What is Mr Virgo Trying To Tell ME?

Hi Everyone,

Yesterday I sent a casual instant message to Mr Virgo to see where he is going last night. I guess he receivd my msg a few hours later and replied to me via text msg around 10ish. I was already sleeping because I decided to stay in, but I just came back from a vacation out of the country so I am a little jetlagged and kept waking up every hour from his text msg's and missed call. To keep the story short, he called after exchanging txt msgs and I invited him to "visit" me and he agreed. So yes, we made out, but no sex (which I thought he would initiate) since this whole scenario looks like a booty call. He spent the night, we woke up and made out again, then we had a talk. He said, that we should hang out during normal hours and not when he's/I'm drunk. He repeated this a few times and he also told me that he is on a break w/ his gf and he doesn't want me to be "that girl" because last time we got together was the time he was on a break with his gf (again no sex). We started talking about past relationships and briefly about his problems with his xgf. They are both still in grad school and just waiting for the semester to end and then they're going to have the "talk". I told him from experience that "you already know if things are going to work out or not...you just have that GUT feeling" and he agreed. So we talked/flirted/hung out for about an hour after he already ssaid 3 times (or more) that he needs to go. FInally, we said our goodbyes and he hugged me for a long time. He held me for about 3 or 4 minutes and he did it again when I walked him to the door. And again he said he wants to hang out. So what do u guys think? Does he want something more from me? Does he already know that things are over between him n his gf? Does he want to date me? Right now, I'm just mingling in the dating scene and taking things very lightly. I actually have strong interest on some libra guy and then this guy came along unexpectedly. I am going to keep my other dates until I kno for sure that he wants something serious. I just want to know if this guy is worth waiting for.

Thanks in advance,
capris (capricorn woman)

According to this board, virgos are sincere. I have met so many a-holes telling me how they want something serious...blah blah and no follow through. My Virgo said he wants to hang out more and during normal hours. Is he being sincere? He sounded sincere, but you could never tell w/ guys nowadays.

When a virgo says they want to hang out with you more, it's so they can get to know you for who you really are / your personality better before they get into anything further. He'll go away and think about it, and end up deciding whether you stay in the friend basket or whether he wants more from you. I think it's a pretty good sign that he's not going to stuff you around no matter what the outcome is, they're usually sincere. It may take him a while to figure it out though, but again he will be honest with you once he knows.

He repeated this a few times and he also told me that he is on a break w/ his gf and he doesn't want me to be "that girl" because last time we got together was the time he was on a break with his gf (again no sex).

Typical Virgo behavior. He has a "loose end" to deal with before he can fully explore a relationship with you. He won't sleep with you until the previous relationship is officially over... Bravo! Good Boy! He felt you out about meeting you when you're both sober, so he can see the Real You. The fact that he made the request means: He's serious, and he's Interested.

Now, while he gets out of Relationship #1, you have time to consider whether or not you're interested in starting a relationship with him...

Hmm sounds good. Thanks for the replies! So do u guys think that he already knows things are not going to work out w/ Relationship #1? Like I told him, "he would know if things are working out by his gut feeling" and he agreed to my statement.

So do u guys think that he already knows things are not going to work out w/ Relationship #1?

Yes. He also tried to tell you he's getting ready to End It with Her. In Virgo-Speak, he's saying, "Please be patient. I like you, and I see some potential with Us, but I gotta end it with her first."

Thanks DyarStra?e! That made my day🙂 I guess I just needed reassurance. I will definitely update u guys in a few days...weeks...who knows.

Hmm, interesting ...

I'm bit of a pickle with a virgo myself capris -- for crying out sideways, why do they pull away?

dammit! I can't stop thinking about Mr. Virgo. I was ok, having fun dating, then this virgo pops back in the picture and messed up my emotional equilibrium. I hate this feeling, but at the same time I like it. I was ok not talking to the guys I'm seeing for 2 weeks cuz I know one of them will call me and now I'm messed up! I haven't heard from him since the last time I saw him (saturday) and it's driving me insane! One of my girlfriends who is a virgo thinks that things might work out w/ this guy after I told her what he said and the little things he did. At the same time, I have this doubt that it may go either way (back to his xgf or pick me) only because of my past relationships and a-holes I've met.

wish me luck!

Thanks mike. I agree with u. I actually thought about that too and that is why I can't stop thinking about it. He said he had to wait until the end of his grad program and they're going to have a "talk.' He also sounded like he's scared of the day. So yah...I'm getting a feeling that I'm 2nd choice here. *sigh*

That's what I'm going to do sagi. Thanks. I just realized this now.

He didn't seem indecisive. When I said, " u know if a relationship is working out or not cuz you jus have that GUT feeling" and he agreed. He didn't hesitate. He just said, "you're right."

You're right.

Honestly no and just I'm expecting the worse.

I am going to wait and see until this weekend. It hasn't been a week. After that I'm going to drop it. Mike and Star, you guys are probably right on the money.

I'm sorry I mean Mike, Sagi, and Strings, you guys are probably right on the money...

I sent Mr Virgo an email and basically said, "If yo u have no intentions of taking me seriously, then we need to stop talking."

i wish you posted that before I sent the email. oh well..it's done. I will update u guys if I get a reply.