What do you Virguys Want—

So, I was under the impression that you Virguys wanted the 'perfect' woman.

Well, I played it straight upon our first meeting. I was a total lady, wowed his friends, made a great impression.

Then my Virguy friend says that we may not be a match because he is a nympho and I'm more conservative...

I told him that I'm a nympho too, only that sex is sacred to me and that I have to know someone for more than ONE DATE!!!

He bobbed, he weaved... He said he was going to come see me, but when I told him no sex, he made up some lame ass story.

Now, aside from him not willing to put in the time to know me, what the hell do Virguys want? If I woulda had sex with him on the first date, he would have dismissed me as a slut. If I hold out, he views me as a prude.

What gives with you guys?

I think his first intention from the get-go was to get into your pants. :/

i'm sorry. 😱

that, or his friends talked him into getting some more than getting to know some (stuff about you)

yeah that quippy statement really doesn't work lol.

slap him with the truth and how you perceive everything between you two. that'll clear the air. 😄

Personally I want an honest compassionate women who's attractive and encouraging and goal oriented. I don't want the woman at the bar EXPECTING to get hit on and angry when a guy approaches her with a true "hi" instead of some tired line.

Yeah right ... I've heard that one before 🙂

You know Branh, I normally tend to agree with your posts. I always seem to like the way you present yourself in a manner consistent with an intelligent psychopath. I even applauded your candor on the other thread I posted about meeting this chap, and the fears I had about not finding him attractive.

But on this post, buddy, you could not be MORE wrong! Like I said, I didn't find his pics attractive at all. I never, ever lead him on in any sort of way. I am the kind of person that I want to know someone as a friend first, see if we can carry a conversation. I am a single mom. Getting to the heart of what a man I am seeing is after-- that is my first concern. That is why I take things sloooooowwww.. I'm in no rush at all. I will never, ever let my son see me as a w#ore. In fact, I've been celibate for the last 2 years.

We kissed on our date. We had a good time talking with his friends. I kept my legs closed and neither of us talked about sex. Like I said, I was a LADY! Imagine that!!

Then, the next day, he texts me saying that I'm too conservative for him. Hmmmm..

That is the jist of it. If Virgos are after the 'perfect' woman, well here I am!!! But then again, maybe they have a warped opinion of the world, just like you do, Branh.

Well hooray the ugly guy is gone!

No worries. you were planing on canceling on him before anyway.

Honey moon over?

My bad. I posted an update to that situation on the Scorpio boards.

When I met him, he looked much better in person. We had a fabulous date. Hence, this post...

I love it!

this is a great example on the topic of "why people who hate getting their pictures taken because they're not photogenic and why".

see how your opinion on him changed so much? 😄

i also want to take back my first post.

that's a great example on the topic of "the internet really can't help you in real life situations because nobody on here knows him in any form except for you so everyone has to go off of what they judge"