Virgo Woman + Cap Man = Successful Relationship?

Hello All!

I'm new here; discovered DPX a couple of weeks ago.

I want to hear from Virgo women on whether or not a relationship with a Cap man could be a successful union. I am interested in one but due to him being so reserved and aloof, I am not sure if it's even worth the trouble of pursuing him, being patient and giving him time to move things at a speed comfortable for him. Although I??ve tried to initiate a conversation a couple of times, I didn't seem to get a positive response; however, I can tell that he is interested. So I am just wondering if any of you have experienced a similar situation where you were really interested in a Cap man but he was not giving you enough to go off of to determine if he was indeed interested in you. It's like getting mixed signals — he glances and hangs around as if observing you but not initiating anything and acting cold/aloof when you try to talk to him.
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In your own experience:
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1)———? Are Cap men typically shy in approaching women?
2)———? If so, do Cap men tend to prefer for a woman to make the first move or would they be turned off by it since they are traditional types in which case a man is supposed to pursue a woman?
3)———? What do you do/say in order to not appear pushy or impatient? — I feel that if I keep coming up to him to talk, he may freak out and think that I am desperate. However, if I don't do anything after

I??ve already let him know that I am interested in him, and now start ignoring him (not talking, not looking his way), he may decide that I was not all that interested in the first place. I guess the better question is — How do you keep your behavior around him balanced enough?
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I have other questions, but for now, these should do J Thank you in advance for all your input!!!
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I think this is without a doubt the best Sun sign match in the whole Zodiac and I am not a Virgo or a Cap. I keep seeing this match everywhere and I tell you all of them are in love. That stupid head over heels kind of love!!

Makes me wanna throw up. 😉

Hi Nala,

Thank you for youe insght. I also keep hearing about what a great match these 2 signs are. Surprised that no one else has given any input so far. Are there really no Virgo woman out here on the board who has had her own experience with a Cap man— 😢 I was really hoping to get some helpful adivce from you ladies...

^Thats why nobody likes Virgo women and everybody likes Virgo men^ 😄

CuriousOne,

Never dated a Cap man but from my general experience with them, when it comes to matters of the heart, they can be painfully shy, insecure, self-conscious and extremely hard on themselves...Sound familiar? Yeah, Virgos and Caps are allloooot alike. 🙂

I too had a similar situation like you.

Worked with a Cap man who was interested (although the feeling wasn't mutual, I was utterly intrigued by his intelligence, no-nonsense & hard working attitude, sophisticated style of dress, and aloof nature) but at first was really weird when it came to interaction. Whenever I would try to strike up a convo with him about anything outside of work, I could literally see panic telegraph across his face, lol. His cheeks would flush red and he'd just go radio silent on me.

Now, as I mentioned, I really had no romantic interest in him so I was just operating as my normal self, lol, but one day after a very weird encounter at the copy machine, I started to put two and two together. Up until this point I thought he just didn't really care for me--especially when we went on a staff lunch and he stayed completely away from me the whole time. As time went on and I guess after he realized that I was cool beans and that he could be himself around me, the compliments began to flow, then came the long chats (he literally followed me downstairs one day on my lunch break and stopped and talked me to death for the whole hour. At first I thought he had somewhere to go but then realized that his sole purpose was to talk to me, haha)

Like us, they are quite cautious and look for sure signs before putting themselves out there. Although I never gave him anything romantically to go on, that I was inviting and friendly was enough to get him to come out of his shell little by little. A week or two before I left the job, he came to talk to me to find out exactly what day I would be leaving and where I was headed. I knew he wanted to keep in touch but I just wasn't feeling it. *'Ye shrug*

As for you, since you say he is not very responsive and because not every two situations are the same and I don't want to give you false hope, I would say continue to keep it light. Like Virgo women, Cap men can be quite skittish if they feel pressured or as if someone is coming on too strong. Just remain friendly and open, and like a ninja (you're there but it's like you're not), lol. Trust me, if you follow this recipe and if he really is interested, in time he will open up.