Why are Virgo men so unemotional over the phone?

How come they can't express what they feel in words? What's the best way they express themselves? How do you know that they've just fallen head over heels for you?

I'm not speaking about phone, but they speak quite alot more when there is nobody in 1 km vicinity of you and him.

Um AtlanticMyst,

I'm not having a go at you or anything... but this is like um-teenth post you've made with websites posted on the inside. Can you please shorten this post? Maybe get rid of all the white space in the middle or something?..Or have a hyperlink to original post with all the websites in it?

It just makes the anything written afterwards easier to read.
Thanks.

Hey Miriam,
Remember that Virgo is an earth sign. They rather communicate with you face to face so that they can not only hear you, but to see the expressions on your face, smell your scent, and touch you. You never know, while they're un-emotional on the phone they are probably thinking about you as they are speaking to you. You know, trying to visualize you mentally. The biggest expressions of emotion from a Virgo is when they are face to face with you and alone in your company.

Miriam,
I responded from what the topic said, but I read your first post to see what was really asked.How do you know if a Virgo fell head over heels for you? Well, one thing for sure is that you'll feel it. They'll have difficulty vocalizing it, but it's strongly in their actions towards you. They'll do alot of little things for you that you might not take notice of at first. It'll be little things that says "I like you" or "I love you." You just have to pay very close and careful attention. Good luck.

Oh boy, maybe some older Virgo can enlighten us. I(Virgo male) am 32, and I still don't understand why. All I know is that all my females in my life, complain repeteadly about my detachement on the phone. They also complain that I never ever call them, and that they have to do "all the calling". The only reason they put up with it though, is because I am very affectionate with them in person. Besides, phone aside, I am a great friend.

All I know is that I hate speaking on the phone, with a passion. My personal limit is about 1 minute. Even with the person who makes my blood boil.

Trust me, I would love to change, but I just can't. I just learnt to live with it. For example, in the begining phases of a friendship with a female, I inform her, point blank, that phone is not my style , that does not mean that I do not care, and if she want's to stay in touch, just e-mail me and let's talk over a glass of wine. Girl's I am dating, get no explanation though. They also never complain. I guess they're afraid to sound needy.

Also, if one of my many friends, want's to hook me up with somebody, and they offer to give me their phone number, I politely decline. Are you kidding me? I suck so bad on the phone. There would be zero chance of something actually happening.....
Same goes for getting phone numbers in a bar. I never ask a girl for her phone number.
No matter how amazing she is. Well, with exceptions - if we make out and kiss, or have sex in the bathroom - then yea.

Atlantic Myst...did what you said...went to the compatibility chart and can't understand head or tail of it!! Help!! Can you decipher what it means?! Help would greatly be appreciated!

Your daily transits:

01/01/1981 Aspect 09/15/1975 Orb/Value
Venus Sextile Mercury 0.50 237
Venus Opposition Mars 0.02 -259
Neptune Trine Jupiter 0.00 70
Pluto Opposition Jupiter 1.05 -106
Mars Opposition Saturn 1.24 -169
Uranus Trine Saturn 1.24 58
Mars Square Uranus 0.53 -77
Jupiter Sextile Neptune 0.21 128
Saturn Sextile Neptune 0.19 110
Jupiter Conjunction Pluto 1.04 214
Saturn Conjunction Pluto 1.02 179

Ok Miriam, I have done a few compatibility charts- and what you really should start with (before dealing with compatibility) is your own natal chart.

I did mine on 0800 Horoscope

Do yours and his- it's a LONG report and any report worth it's salt will tell you what all those aspects on your chart means. Once you understand the individual aspects are, you can then think about looking at a compatibility chart.

BUT- I'll say this, compatibility charts won't tell you whether or not THIS guy likes you. That's best done with conversation IN PERSON. Take him out for a walk- for coffee. I think a guy who wants to spend extra time with you is a clear indication that he's interested.

sorry, the link to 0800 Horoscope is up there in Atlantic Myst's post.

"No matter how amazing she is. Well, with exceptions - if we make out and kiss, or have sex in the bathroom - then yea" -

Guess I will have to make my way over to NY to your bar and hang-out in your bathroom E:-)!!!! - need I say more!!!!

A x

LMAO ROFL @Alana!!!

The Virgo I know - does not like to talk on the phone much either. Sometimes he will, but then I don't call him alot. I am not much on phone talk either really. I guess it's because I talk on a phone at work all the time. This Virgo I know, calls me. And I think he likes it like that. And I guess too, I am not that aggressive - I stopped calling him months and months ago. Every once in a while I'll call him to see how he's doing. I think with Virgo men - you have to just let them do it. Even tho' they are shy and insecure to a point - if it's something they are interested in, they'll do it. But then too I think they have to be sure of you and your feelings. Sometimes mine just comes over -- doesn't call. But he does most of the calling. And no they are not emotional on phone - we just like to talk and gossip about people we know. Like two old friends.

A x, you make me blush! I would love to host you for a few days.

However, if you come to Nyc, better be prepared. I am big on corporal punishment, bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, mistress/slave play, adoration, body worship, denial, erotic torture, fetishism(God, I just love legs in pantyhose),pain play, etc.