virgo's intentions?

Hello everybody,

I have been working for nine months with a relative older virgo man, and hope that there is somebody out there which could help me understand his plans towards me; I am a libra and oh well, I do have my head in the clouds, when we started working together I could see on his face how frightened he was about my rather chaotic ways. Although he is highly, highly attractive (really, like Adonis or something) I decided not to allow myself to feel any type of attraction towards him; he already has a girlfriend and I've never taken into consideration to be the second lady of someone.

That until I met this guy at work, that besides having a heavenly body, also has incredible manners, is always very calm and really knows how to do everything. I don't know why, but it was instant attraction between us but he backed off and shut me out. At that moment I was happy with his decision, I really wanted to focus on my job so left him alone. One month later, after I refused some colleague's advances he suddenly started to be smile and make jokes every day, trying to get to know me. I literally could see his eyes watching me and recording everything I do, analyzing every single expression of me. And it doesn't stop here, in the past three months he came closer and closer to me, seeming to be like a very warm and carrying person. For example now we don't work in the same office anymore, but we keep communicate via some type of chat and he becomes more and more daring, making compliments and giving detailed answers about what he does during the day. The worse part of all this, is that I feel he helped me a lot in many ways which I am not even aware of; surely he has my respect. So far. He never brought up in discussion any feelings or intentions about me, but he probably will and I am scared to death of that moment.

Could a virgo man act THAT nice just for an affair? As I said, he already has a girlfriend, which is a taurus, so that should be a pretty solid and solid relationship. Has anybody experienced something like that?

Posted by Nicolli123


Could a virgo man act THAT nice just for an affair? As I said, he already has a girlfriend, which is a taurus, so that should be a pretty solid and solid relationship. Has anybody experienced something like that?

Just because he's dating a Taurus it doesn't indicate the relationship is solid. It appears as if he's having an emotional affair. He's being cautious. Methodical. Feeling you out, the situation. But judging by the way you're playing the fiddle and responding to his subtleties...this emotional affair will eventually find it's way into the bedroom.

I will have to agree with KingVirgo, your Virgo co-worker is intrigued...but nonetheless, wrong on ALL levels.

Whether you choose to pursue it or not...this will be your choice.

But keep in mind, his actions are highly inappropriate...why?...he's the one who has an obligation to his relationship.

Posted by Nicolli123

... he already has a girlfriend and I've never taken into consideration to be the second lady of someone.

You appear to have no morals .... you know there is a woman who is getting emotionally injured by your participation in trying to capture her man .... and it doesn't look like you have any concern about these actions of yours.

It looks like you only care about your own feelings ... you're the kind of female that is considered trash in my neck of the woods, and would have to venture out of her house with extreme caution .. get caught out alone, you'd get your ass whooped for stepping on another woman's territory.

As a virgo we can stray from our lovers with a wondering eye.

You cant find too many people who have respect for relationships nowadays....their own or other people's relationships. Whatever they feel at that moment is what they go by. No thought of consequences or hurting others. It happens all day every day every where.

Just speaking from a woman's point of view, there are loads of scandalous women out there who will do whatever takes to take man especially if he already has a woman his life. So disrespectful and thoughtless. Which means an ass whooping is definitely in order.

First of all I will have to thank you for all your responses and opinions. Perhaps I didn't make myself understood well enough, giving the fact that english is like my third language. I am not the one chasing him at all, we are colleagues, we need to work together 9 hours per day, non-stop. I am the only girl working in a team of more than fifty men and none of them even dared to propose something to me except that other colleague. I do keep a lot of distance from him and P-angel, I honestly don't understand how could you miss the point: I don't do this type of stuff, never so far, it's not on my agenda. Hope that's clear enough now. His flirt is quite passive-aggressive, keeps following me at lunch and do nothing, just stare. Or adds me on facebook, likes every photo i post but never approaches me on chat. Just like a silent stalker.

You all may call me a whore for finding this funny and intriguing, but that's the reality. He offered countless times to give me a ride home and always refused him, he even tried to invite me to his bday party and refused. Instead of that, at work I just try to do my job correctly while also being friendly and warm, to everybody, not just to him.

As I said, he helped me a lot without even me wanting to know it - for example, i had to leave work extremely fast but couldn't before receiving a rapport, so he went to the supervisor and told him to hurry up. He didn't tell me that, he just entered the office with a huge smile on his face. I had to find that out the next day from someone else, by accident. That's something else I can't understand.


I tend to agree with KingVirgo and TaurusBull1977, I'm probably misleading him by reacting on his actions, it would be just damn easier if I wouldn't blush when he's around, it's a pretty embarrassing posture. I am also a very nervous type, always moving my hands when feeling uncomfortable, and that happens only when he is around - so it's a silly situation. How do you stop from being naturally attracted to someone? Haha. And if I don't answer him to personal questions on the chat thing, he just starts to ask me about work and find excuses to come back to the office. How could I react to that?

And sunnyvirgo83, you were right, his ability to be focused is one of the things that keeps me intrigued, just like my ability to keep my head in the clouds (i do sometimes come down from there and start being very rational, only when needed) is probably what's intriguing him. And I

Haha well sunnyvirgo83, working with men is definitely not easy, they really are like children sometimes and it takes a lot of patience to deal with their egos.. and they like to eat a lot of candies haha, everybody is happy when there's chocolate on the desk 🙂

GeorgiaPeach, the only reason why this guy hasn't cheated his girlfriend is because I didn't go forward with it. Not sure if you also included me into that category of women, as an air sign with a sagittarius rising, I like to have as much freedom as possible, doing my own stuff while trying not to hurt anybody (don't know if you ever succeeded in that, I sure did not), so I can't really follow your logic. What is your sign if I may ask?