Where did my virgo go~~

Well, I want to tell about my experience with Virgo guy. Back to mid 2014, this man and I known each other for the first time. We were close and more close, until 6 months later, we were distant and more distant and lack of communication. One of the reasons is we are in LDR. I was tired about this situation then I pulled out.

I known the moment he is excited is the moment he receive birthday greeting from me. In 2015, I still sent one to him, and unsuprisingly he was happy. In the end of that year, I decided to break up this relationship, I tried to start this conversation genuinely, but he didnt respond my message at all. But I received The silence treatment is approval sign for me.

Then I moved on with my life. I focused on my career, friends, family, I went holidays. And I met some men during my single phase. We were just close but not intimate. Until I found out they also dated another girls. That is my biggest turn off button.

Suprisingly, that experiences brought me to virgo guy memories. I realized that he is the only man who loves me genuinely and dearly. He is the only man who gave me advice when I felt down in my career, got me medicine when I was sick, asked me to go to check up in hospital.

2 years no contact, in 2017 I made sure to my self and tried really hard to be brave to send him birthday greeting. But, He didnt respond to my message at all. Bact to 2016, I didnt give one to him, even tho I knew He was hopeful to receive one from me, just by using fake account to add my skype, he wanted to know if I am still alive. But I enjoyed my life that time.

But until today, a week later after his bday, I dont receive his respond yet.

Is still mad or does he move on already??

There is sad feeling. A mix feeling and thought between hopeful and giving up. Should I move on with my life?

He is my first virgo guy who came into my life. I love how the way you virgo love me. He is my partner, bestfriend, brother, colleagues, partner in crime.

You are so lovely, virgo!

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Love,

Sag woman here waiting "where did my virgo go~~

Posted by TurquoiseArrow
I am sure he is still in the same place he was when you ended the relationship.

So you ended the relationship, found another guy but when you found out he was seeing another woman, you got really jealous of him.....?

You sound like a Sag I know..... ——?

I dont think he went to far.

So do you think he is mad with me...

I dont think it is more to blind jealous. With reasons instead. I am okay if he has women friends, if he is still contact his ex with some reasons. As long as he tells me. But if I found out by my self that he sees someone else, there is no barrier for me to walk out. ??

Just like my virgo guy did to me. He told everything due to his women friends and ex. I personally just dont like as well if someone get jealous to me.

What is you sign, btw? ?

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Posted by TurquoiseArrow
I am sure he is still in the same place he was when you ended the relationship.

So you ended the relationship, found another guy but when you found out he was seeing another woman, you got really jealous of him.....?

You sound like a Sag I know..... ——?

I dont think he went to far.

So do you think he is mad with me...

I dont think it is more to blind jealous. With reasons instead. I am okay if he has women friends, if he is still contact his ex with some reasons. As long as he tells me. But if I found out by my self that he sees someone else, there is no barrier for me to walk out. ??

Just like my virgo guy did to me. He told everything due to his women friends and ex. I personally just dont like as well if someone get jealous to me.

What is you sign, btw? ?

virgo

Well you give up on him because of the long distance relationship. Personally I dont like someone that just gives up. Maybe explain to him why or what caused you to give up.

I dont stay in contact with exes...the only way I would is if I had a child with an ex and only for the childs benefit. The other way would be if she shot an arrow in my heart.....and called herself robinhood.

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LOL ?

I remembered he even told me that he wants to look long term relationship when we started ours. Deep down, I feel so honoured that there is a man want to be with me for long term. It is only from you, virgo! After all men came into my life.

I honestly want to open discussion about our situation, the distance. But I dont know how. I just want us to find the solution without hard confession or criticsm to him. I knew he doesnt like to get criticsm from others.

Even last year, I visited again to his city by my self and stayed a night, but I didnt tell him. I was too scared to contact him. I feel like that city is like my second home.

Thanks to your straight and sincere opinion anyway! Wise and funny at the same time ??

Have you closed to Sag before?

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Posted by TurquoiseArrow
I am sure he is still in the same place he was when you ended the relationship.

So you ended the relationship, found another guy but when you found out he was seeing another woman, you got really jealous of him.....?

You sound like a Sag I know..... ——?

I dont think he went to far.

So do you think he is mad with me...

I dont think it is more to blind jealous. With reasons instead. I am okay if he has women friends, if he is still contact his ex with some reasons. As long as he tells me. But if I found out by my self that he sees someone else, there is no barrier for me to walk out. ??

Just like my virgo guy did to me. He told everything due to his women friends and ex. I personally just dont like as well if someone get jealous to me.

What is you sign, btw? ?

virgo

Well you give up on him because of the long distance relationship. Personally I dont like someone that just gives up. Maybe explain to him why or what caused you to give up.

I dont stay in contact with exes...the only way I would is if I had a child with an ex and only for the childs benefit. The other way would be if she shot an arrow in my heart.....and called herself robinhood.

LOL ?

I remembered he even told me that he wants to look long term relationship when we started ours. Deep down, I feel so honoured that there is a man want to be with me for long term. It is only from you, virgo! After all men came into my life.

I honestly want to open discussion about our situation, the distance. But I dont know how. I just want us to find the solution without hard confession or criticsm to him. I knew he doesnt like to get criticsm from others.

Even last year, I visited again to his city by my self and stayed a night, but I didnt tell him. I was too scared to contact him. I feel like that city is like my second home.

Thanks to your straight and sincere opinion anyway! Wise and funny at the same time ??

Have you closed to Sag before?

he probally seems like he does not like criticism but inside he prolly welcomes it so as to better him self.

if the guy loves you he want like criticise you. he will help you or ask if you want or nedd help. note there is a huge difference.

so just tell him you want to have a discussion about things and you want him to have an open mind about it with you. he will either agree or not agree to doing it. if you meant something to him then he will agree to having it.

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I think I am the one who always got criticism, from him. ?

I dont mind with him who is focus on work and making money, who stays in different city, his personality. But I personally just have an issue with our distance. When I have visited him, he even responded it was very kind of me. But If it is related to regular visit, I am also doubt. It needs money. LOL since He and I are realistic ones.

He is typical someone who is more to chase someone else. I cant imagine if I discuss about it with him.

I have been thinking to tell him a genuine thank you message, before that discussion tho. For everything he gave to me, to be a little bit better person. From what I really feel and realise about him. He will probably runaway. ?

Thanks for your suggestions anyway!

I assume you are september virgo, arent you? Sorry if I am wrong.

It sounds more like you want him back. You want what you had with him. Which from his point of view ..... is a bit like throwing him away then deciding that nahhhhh I rather have you ard. Not the nicest way to treat someone.

Posted by Machchu2
It sounds more like you want him back. You want what you had with him. Which from his point of view ..... is a bit like throwing him away then deciding that nahhhhh I rather have you ard. Not the nicest way to treat someone.

It seemed like that.

When I left this relationship, with a reason. Our condition that we both knew.

But whenever I went I always remember him and his kindness. But yeah everyone has their own flaw, include me.

I never ever came back to my past relationship or exes before, like ever. When its done, its done. But with him, it changed my point of view.

I dont know, he probably thinks like what you think. ??

I wonder though, how far will you go for him?