subtley

Like a random "hey wyd wanna catch this movie with me"

That way its no pressure to acknowledge the attraction. Now he declines a invite more than twice. Now on

He did text me first every single day. Ask me out, etc. I just didn't want to come off as aggressive or needy. Yesterday was the first day we didnt speak since we met. It was after me not going to the tattoo shop. Im not sure the deal. I dont know if im overthinking it, but I have felt a switch in energy.

I'm playing it very cool. I just come here to bounce ideas with strangers you dont want to bother friends with ya know? haha. And I appreciate the experience other have had.

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Posted by heliumfiasco

I've kind of always been under the belief set that a man will make time to go out again no matter what, if he likes you.

DXP propaganda.

But really, if he just started anew, how would it look that he was for example the only guy not clocking overtime? As the new guy....

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Very true! Which is why I wondered how a Virgo would prioritize ya know?

Oh yes, she definitely plays ... seems that playing is her only angle.

You're so desperate for this guy. It's a no wonder why you always come in here with this nonsense .. surely the people in your real life just roll their eyes at you for being so fucking thirsty for this man's dick, that you have no choice except to come in here and play stupid.

Next week, right on cue, there will be another ridiculous question coming from you

Posted by heliumfiasco
So, the Virgo man told a mutual friend and I both, that he'd like to go out again. He did tell us both as well that he is very busy right now. He started a new job and they have lots of overtime.

I've kind of always been under the belief set that a man will make time to go out again no matter what, if he likes you. So, im kind of assuming hes not exactly interested in anything too serious right now.

He did a weird thing this week too. He had told me prior that he'd be in my town getting tattooed on Weds. Then that day he didn't mention it. And was down here with two friends. He found out myself and our mutual friend were down the street and only seemed interested to hang once he found that out. So I declined to go over to the tattoo shop.

I feel kind of confused because he was coming on pretty strong and now I cant tell if we're just friends or what. Its turned more cordial than flirtatious.

I'm not super invested either way just curious, if the whole "work" thing is really just. "Im not really interested."

Well I think you should have gone to the tattoo shop if you were interested in him. It sounds to me like he was giving you an "opening" to hang. It's probably his way to test if you're interested in him as well.

As for saying he's busy with work, here's a different perspective. My Virguy friend is very busy, but makes it a point to say that he makes time for people he wants to. Maybe this was your Virguy's way of letting you know that he's busy but still wants to meet with you.

This is why I am not attracted to Virguys - too passive aggressive and insecure. However, they make good work partners if you can stand the annoying neurosis 🙂

As a Libra, you might want to try a more assertive and assured sign.

I do not miss the days of the hot cold, hot cold, hot cold....does he want me? Is he really THAT busy? Etc.

The "chase" is fun for a little while, but then it gets old & you don't have anything stable. Just wasted time.

Hope your case is different though! ??

Is this guy into you and your mutual friend?

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Posted by P-Angel
how passive aggressive @Earthgoddess

not a very good rep for your kind, are you?

Actually im a virgo so passive aggressive is our whole thing?? silly rabbitt. Maybe look that up.

Im a perfect representation thank you??

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Silly rabbit, maybe you better look it up.

No, you're not the perfect representation

Posted by heliumfiasco
I'm playing it very cool.

Bad idea.

Posted by SunMoonStars
- too passive aggressive and insecure

Y'all are tripping.

She said he called her every day. Wtf is passive about that?

Giving a person the opportunity to reciprocate isn't passive aggressive or insecure. If you can't even be bothered to meet me half way, even if I give you an opening for it because obviously you can't do it straight up...then there's no point to engage further.