Why do I feel so sad?

I've been feeling thoroughly miserable since Saturday evening. Is there something in the stars causing this at the moment? Is it affecting just Virgos or others too? Is it just me? It's the sort of unhappiness that makes me question my whole life... Should I change my job? Should I finish with my girlfriend? Do I want my ex back? Etc. I've had phases like this before and they usually pass and everything returns to normal, so I tend to avoid making important decisions when I'm like this as I don't think I;m in the right frame of mind to do anything constructive, but it's frustrating feeling that everything needs to be changed before I can be happy again, even though I know it will pass and I will be happy again having changed nothing.

Posted by VirgoM20
I've been feeling thoroughly miserable since Saturday evening. Is there something in the stars causing this at the moment? Is it affecting just Virgos or others too? Is it just me? It's the sort of unhappiness that makes me question my whole life... Should I change my job? Should I finish with my girlfriend? Do I want my ex back? Etc. I've had phases like this before and they usually pass and everything returns to normal, so I tend to avoid making important decisions when I'm like this as I don't think I;m in the right frame of mind to do anything constructive, but it's frustrating feeling that everything needs to be changed before I can be happy again, even though I know it will pass and I will be happy again having changed nothing.

i been feeling gloomy and wanted 2 be around people and dats not my Mo i love my space and being free.

and think we virgos may be thinking 2 reevaluate our lifes and what we need and what we dont need just my opinion.

this 2 shall pass

I as well have been feeling "gloomy" lately. Maybe it's the season. I feel like every year I get so excited around these holidays....I love putting up my tree and looking at the beautiful lights at night....and having my family over and friends and enjoying food and getting into the spirit....I always feel like others aren't so into the holidays and "giving" and don't share in my enthusiasm...so this year I am not so anxious. I love to give gifts and have family time together and spread love and joy and it seems as others just aren't so selfless. Thinking about this only makes me more sad and reminds me of feeling misunderstood throughout my life. All I want is for people to be happy and love and do good things for each other. Is that so terrible? There are so many mean-spirited people in this world. It's overwhelming at times. Makes me feel alone....like I live in my own idealized perception of how the world and people should be. I just can't understand this world. As hard as I try, I feel like the ODDBALL....always. I am misunderstood and underestimated because of my outward disposition I suppose. Most people are too shallow to see inside anyway. But I am who I am and I cannot change. Nor do I want to change. I feel free of evil thoughts and don't wish to be like others who are constantly trying to manipulate and deceive.

More and more I think about how much similar I am to how Michael Jackson (a fellow Virgo) viewed and felt the world. I say felt because I think we Virgos FEEL so much. We feel pain and sorrow more than any other sign. I feel like MJ was so misunderstood and it destroyed him. Will I end up that way? I feel like I have to more and more, protect my sensitive core. How much more craziness will be forced upon us? How much more selfishness and insensitivity must we witness before we can take no more?

I think its important that we Virgos discuss our "sadness" with each other. Only we understand each other, and it will feel good to have someone who understands us amongst all these crazies we have to deal with.

Just know that no matter how you are feeling, you are not alone. Write about your thoughts and feelings. Express them. Don't hold it all in.

Posted by virgoheart
I as well have been feeling "gloomy" lately. Maybe it's the season. I feel like every year I get so excited around these holidays....I love putting up my tree and looking at the beautiful lights at night....and having my family over and friends and enjoying food and getting into the spirit....I always feel like others aren't so into the holidays and "giving" and don't share in my enthusiasm...so this year I am not so anxious. I love to give gifts and have family time together and spread love and joy and it seems as others just aren't so selfless. Thinking about this only makes me more sad and reminds me of feeling misunderstood throughout my life. All I want is for people to be happy and love and do good things for each other. Is that so terrible? There are so many mean-spirited people in this world. It's overwhelming at times. Makes me feel alone....like I live in my own idealized perception of how the world and people should be. I just can't understand this world. As hard as I try, I feel like the ODDBALL....always. I am misunderstood and underestimated because of my outward disposition I suppose. Most people are too shallow to see inside anyway. But I am who I am and I cannot change. Nor do I want to change. I feel free of evil thoughts and don't wish to be like others who are constantly trying to manipulate and deceive.

More and more I think about how much similar I am to how Michael Jackson (a fellow Virgo) viewed and felt the world. I say felt because I think we Virgos FEEL so much. We feel pain and sorrow more than any other sign. I feel like MJ was so misunderstood and it destroyed him. Will I end up that way? I feel like I have to more and more, protect my sensitive core. How much more craziness will be forced upon us? How much more selfishness and insensitivity must we witness before we can take no more?

I think its important that we Virgos discuss our "sadness" with each other. Only we understand each other, and it will feel good to have someone who understands us amongst all these crazies we have to deal with.

Just know that no matter how you are feeling, you are not alone. Write about your thoughts and feelings. Express them. Don't hold it all in.

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww this makes me wanna cry i can relate 2 this so much omg tuscan sun i need a hug 😢 lmfao

virgos feel so much only vi

also i heard there's gonna be a couple of full moons its one tonight and one that took place yesterday also they make u wacky and over emotional which we virgos are not really that much to a point.

my comment got cut off i was going 2 say only virgos understand virgos pain and evolve cancers and Pisces are second

Posted by tuscan_sun
Isn't it a full moon?

yep

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Tomorrow theres a full moon in gemini, affecting those with planets in the mutable signs between 7 and 15 degrees or so.

damn it all

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my comment got cut off i was going 2 say only virgos understand virgos pain and evolve cancers and Pisces are second

Add in Scorpios on that list

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i cant stand them even tho i have some good friends under that sign i just keep my space from lmfao

Posted by tuscan_sun
LV- what's wrong with Scorpios?

they are very dishonest and rude and think the world owes them something they want control people and i dont like that even tho i my moon is squared pluto and makes me intense as well gosh they are just to much i feel like jumping off a bridge when dealing with dem lmfao

Posted by tuscan_sun
LV- Squared— Moon and pluto? You sort of lost me there.

I hope whoever is feeling down will be a bit jovial tomorrow, although it is the best time to write or focus that energy into art.

i'm sorry i thought u knew about astrological aspects in a chart my apologizes

Posted by tuscan_sun
I hope this cheers you up

Don't touch me!

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww tha babies are adorable

thank you that made me laugh 🙂

Posted by tuscan_sun
Isn't it a full moon?

I was wondering about that and probably should have mentioned it in my first post. Yes, a full moon, and I have my moon in Scorpio which, apparently, makes me more emotional than most Virgos, so if the full moon is messing me up then that would explain.

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Posted by tuscan_sun
LV- what's wrong with Scorpios?

they are very dishonest and rude and think the world owes them something they want control people and i dont like that even tho i my moon is squared pluto and makes me intense as well gosh they are just to much i feel like jumping off a bridge when dealing with dem lmfao

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Lol u know i feel the same way about scorpios lv u took the words right out of my mouth.. but i to have been feeling bad lately humm must be sum thing in the star.. tuscan are u a scorpio hummm i think u are ur face looks like one lol..

Okay, keeping with the actual theme of our little forum here and if we even REMOTELY put any amount of faith into this astrology mumbo-jumbo...

Then my astrology junky Cappy friend mention this month is what is called a "Blue Moon". While not technically blue, its the term used when we have 2 full moons in the same calendar month. We just had the a full moon earlier this week and we'll have another one later this same month.

Translation: SCREW YOU MOON FOR SCREWING WITH OUR MOODS.

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Posted by tuscan_sun
LV- what's wrong with Scorpios?

they are very dishonest and rude and think the world owes them something they want control people and i dont like that even tho i my moon is squared pluto and makes me intense as well gosh they are just to much i feel like jumping off a bridge when dealing with dem lmfao

Lol u know i feel the same way about scorpios lv u took the words right out of my mouth.. but i to have been feeling bad lately humm must be sum thing in the star.. tuscan are u a scorpio hummm i think u are ur face looks like one lol..

LOL, i'll be whatever you want me to be 😉

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ohh is that so there is alot of things i would like u to be and do 😉