Why oh why

She blocked me on everything and out of the blue she msg’d me on IG last night asking if i was ok. To which i replied yes, i’m ok, are you ok? Then she says if you’re ok then it’s fine.

Like... What’s fine? 🤦🏾‍♀️

She then admitted that she had been blocking and unblocking me on IG and checking up on me. Even going as far as reading my blog. I didn’t even know that she knew that i had one. So i was a bit surprised when she ends up sending me a screenshot of one of my posts.

She then decides to follow me and then video calls me, intoxicated, crying and i say sorry (the last time we had spoken, i was infuriated, called her out on some shit and told her not to contact me again hence why she blocked me on literally everything). She then says “it’s too fvcking late for that now.

Gee, so feisty (though, i must admit i miss her feistiness)

Anyway i noticed she unfollowed me this morning and once again, being the apologetic pisces that i am, i send her a msg and apologise for failing in the relationship.

I tell ya... i don’t think this girl wants me to move on before she does. I’m not sure. Or maybe she’s still hurting and dissecting the relationship in her head. Or maybe she just wants me to be miserable while she’s miserable.

Lol, but i’m already miserable.

I thought when she had decided to block me on everything, that was the end of it but here we are again back at square 1.

she's still not over it.

I've personally gone from blocking to unblocking people but whatever I think you're over it.

best to just block her on everything.

kindest thing to do for both parties.

"I tell ya... i don’t think this girl wants me to move on before she does."

I think your gut instinct is right here. It's a sort of competition, not love and affection.

I don’t enjoy it but more so i’m worried for her wellbeing and i guess i don’t want her to torture herself over it. She said she didn’t wanna give it another shot like ever and I took that at face value. I very much care for her and still miss her but i’m no longer in love with her due to the lack of connection/presence in each others lives. But on my side, it’s a connection that I would try to rekindle given the chance/right amount of time frame that has passed. It’s why i haven’t blocked her cause of the residual feelings that are still present. I’m not one to get back together with an ex — never have, but i hate that we had such a strong connection perhaps it’s the thing that has a hold over both of us.

She's a mess. Not your problem. Block her and MOVE FORWARD.

Posted by iamlanaxxx

I don’t enjoy it but more so i’m worried for her wellbeing and i guess i don’t want her to torture herself over it

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

you're not responsible for her "well-being"

Posted by virgoOPPP

she's still not over it.

I've personally gone from blocking to unblocking people but whatever I think you're over it.

best to just block her on everything.

kindest thing to do for both parties.

I do the same.

😈🙉

Posted by virgoOPPP

she's still not over it.

I've personally gone from blocking to unblocking people but whatever I think you're over it.

best to just block her on everything.

kindest thing to do for both parties.

Ahh I see.

What do you guys get from blocking and unblocking? Well, i guess the question is why do you do it? Is it curiousity? Is she trying to figure out whether I’ve moved on? Or if I miss her? What is it?

I personally don’t go as far as blocking people unless they’re annoying af. Blocking and unblocking just sounds mentally draining

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Posted by virgoOPPP

she's still not over it.

I've personally gone from blocking to unblocking people but whatever I think you're over it.

best to just block her on everything.

kindest thing to do for both parties.

Ahh I see.

What do you guys get from blocking and unblocking? Well, i guess the question is why do you do it? Is it curiousity? Is she trying to figure out whether I’ve moved on? Or if I miss her? What is it?

I personally don’t go as far as blocking people unless they’re annoying af. Blocking and unblocking just sounds mentally draining

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sometimes believe it or not,

i figure i might be wrong to block someone so i unblock

and i usually block when i'm annoyed or upset or i wanna forget the person

don't take much for me to block tbh

i've got about 30 people on fb who are blocked for yearssss now though

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Posted by virgoOPPP

she's still not over it.

I've personally gone from blocking to unblocking people but whatever I think you're over it.

best to just block her on everything.

kindest thing to do for both parties.

Ahh I see.

What do you guys get from blocking and unblocking? Well, i guess the question is why do you do it? Is it curiousity? Is she trying to figure out whether I’ve moved on? Or if I miss her? What is it?

I personally don’t go as far as blocking people unless they’re annoying af. Blocking and unblocking just sounds mentally draining

sometimes believe it or not,

i figure i might be wrong to block someone so i unblock

and i usually block when i'm annoyed or upset or i wanna forget the person

don't take much for me to block tbh

i've got about 30 people on fb who are blocked for yearssss now though

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Lol daaaang 30 years?!? 😂😂

My ex did block me when she was upset/annoyed. Had a feeling she was going to reach out eventually.

She said she wants to try and be friends when the time is right. Told her i’m willing to try it also when we’re both feeling a little calmer inside.

Also said she wants to move on from the relationship but not from me as a person hence the friendship thing.

Any idea what this all means?

Block her.

This game by Virgo is toxic. I've been thru it. It messes with your mind badly. It'll leave us Pisces mentally broken if it continues. I had same this with both my Virgo exes. 1st Virgo ex took me 5 years to get over it. 2x Virgo ex had me laying in bed for a solid week. I was sick from everything.

She wont stop any time soon, block her on everything.

Block her.

This game by Virgo is toxic. I've been thru it. It messes with your mind badly. It'll leave us Pisces mentally broken if it continues. I had same things with both my Virgo exes. 1st Virgo ex took me 5 years to get over it. 2x Virgo ex had me laying in bed for a solid week. I was sick from everything.

She wont stop any time soon, block her on everything.

Block her.

This game by Virgo is toxic. I've been thru it. It messes with your mind badly. It'll leave us Pisces mentally broken if it continues. I had same things with both my Virgo exes. 1st Virgo ex took me 5 years to get over it. 2nd Virgo ex had me laying in bed for a solid week. I was sick from everything.

She wont stop any time soon, block her on everything.

Posted by PiscesGal76

Block her.

This game by Virgo is toxic. I've been thru it. It messes with your mind badly. It'll leave us Pisces mentally broken if it continues. I had same things with both my Virgo exes. 1st Virgo ex took me 5 years to get over it. 2nd Virgo ex had me laying in bed for a solid week. I was sick from everything.

She wont stop any time soon, block her on everything.

Jesus... lol

Why... what went down just out of curiousity?

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Block her.

This game by Virgo is toxic. I've been thru it. It messes with your mind badly. It'll leave us Pisces mentally broken if it continues. I had same things with both my Virgo exes. 1st Virgo ex took me 5 years to get over it. 2nd Virgo ex had me laying in bed for a solid week. I was sick from everything.

She wont stop any time soon, block her on everything.

Jesus... lol

Why... what went down just out of curiousity?

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First Virgo was mentally and physically abusive. After he left, he took nearly a year to continue harrassing me. No matter how often I blocked him. This was in a time where there was no whatsapp but only msn, yahoo and email. He's father of my kids tho. I had to have a restraining order to keep him out of my life.

Second Virgo cheated. Turned out, she was there long before me. We were in process of moving in together. A week before, it ended. 3 weeks later she was there and it was made official. I had a lot of emotional investment with him so it literally made me sick from stress, anxiety and being hurt.

Now that I look back on them, they had similar traits, similar red flags. Both kept engaging contact, 2nd Virgo by driving past my house with new girl several times.