why did this virgo guy behave this way??(cap girl)

I am a capricorn girl n was in a friendship with my virgo guy since december 2012 ... which gradually turned into somethig more ... but he only wanted to have sex with me at his own convenience ... i was fine with it coz i loved spending time with him ... i was very loyal and committed to him ... i wud ask him to meet me quite ofte but due to hisnwork committments it was very difficult ... he wud meet me once in 2 months or so ... which clearly showed me tht he wasnt serious abt me ... over the period of one year i started liking him ... but this march i had had enuf n wanted to end coz he only wanted to have sex but i wanted more ... so i met him last week n told him tht i dont want to see him nemore as i had caught feelings for him n cudnt do this nemore... he freaked out n started blaming me for everything ... i dint ask him for love or committment ... i just ended things coz he told.me tht he is emotionally retarded ... so i felt it better to let go .. where did i go wrong — He says he hates me for breaking our deal n tht he only wanted to be fwb ... i said ok but let me get over my feelings in my own way ... y is he pressurizing me to get over things in a day ... i dont understand .. i ahve stoppd all contaxt with him too ... can neone pls help me to get an insight —

Posted by capriri07
but he only wanted to have sex with me at his own convenience ... i was fine with it coz i loved spending time with him ...

The end.

btw turned into something more in that scenario = fwb

You're a troll, there's no way a Cap chick would not see what's going on, since you said "clearly showed me that he wasn't serious about me"

lol@ emotionally retarded

Yes i did see wht was goin on but he says he never realised tht i had caught feelings for him ... how cud a guy not realise this ... but m done neways ... but y is he getting angry ... i think i took a very practical step and ended it for both of us before it got nemore complicated...

Posted by capriri07
where did i go wrong — He says he hates me for breaking our deal n tht he only wanted to be fwb ... i said ok but let me get over my feelings in my own way ... y is he pressurizing me to get over things in a day ... i dont understand .. i ahve stoppd all contaxt with him too ... can neone pls help me to get an insight —

Where did you go wrong?
Analyze the break-up of a relationship ONLY.

A temporary jump off isn't worth the time or effort.

Every FWB has an expiration date.
His d**k license has expired.
Emotions got messy.
Contract over.

FYI
He doesn't hate you. He's manipulating you.

Translation
"Keep the warm bed sessions coming...and I will play nice."

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by capriri07
where did i go wrong — He says he hates me for breaking our deal n tht he only wanted to be fwb ... i said ok but let me get over my feelings in my own way ... y is he pressurizing me to get over things in a day ... i dont understand .. i ahve stoppd all contaxt with him too ... can neone pls help me to get an insight —

Where did you go wrong?
Analyze the break-up of a relationship ONLY.

A temporary jump off isn't worth the time or effort.

Every FWB has an expiration date.
His d**k license has expired.
Emotions got messy.
Contract over.

FYI
He doesn't hate you. He's manipulating you.

Translation
"Keep the warm bed sessions coming...and I will play nice."

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LOL @ the license has expired!

agree with all of what Taurusbull said.

My question to the OP, why do you give one iota what he says or does? He has stated he wants to just fuck, nothing more. You need to keep up with the no contact.... which if that was true, how would you know he is mad at you or hates you? You obviously ARE still in contact with him. End it, no contact and move on.

Well he wanted to know how was i doing and if m fine ... n i told him i will be fine ... it will just take some time ... the only problem is he cudnt handle tht i developed feelings for him ... n yes i have stopped all contact after he was rude and abused me ... he is 32 but yet to grow up i guess n he generally hates girls and demeans them ... he calls us women as species ... n has temper issues ... he is not worth it .. just not the man tht i started liking ... nothing lasts forever

Nothing last forever.......then what is your question? FWB for certain dosent last forever....