Virgo & Trust is it real?

Hello Virgo's!

Ok so virgo and i have been together well over a year now!

TRUST IS AN ISSUE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP!

Virgo & i are so a like
We are jealous of each other
We feel hurt if we see each other enjoy time with the opposite sex.
We have the same rules because we both feel the same.

BUT HERE IS THE DIFFRENCE!!!
Virgo decided to take a flick through my inbox (when I wasn't looking)
But if I ask to look at his he??ll sure as hell give me a lecture about trust! (He will show me (everything is always deleted), but I cop a mouth ful) ?..

why does virgo go behind my back? and why does he speak of trust when he is going out of his way not to trust me?

It appears to me that you are looking for people to tell you how unfair this is .. you want this to be confirmed .. why else did you post a situation here about trust when you have been dating him for a year?

don't you know his character by now?


You should.


so, why then do you now need someone to tell you about his character in terms of it being fair or not?


You don't need it .... you apparantly just want someone on a side, your side, when in reality, they have no clue if its even true or not.






Here's the thing for those people who are reading this situation ... Virgos mirror, reflect. If you don't trust them, they don't trust you .. if you trust them, they trust you .. plain and simple.

This Aries girl doesn't trust her Virgo, is jealous of him if he even has an association with another female, even if it's platonic ...


"We are jealous of each other
We feel hurt if we see each other enjoy time with the opposite sex.
We have the same rules because we both feel the same."



And the above is not typical of a Virgo, who under normal circumstances has no problems with their partner having friends of the opposite gender. However, because they mirror thier partners energy, if their partner is possessive, they will be also, if the partner is jealous, they will be also.

Virgos follow their partners .... so, this man, who ordinarily wouldn't be like this, was actually trained to be so.

Posted by Ccdarling


Think of the pointless hours you have wasted on not trusting him. Let him do as he pleases and if you find out he cheats move on. But don't allow it to torment and control your life making you miserable.

It's doubtful that this girl is miserable. The insecure Aries girls actually love these feelings of mistrust/jealousy/possessiveness .... so, it's not pointless time.


It's been a year .. and she is still with him .. that should be evidence enough that this isn't an issue with her ... it's merely a situation in which she is likely arguing with him and has brought this fight in here to gain people to agree with her that he's wrong.


Because after a year's time ... she knows him, already and doesn't need input.

Or maybe she's not Aries, sure acts like a young one though.


Doesn't matter .... after a years time, this is merely a side-taking manuever.

Posted by P-Angel

Here's the thing for those people who are reading this situation ... Virgos mirror, reflect. If you don't trust them, they don't trust you .. if you trust them, they trust you .. plain and simple.

Quite true.

From my observations, Cancer women are too friendly with other men. Often time flirting and leading other men on, often time without even realising it.

Sure what he is doing is hypocritical, but there is obviously a substantiated reason.

A Cancer, no wonder.


A Virgo will never make it with one ..... Cancers are gamers, they create situations for people to respond to, rather than actually living what life has given.

And not that that's bad ... just not real enough for a Virgo.

Correct I am not miserable, I think my jealousy does play a major part in our relationship, im forever apologizing for my stupid assumptions!

.

I Love Virgo! He is an amazing person!


We are young ! I am stupid! I am so scared that I will mess everything up because I cant handle my emotions!

But it does not excuse him! everything i say and do is upfront over and over to his face asking him! annoying as hell ! but i am honest with my feelings..
I just want to understand why he goes behind my back?

I trust him! i think he made a mistake i made the situation very clear as a cancer does!

i trust he wont do it again!

do not try and tell me im some type of mirror! this is the only relationship i have ever acted in such a way!
he has a huge influence on all of it!

and Flirtation! well doesnt he love to rub that in my face! that boy has more female friends than most!
he wanted me to stop contact with male friends so i did!
he has changed alot aswell but not completely!

you have it twisted !

Not really.