What does my ex think she’s doing?!?!

Ex is a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon.

Has repeatedly said we’re not getting back together/won’t change her mind.

She drunk called me a few times within a week after the breakup. The drunk calling has stopped.

The past 2 nights she has msg’d me. A couple of nights ago she wanted to send me a video of her dog whom I really loved when we all lived together.

Last night she msg’d me asking for help for this English test she’s preparing for.

I tried so hard to salvage the relationship and I’m trying to move on with my life. I feel a little disrespected that someone who has repeatedly rejected me has the balls to just msg me whenever the hell she pleases.

Advice?

Just ignore her. She needs to move on or grow tf up and stop playing games with you and talk to you like an adult.

sending you a cutesy dog video and asking for help?

yeah i'd do the same shit if i want you.

Posted by virgoOPPP

sending you a cutesy dog video and asking for help?

yeah i'd do the same shit if i want you.

Or...not having the best she is bored and settling for some entertainment from second best because she knows he will respond? 🙄

Posted by Erinelda

Don't reply?

Too logical...

Posted by virgoOPPP

sending you a cutesy dog video and asking for help?

yeah i'd do the same shit if i want you.

I honestly don’t know what she wants. Whether the whole “we’re not getting back together” is punishment. Like I said I’ve tried my best to convince her to change her mind. The last time I tried, she said she would block me if I didn’t stop. So, I stopped.

So, in my head I think well I gotta move on cause she doesn’t want this. I do still love her but just feels like she’s playing games now.

But how the hell can she just msg me like that.

I just want to be like no you’ve your mind up and that is to live your life without me so don’t try to include me in it kinda thing.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

sending you a cutesy dog video and asking for help?

yeah i'd do the same shit if i want you.

I honestly don’t know what she wants. Whether the whole “we’re not getting back together” is punishment. Like I said I’ve tried my best to convince her to change her mind. The last time I tried, she said she would block me if I didn’t stop. So, I stopped.

So, in my head I think well I gotta move on cause she doesn’t want this. I do still love her but just feels like she’s playing games now.

But how the hell can she just msg me like that.

I just want to be like no you’ve your mind up and that is to live your life without me so don’t try to include me in it kinda thing.

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some virgos ghost

and sometimes we're really sorry

i know coz i'm always ghosting

She's bored and wants attention?

She thinks that you are an Idiot that will take the bait. She's just trying to confirm your still her doormat. It speaks volumes on your lack of balls for not having her blocked. Your a pathetic embarrassment of real man entertaining her when women outnumber guys. You know better you do better.

Posted by LibraSupreme

She thinks that you are an Idiot that will take the bait. She's just trying to confirm your still her doormat. It speaks volumes on your lack of balls for not having her blocked. Your a pathetic embarrassment of real man entertaining her when women outnumber guys. You know better you do better.

We’re in a same-sex relationship. Lol.

Posted by Skeleton

When was it ended in your relationship with her?

I actually ended it on an impulse after a bad argument. Well after a series of bad arguments. It ended about 3 weeks ago.

My friend had these placements. She would keep her ex on a short leash because even though she didn't want to be with him anymore, she was still hella terratorial and didn't want him to move on. She broke up with him after 5 years bc she thought he wasn't good enough for her (he had bleak career prospects). I think she never really loved him tbh. But she'd always say that she hopes he never finds happiness without her lmao. I think it was an ego thing.

Posted by applecherrypie

My friend had these placements. She would keep her ex on a short leash because even though she didn't want to be with him anymore, she was still hella terratorial and didn't want him to move on. She broke up with him after 5 years bc she thought he wasn't good enough for her (he had bleak career prospects). I think she never really loved him tbh. But she'd always say that she hopes he never finds happiness without her lmao. I think it was an ego thing.

God, that’s terrible.

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Just ignore her. She needs to move on or grow tf up and stop playing games with you and talk to you like an adult.

Amen

So I msg’d her last night and told her that we should probably stop msg’ing each other if she’s decided she doesn’t wanna give it another shot. She ends up calling me. She was drunk and a complete mess. She said a lot of hurtful things and also said she hated me. I just couldn’t be bothered reacting to her b.s. She got mad when I told her that a couple of my friends know we’ve broken up. She was like, “You told people we’ve broken up wtf?!?”

She’s being a child honestly. I want to tell her that her behaviour is totally unacceptable without offending her. She doesn’t like being told what to do... just child written all over her. Ahh it’s tiring.