Virgo's worst fear: being an inconvenience?

Or one of them, at least.

One of the things I have the most trouble with is asking for help. I hate to appear vulnerable, and I hate feeling like I can't take care of things on my own.

As of right now, I just moved into a summer house with two of my friends until the fall semester starts again; the house is still in a little disarray, and my roommate and I don't have beds yet while the primary owner does. I stayed with my other friend for the first night while my roommate stayed with another. I often stay at this friend's house since she is one of my other roommates on campus and my best friend; her mother treats me like one of her own; however, I still have trouble making myself at home completely. I couldn't bring myself to ask if I could stay another night (the house is placed in the woods and a bit creepy at night, especially when you are alone) even though the mother openly suggested it before I said anything. Also, the fact that I won't be getting my car until about two weeks (hopefully) makes me very anxious because I can't stand the thought of having to rely on someone else to get me around until then. I'd rather sit at home and wait.

The worst feeling doesn't come from feeling weak, but having to go out of my independence to ask for help and feeling like I'm taking the time and energy of someone else. I am far more comfortable providing help for someone else, not the other way around.

Nah, virgos worst fear is being dependent of people. Virgos don\'t care for people as a society or a whole, and there are several reasons. Everything is finite and made upon concepts that have no true factual evidence besides the perception of how they view and feel the situation of the moment, nothing last forever (besides plastic). In astrological terms, every sign needs people to influence them, but a virgo needs nobody to continue. The lonely hermit, the proud matyre, and the internal cynic. Everybody on here can give 10 reasons for having a purpose but a virgo has only one and its to live until death or until transcendence. Virgos are depressing to everyone but themselves because they learn as children that all is retuned to gia, so they only turn their sorrow toward the people of suffering, weak, and lost in order to return the favor back to mother earth. They wish to help people establish proper rules and laws to keep order and people from killing each other. Yet, this order does not involve \"passion\" because everyone wants to keep possessions for themselves rather than give anything in return. Which leads to the prime factor of duty, a commitment that people must take in order to prove loyalty toward their commitment, but people live within the moment of time. This leads the virgo to feel that the world is a place only made up of animals not intellectuals, and they leave themselves detatched emotionally from everyone and lead a lonely journey to seek a transcendence rather than any other luxury.


^^ This is just a description of the virgo sign not the people within...but you can think of it as soo.

Agreed with wgamador, you should allow people to give you stuff at times. It makes people feel good that you accept their gifts.

I know how you feel Candeh, I hate help.

Feeling useless is one of my great fears.

Posted by valeria25
^^ Awww, CJ! There's so many people in this world that need so much help. You wouldn't believe... you're very much needed! *huggles*

Yay for huggles!

*turns bright red*

Posted by virg_goki

@cajun: LOL you'd do anything to get the love around here, do you? 😄 Valeria treat him well, he seems to be turning into your cyber puppy jkjk

*rolls over on his back and wags his tail*

Posted by valeria25

You guys are hilarious!! 😄

*tickles CJ's belly*

*leg kicks furiously, while his tongue hangs out his mouth*

lmao