Why is this virgo such a weirdo?

I guess you are right with the private moment stuff, but I felt that awkwardness towards me after he took the call. I don't think I want to hang out with him again.

Speaking for myself, that's me being polite.

Unless the conversation I'm having with whoever involves you, it's rude as hell to you to have it at the table like that.

Posted by VirgoHero
Speaking for myself, that's me being polite.

Unless the conversation I'm having with whoever involves you, it's rude as hell to you to have it at the table like that.

I third this, my thoughts exactly.

Posted by elliejules
I think you're slightly jealous and he's quite insecure. And the worst part is nobody is speaking up.

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WHAT—

You read that a man gets up to answer a phone call from a girlfriend, and you think he's insecure?

I mean, REALLY?
Where is the logic?

no it's his g/f..... it would of been weird if he didn't get up and walk away. That would insinuate that he was trying to make you jealous.

I don't think it's rude pick up a phone call in front of a friend to talk for a few minutes - unless you're talking at 100 decibels. I do think it is rude to pick up a phone call in front of someone that you have a professional relationship with, but we're friends so it's not a big deal. I don't think he can get me jealous b/c he knows I have a bf and he spoke to me about his gf before. I guess I'm just trying to see what other ppl thought about this situation...not really complaining about it. If most ppl say it is a privacy issue, then maybe it is and I am thinking too much into it. I just thought he looked a little guilty...almost scared after he picked up that call. I still think that I should not accept his invitations anymore and just keep our conversations online after this awkward moment...I guess I will let him know when he ask me 🙂

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
THeres the possibility you misinterpreted/misread his facial gestures, a lot of times us Virgos look like we're worried about something whilst all we're doing is THINKING about something 😛

A lot of the time = 90% of the time

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Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
THeres the possibility you misinterpreted/misread his facial gestures, a lot of times us Virgos look like we're worried about something whilst all we're doing is THINKING about something 😛

A lot of the time = 90% of the time

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to much of western society, thinking about something is worrying about it. "living in the moment" is the ideal. i think it's stupid. but in general, if you are thoughful, people will assume you worry. if you are thinking, people will think you are worrying.

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Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
THeres the possibility you misinterpreted/misread his facial gestures, a lot of times us Virgos look like we're worried about something whilst all we're doing is THINKING about something 😛

This is a great reason why people are always misinterpreting our actions because they see that we have a look of worry or having a facial gesture that shows curiosity and confusion, but we are normally aren't its just the face...ah well. The more i read these threads the more I am releaved that it isn't always the virgos fault just terrible communication and bad assumptions and terrible analysis.

Posted by curious visitor


A lot of the time = 90% of the time

to much of western society, thinking about something is worrying about it. "living in the moment" is the ideal. i think it's stupid. but in general, if you are thoughful, people will assume you worry. if you are thinking, people will think you are worrying.



I agree. Well your a libra, so you find it very easy to know whether or not a virgo is worried, anxious, humorous or angry, like my libra cousin.