what should a cap's do when virgos asks for space?

what should a capricorn do when a virgo asks for space?

Hi never really been into star signs but my friend with benefits is, she used to refer to us as affectionate friends.

Looks like as a result of personal family issues on top of other dramas that she is exposed to in her life, she is asking
me for space and cutting off contact with me, claims im suffocating her when tour frequency of communication and
interaction has only decreased not increased in the last 2 weeks.

Since she sent me a link to let me know what Virgo's are about and that Virgos need space its led me to the question of
what should i do as a capricorn man and friend that genuinely cares do knowing that she is is pain?

I could be wrong and it could be that she sees this situation as an opportunity to cut me off?

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
All you really can do is give her the time and space that she needs. We're prone to this kind of behavior, and we know when we need to back off from someone and deal with other priorities or recharge our batteries. If she feels like you're continuing to crowd her after she's asked for some breathing room then that can lead to some lasting resentment and general crabbiness where you're concerned. And if and when she's ready to return, she'll find you.

Thanks TMV for sharing -
Can you explain how just letting someone know your there for them can lead to resentment, the last thing i want is to make this worse? - It might be obvious to others but its a real struggle for me to know someone is hurting and just let them be, especially when this Virgo is so caring and usually very kind to others. I really find it frustrating that i cant be there and show care for someone that has been there for me

Posted by Cap17
what should a capricorn do when a virgo asks for space?

Hi never really been into star signs but my friend with benefits is, she used to refer to us as affectionate friends.

Looks like as a result of personal family issues on top of other dramas that she is exposed to in her life, she is asking
me for space and cutting off contact with me, claims im suffocating her when tour frequency of communication and
interaction has only decreased not increased in the last 2 weeks.

Since she sent me a link to let me know what Virgo's are about and that Virgos need space its led me to the question of
what should i do as a capricorn man and friend that genuinely cares do knowing that she is is pain?

I could be wrong and it could be that she sees this situation as an opportunity to cut me off?

et a response

Send a little note every now and again letting her know that your thinking about her. Just keep it no pressure and don't fret if you don't get a response...

Posted by Hairazor

Posted by Cap17
what should a capricorn do when a virgo asks for space?

Hi never really been into star signs but my friend with benefits is, she used to refer to us as affectionate friends.

Looks like as a result of personal family issues on top of other dramas that she is exposed to in her life, she is asking
me for space and cutting off contact with me, claims im suffocating her when tour frequency of communication and
interaction has only decreased not increased in the last 2 weeks.

Since she sent me a link to let me know what Virgo's are about and that Virgos need space its led me to the question of
what should i do as a capricorn man and friend that genuinely cares do knowing that she is is pain?

I could be wrong and it could be that she sees this situation as an opportunity to cut me off?

et a response

Send a little note every now and again letting her know that your thinking about her. Just keep it no pressure and don't fret if you don't get a response...

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thanks i guess i just wanted to be able to put a smile on her face and give her that outlet of the chaos.

Posted by Cap17

Posted by Hairazor

Posted by Cap17
what should a capricorn do when a virgo asks for space?

Hi never really been into star signs but my friend with benefits is, she used to refer to us as affectionate friends.

Looks like as a result of personal family issues on top of other dramas that she is exposed to in her life, she is asking
me for space and cutting off contact with me, claims im suffocating her when tour frequency of communication and
interaction has only decreased not increased in the last 2 weeks.

Since she sent me a link to let me know what Virgo's are about and that Virgos need space its led me to the question of
what should i do as a capricorn man and friend that genuinely cares do knowing that she is is pain?

I could be wrong and it could be that she sees this situation as an opportunity to cut me off?

et a response

Send a little note every now and again letting her know that your thinking about her. Just keep it no pressure and don't fret if you don't get a response...

thanks i guess i just wanted to be able to put a smile on her face and give her that outlet of the chaos.

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yeah can be confusing but if its the case i accept it - she has become someone care about - even though that surprises me in its self.

Posted by Hairazor

Posted by Cap17
what should a capricorn do when a virgo asks for space?

Hi never really been into star signs but my friend with benefits is, she used to refer to us as affectionate friends.

Looks like as a result of personal family issues on top of other dramas that she is exposed to in her life, she is asking
me for space and cutting off contact with me, claims im suffocating her when tour frequency of communication and
interaction has only decreased not increased in the last 2 weeks.

Since she sent me a link to let me know what Virgo's are about and that Virgos need space its led me to the question of
what should i do as a capricorn man and friend that genuinely cares do knowing that she is is pain?

I could be wrong and it could be that she sees this situation as an opportunity to cut me off?

et a response

Send a little note every now and again letting her know that your thinking about her. Just keep it no pressure and don't fret if you don't get a response...

click to expand

thanks i guess it could of been worse - just didn't expect something like this - i mean the deal was open communication so if something changes we could just have a chat

Posted by Cap17

Posted by Hairazor

Posted by Cap17
what should a capricorn do when a virgo asks for space?

Hi never really been into star signs but my friend with benefits is, she used to refer to us as affectionate friends.

Looks like as a result of personal family issues on top of other dramas that she is exposed to in her life, she is asking
me for space and cutting off contact with me, claims im suffocating her when tour frequency of communication and
interaction has only decreased not increased in the last 2 weeks.

Since she sent me a link to let me know what Virgo's are about and that Virgos need space its led me to the question of
what should i do as a capricorn man and friend that genuinely cares do knowing that she is is pain?

I could be wrong and it could be that she sees this situation as an opportunity to cut me off?

et a response

Send a little note every now and again letting her know that your thinking about her. Just keep it no pressure and don't fret if you don't get a response...

thanks i guess it could of been worse - just didn't expect something like this - i mean the deal was open communication so if something changes we could just have a chat

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i really appreciate your insights here - i feel like i want her to know that i understand now that i have gotten feed back here, something like - "Hey i get why you need space right now -sorry i didnt get it before"

You're lucky that she let you know. I do that when I really care about the guy & don't want him to end things when I disappear. But how the guy handle my disappearance is important. I don't know about other female virgos, but sending me a message to show that you think of me will make me roll eyes & annoy me more if I've told you that I want space. To me, I want space means I'm gonna disappear and you should disappear Too, until I get in touch with you. Failing to do so will not make me come back to you fast.

Geez we virgals really are something else lol. No wonder most people dont stick around...
Im so guilty of this myself but reading others say it...its just so cold hearted..even if we dont mean to be or think so ourselves.


I actually like a msg here or there (maybe my Leo parts)...it kind of breaks me out of my funk...just dont let it be a everyday thing or yes that will get annoying.
I would listen to what others have said...majority are on the same page then me. give her the space and she'll contact you when she is ready.