yuechan
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words and actions
Posted by virg_goki
for me, what I say = backup plan.
what I do = the real deal
What I really plan to do/say = you really have no idea until its in progress (tt if you know me well enough) and when its done (can't really defy reality can you)
consistency is relative...
what you say = worse case scenario
what you do = real in the now
what you really mean/plan to do = only you know
is it the same?
Posted by virg_goki
nope not worse case scenario, but i see it as 'coulda be betta'
the rest you got them summarized wellclick to expand
in case that the 'coulda be betta' part is a negative scenario, would that be a worst case scenario? or is it more like 'logically that is what would be preferred'?
Posted by virg_goki
hey! we may be stereotypically considered negative thinking but we are only so because we know what is the best possible outcome and we strive for it!
Thank you for all your inputs virg_goki. 🙂 It is much appreciated. 😄
Hmm.. what you said got me thinking and in a way, what has been said can at the outset look negative, but can be taken in a positive way as well. 🙂
I'm 100% on what I say, and the only time I slack in action to back those words up is if it only affects me.
ex: "I need to get to the bank today"
"today" is Saturday, and I'm tired
I need to go to take money out to pay a bill or meet some financial deadline or a promise to a friend, I'll drag myself
I need to go just to take money out to shop or something, for myself--I'll wait.
It'll nag the sh*t out of me though, and I'll hope it rains so that I can say "see? I wouldn't have been able to shop anyway"
LOL
ex: "I need to get to the bank today"
"today" is Saturday, and I'm tired
I need to go to take money out to pay a bill or meet some financial deadline or a promise to a friend, I'll drag myself
I need to go just to take money out to shop or something, for myself--I'll wait.
It'll nag the sh*t out of me though, and I'll hope it rains so that I can say "see? I wouldn't have been able to shop anyway"
LOL
Posted by yuechanPosted by virg_goki
hey! we may be stereotypically considered negative thinking but we are only so because we know what is the best possible outcome and we strive for it!
Thank you for all your inputs virg_goki. 🙂 It is much appreciated. 😄
Hmm.. what you said got me thinking and in a way, what has been said can at the outset look negative, but can be taken in a positive way as well. 🙂click to expand
In this scenerio, Virgos tend to be defeated, even when it isn't even finished yet.
Like .. they had something in mind, it's what was strived for, but, never reached ... this tends to make them think they failed, even if they haven't even tried it yet, it was still in the thought process.
If they could veer themselves away from that defeatist attitude .. then yes, it could be taken in a positive way.
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in a virgoan perspective: are you consistent with your words and actions?
when are you inconsistent with it?
say, you can't but somehow do.
what is it then? your word or your actions?