Virgos being unable to verbalize their thoughts?

So, I often have an issue with explaining exactly what is going on in my head. Sometimes I'll have a lot of thoughts going on, and they'll make perfect sense in my head, but whenever I try to explain them, I can't really get it right. I'll have to pause, analyze, think of the right way to express my thoughts, then explain. Sometimes it causes me to be misunderstood when I want to state an opinion because I can't really explain it the way I want to.

So, is this a problem with other virgos or an individual thing?

Virgo is realistic and forward, with everything but their emotions.
We are similar to gemini, gemini are dual, emotional warm and logical cold.
Both these dides can manifest themselves in any given moment.
The Virgo has a similar trait, except, the logical cold side is always forward and presenting, and the emotional warm side is always hidden beneath it.
It is literally a solar eclipse when the emotional warm side will come fully forward and be able to manifest those thoughts completely. That's only when, the logical mind cold mind has been soothed enough to let that transparency out, or the said virgo has their emotional limbic brain come over them because of alcohol or drugs.

This problem is real, though I rarely encounter it.

I find myself excellent in expressing my thoughts or at least trying to.

I believe the real problem sweetie is the lack of logic in other signs. Virgos are just generally misunderstood I am afraid.

Posted by virg_goki

Posted by sikkario

It is literally a solar eclipse when the emotional warm side will come fully forward and be able to manifest those thoughts completely. That's only when, the logical mind cold mind has been soothed enough to let that transparency out, or the said virgo has their emotional limbic brain come over them because of alcohol or drugs.

yes, therefore alcohol is my best friend at suitable situations. Period.

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agreed!!!!

Looking back, I realized that I can explain most of my logical thoughts, however I sometimes tend to think outside the box, and when I try to explain those thoughts, they don't really come out correctly since they aren't necessarily "the norm." And when there are thoughts that involve my emotions, like when I'm showing my empathetic side, they don't really make sense, at least to others.

I remember I was watching a movie with some friends, and they were all arguing against the main character about his persona, and I just sat there silently. Then finally I spoke up with a point that was completely opposite theirs as I tried to explain how the main character was feeling, and I was just shot down. Although, it didn't really come out right either, lol.

IF it's a fact, I can easily explain my point. I can get straight to it. However, if it involves going much further, something that requires more depth and heart, it gets a little harder for me or at least to have others understand where I'm coming from.

I use to have a bottle of jack daniels to get extremely wasted on, so i can tell my family how much i loved them. Although i am a native american, I didn't want to be hooked on it like many of my other relatives and commit suicide or allow my life to go down hill, so i had to build my "emotional" vocabulary more in order to make it seem as though it isn't forced.

Just a site note, If you ever want to see an emotional virgo then give him a bottle of hard liquor or beer, and you'll get yourself a very emotional guy or gal, but you shouldn't do this for long because they become extremely agressive and will want to hurt or kill you...Trust me on that. (A good reason why our sober minds keep us from doing such a think because murder is second to organizing and helping)

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney

i had to build my "emotional" vocabulary more in order to make it seem as though it isn't forced

Just a site note, If you ever want to see an emotional virgo then give him a bottle of hard liquor or beer, and you'll get yourself a very emotional guy or gal, but you shouldn't do this for long because they become extremely agressive and will want to hurt or kill you...Trust me on that. (A good reason why our sober minds keep us from doing such a think because murder is second to organizing and helping)

Exactly right. I love you man.

Posted by coorkie
Instant courage... But I feel that if we are capable of saying such things while inebriated we need suck it up and say those kinds of things while sober... True, I'm not gunna go sloppily crying to the nearest person w/ my boogers hanging out... I feel like we need to disperse those sort of feelings in our everyday life so that it doesn't build up in a way that makes us explode w/ emotion out of nowhere... Idk if I'm making any sense.. lol =P

Lol. This is so true. I used to be the Virguy who got drink to be cool, and just ended up drinking too much and losing al the positive qualities of my sign, ie, reason, discreation etcetera.

It's so funny, but ya, Virgos have a tendency to just emotionally meltdown at varying intervals, and end up balling/going violent when noone expects it and then being totally normal for the next months, year, years ha.

I wonder how many Virgo guys ahve formed relationships based on the fact some friend-girl, was around when they began to revisit his childhood abuse mentally and she ended up nursing him out of it. I know I have...Ya I'm sordid.

^^ Every virgo guy has done this at some point. Once, they allow themselves to bask within the meltdown, come out of the emotional force or shock then it only takes a bit of time for them to become "whole". Nobody gets this besides virgos or people who are extremly close to several virgo males.

Another side note, the emotional outburst and acceptence of deeper feelings doesn't come from "age" it comes from the intimacy of a specific person or a scape-goat to help them break the seal of their other side. Again, only a virgo or person close to them will understand...

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Exactly right. I love you man.

Still sexy...*grinds teeth* haha.