Why would a Virgo Woman asks a lot of questions?

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Damnata
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Virgos really enjoy humanity so we like to know what makes people tick. But we also are very interested in the person we're into so ofc we'd like to see what makes him/her tick too. On that account, I agree about it being hard to distinguish friendliness from personal interest. Look for the "extra mile"..I have no idea how to phrase it.

Think of us as Scorpios in a way..but with softer edges to our inquisition campaign.

Look for our eyes lightning up when we talk to you. If we're only asking from a purely intellectual stance you will feel a more dettached perspective as opposed to us going "all in" in a way. There's an extra bit of vaseline on our robot eye system when we're into you.
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Virgo out of friendship will approach it as an experiment. Gather details about your mind wanderings but won't go deeper.

Virgo who is into you..will insist on unveiling what made you have this opinion, they will backtrack through your life.

In the first instance, Virgo questions only your opinions and present thought patterns. In the second scenario, we want to map your entire life out and understand what made you be..this awesome person you are (since we like you, therefore you immediately seem interesting to us).

Example: Say you have a phobia.

Friendly Virgo will ask about it, talk about phobias of their own. Debate it, chit chat about it.

Interested Virgo will dig deeper, to try and understand when the phobia formed, what are the ways it can be surpassed..will surprise you with articles on it awhile after the conversation ended. Soothing patterns, emotional opening (novel concepts for virgos) will take precedence over dettached intellectual reasoning.
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When I ask a lot of questions, I am either being conversational and polite, or I want to know you on a more personal level so that we can develop a solid friendship. Although my curiosities are sincere, they do not always mean that I am pursuing a person in a romantic or flirtatious manner. Often, I am interested in a friendship instead of a relationship.

If I want to pursue someone romantically, I do not bombard that individual with questions unless the subject matter intrigues me. I usually adopt a more distant approach, voicing a curiosity here or there, being careful not to betray my interest too quickly. 🙂 I take my sweet time getting to know the people who I am pursuing in a romantic manner because I want to maintain an air of mystery.