How to Make a Virgo Fall in Love with you

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Cajunspirit on Thursday, November 26, 2009 and has 34 replies.

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@LeGendary ViRGo
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See now the way to catch a cancer is to say things like that. Cancers are compelled to try and assure you that you are liked, and their heart will go out to you, and if you can catch them before they go into 'mothering' mode, you can direct that attention into....well....all kinds of good things 😉

And yeah, Cajun is a hottie!

maybe u guys should make a cajun is a hottie thread since u guys love him so much lmao

and yes im hating hard body lmfao

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@Cajunspirit
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Sekhmet

See now the way to catch a cancer is to say things like that. Cancers are compelled to try and assure you that you are liked, and their heart will go out to you, and if you can catch them before they go into 'mothering' mode, you can direct that attention into....well....all kinds of good things 😉

*Takes notes*

And yeah, Cajun is a hottie!
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*blushes like there is no tomorrow*

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@Cajunspirit
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by tuscan_sun

Ok i'm not going to say this just because "I have to", but you are handsome. I've mentioned that already on one of the threads, but I used the word "cute."

Yaaaaay!
*claps, blushes and smiles to himself*

As for Cajun,
What's with the confusion? I'm sure you get compliments all the time. If not upfront, behind your back.
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Haha, I certainly believe it is the latter 😛

How do you handle the sincere compliments you get upfront tuscan_sun?
You sho pweddi 🙂

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@Cajunspirit
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by tuscan_sun

I don't get compliments, so I go in-front of the mirror some days in the morning and say "you are beautiful."

It is rare and find it hard to believe.

Whaaaaaaat?
No way... you're like a cute flavoured pie with whipped cream and a cherry on top.

I wonder if you are like one of my Pisces friends, she is so cute and friendly that she can never really get any guys into her. They all think she is innocent and overly friendly. Haha, how that sucks for her.

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Posted by tuscan_sun
LOL, i'm sure you and legendary have many suitors. Looks and personality wise. I bet some of the ladies that like you both have looked at that video 😉

I don't get compliments, so I go in-front of the mirror some days in the morning and say "you are beautiful."

It is rare and find it hard to believe.

i really dont 😢 maybe once and a while lol

im sure u get compliments do u see ur self in ur picture ur beautiful and its good to go 2 tha mirror somedays and say beautiful it builds ur self esteem.

my personality people think im funny and bi-polar cuz of my moods but 2 hell with them lmao

im just free like tha wind aka breezy owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww 🙂

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17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by tuscan_sun

I don't really engage conversations with guys, it is seldom that I do. I am shy and I don't know how to start up a conversation unless I feel confident enough or I feel a bit "nice" after I drink a beer. Sometimes, I find a lot of guys don't like the whole in-depth conversations, the one's that i've met anyways. The one's that i've met are interested with girls who are easy going, light conversations. I just feel like it's too generic, especially in large groups. I want to know someone's view about certain topics, where you came from and all. I don't care about what you have materialistically, I care about the thoughts more. Maybe I just over think things.

Haha, yeah starting to sound more like her. She is very shy and has some social awkwardness.
She once went with a group she did not know, while hanging out with me and some other people she knew. She was all quiet, and when they commented on her lack of social interaction she kind of snapped at them.

Them : "Hey are you okay? You're confusing us"
Her : "That's good!" *leaves abruptly*

Her friend another fishie made some comments to a Virgo friend of mine.

VirgoFriend : "Hey so and so, I have been hearing about you from your friends so much, how are you"
Fishie#2 : "Well keep hearing" *ends conversation*

I have been the victim of these "socially awkward" scenarios and taken great offense from them, many a time.

Posted by tuscan_sun
I guess it's my own issue, I just don't like the whole "this is what I have, what do you have." Business talk.
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That's how you get a foundational understanding of someone, you know... :/
Feel them out a bit before you hits the heavier stuff.

I am ALL Business talk for the first few encounters.

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Posted by tuscan_sun
Good point Sekhmet. I'm observant and the compliments are stuck in my head. I'm just either shy or I feel that I will be considered as a weirdo if I just come up to someone with a compliment.

Absolutely nothing wrong with random compliments. If something is worth stating, state it! 🙂

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Posted by Cajunspirit
Posted by tuscan_sun
Good point Sekhmet. I'm observant and the compliments are stuck in my head. I'm just either shy or I feel that I will be considered as a weirdo if I just come up to someone with a compliment.

Absolutely nothing wrong with random compliments. If something is worth stating, state it! 🙂

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Two of my four significant relationships in my life started when I randomly walked up to the guy and well... one was a compliment... the other... heh... I corrected his grammar LOL

🙂

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@Cajunspirit
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Posted by tuscan_sun
Well I used to not care so much about what others think of me. I was comfortable in my own skin.

Now Im more self-aware.

What caused this?

Oh and in all honesty, if you were a friend or coed of mine. I would take great pleasure in teasing you, throwing in compliments here and there 🙂

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i think that will balance itself back out. i used to not care enough about my outward demeanor. then i cared too much. i'm on my way back to leveling at juuuust the right amount of care 😛

the good thing is you ARE self aware, so you know where you are and where you want to be with the wits to get you there.

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17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by tuscan_sun
Cajun- My mistakes in the past and criticisms. Life was a breeze, now life is as real as it gets.

...amazing.

I can not imagine ever loosing my confidence... I spent most of my life un-confident. I dunno if that plays a part.

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Posted by Cajunspirit
MY STARS AND STRIPES!
Look at that picture... It's beautiful....

Hahaha

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Seriously man... looks to me like you were a Master at the "Panty Dropping" game 😛

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Posted by sortilege85
cajun about my hair. I really appreciate it 🙂

It's the sexiest hair I have seen on dxp, probably the sexiest man too lmao.

I think I am reading into tuscan_sun's hints.

Sushi is comprised of fish.
Opposite sign of virgo is Pisces, when Bella stated she thinks she is a Virgo.

Come one people, use your coconuts 🙂

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Help with a virgo guy. SO...about a month ago. I met this virgo. We have mutual friends and they invited us both out for dinner. After dinner we all went out for drinks ... needless to say it was a fun night, and ended with he and i staying over at their place. Nothing much happened in bed ... we are both slow when it comes to physical intimacy ... but we kissed. He told me then that he had been interested since the first time he saw me months ago, but had been afraid to talk to me. He said, to show me this he wasn't going to kiss me any more but wanted to take me to dinner the next night. We ended up having a late brunch with our friends, and not going to dinner. But, he emailed me the same day, saying that he would like to see me. This led to weeks of sheer bliss ... we saw each other everyday ... he told his family about me, we talked about our future ... it moved super fast, but felt perfect. Then one day, he got really distant ... I asked him what was wrong. He told me that he had gotten a letter saying that he wouldn't graduate (grad school) if he didn't shape up, and that with only 3 weeks of school he couldn't afford to not give all his attention to his work. He said this was the time of year, where he shuts everything out....everything, and that he couldn't balance the intensity of our relating and school. I told him I understood ... and asked if it was just a timing thing. He said that we would be fine.

After this - nearly all calls from him stopped. He always immediately responded to any texts I sent. And sometimes we would text back and forth for hours. We had one other conversation where he clarified the situation for me ... and just said that he was really worried about disappointing me. I said that I would wait for his contact so that he didn't feel any pressure. But, I invited him to my art show ... which was a big deal. He said that he would try and make it. He didn't. He forgot. Our mutual friend came, and when he saw our friend all dressed up and asked where he'd been. When he realized he missed the show. He texted me and apologized. I waited a day to respond- but when I did, I said that the show was great and that I was a little sad he missed it, but that I understood. He explained again how sorry he was. I said that I could put myself in his shoes, but that it was getting hard to not think he is blowing me off. After this comment, he didn't respond. He has never not responded. After 30 min - I called him. No answer. Then later I te

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Posted by UnicornSag
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They should ask ME instead.

you're not a virgo

No but I accomplished exactly what the subject of the thread is.

Unless he lied to me, although his body is his main weapon of manipulation. Gotta love that Scorp Mars eh?

Lets tell them more about the subject lol think I could teach about it as well lol Scorp Mars in Virgo too? Same as mine lol

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Time is money, I say.

And there's far too many people here who think they are smarter than everyone else and ignore people's solid advice, like that idiot Leo chick who got knocked up by the guy everyone warned her about. I'd rather take up my boy's shower invitation. Time far better spent.