AARRRGGHHH

I plugged my phone into my car charger after work because it was dead (talked to The Virgo all day on my office phone because of this), had to run run a few errands and threw it into my purse (after a short charge), it died in the mean time while I was out. Now The Virgo is raising a stink about me not taking his call (because it was dead, hello—) He now is suggesting I must have someone else. Good GOD!!! Are you all so naive or insecure—?

Just be straight with him & tell him what happened.

And I did, but he kept saying "I understand, there's someone else"... huh? *smh*

Is this man insecure— What the hell do I do with an insecure Virgo?? (aren't they all?)

The man needs me to smack him upside the head is what he needs!!!

Well get him straight then lol snap him out of the things he thinks are true. Show him that you are serious & sincere about it. Well I have no idea then. If it were me I would get him to snap out of it.

He did experience your drama with the Pisces guy. Pisces may have actually upped whatever insecurity Virgo had in him.

i can see insecure, but naive? what?

if a guy i was seeing and liked said that to me, i'd giggle and tell him how sweet it is that he worries like that. that's adorable.

tell him to buy you a spare battery so it won't happen again.

i wonder what tone of voice you used. when people lie, they use either the "i can't believe you'd say that" shock voice or the "hahaha you're paranoid, you loser" voice. or you just had a different tone than you usually do, which is often reason enough for someone who is already worried to assume someone is lying.

getting mad just makes you look guilty. it's not fair, but it's true.

I am pretty sure your retort to him is the problem.

If you responded so aggressive and defensive of your situatation, then you have done nothing to calm his insecurity.

As opposed to not panicking, sitting him down calm and comfortably and taking your time to explain things.

Capricorns are prone to panic and condescending tones in my experiences. Neither of which would sooth a Virgo, only aggravates us further.

Posted by curious visitor
i can see insecure, but naive? what?

if a guy i was seeing and liked said that to me, i'd giggle and tell him how sweet it is that he worries like that. that's adorable.

tell him to buy you a spare battery so it won't happen again.

i wonder what tone of voice you used. when people lie, they use either the "i can't believe you'd say that" shock voice or the "hahaha you're paranoid, you loser" voice. or you just had a different tone than you usually do, which is often reason enough for someone who is already worried to assume someone is lying.

getting mad just makes you look guilty. it's not fair, but it's true.

Adorable not! Not for a man in his 40s!!

I just groaned and told him that was not the case, his insistence that he thought he had been replaced maybe was to just yank my chain, or to see where I stood (this would not be the first time I felt he was somehow testing me to gauge my response). He stopped when I reminded him that if I was interested in someone else and wasn't so into him I wouldn't go out of my way for him (which I have - and have been all week trying to help him get something cleared up so he doesn't get screwed).

And, it never even came up today. Everything was normal. I don't think for a moment he believed I was with anyone. He was playing me to see how I would respond. Men!

I thought Virgos didn't play these games...

Keep in mind: It takes at least two to play a game. Where the other would be an NPC, another person, object, or idea.

Just be like, "I DIDN'T DO ANYTHINNNNGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

lol no I'm kidding..

Yikes seems like a gay situation to be in. Good luck with THAT one lol