You all may remember my ex virgo who I broke up with 6-7 months ago. To summarize, he was recently divorced we dated a little less than a year but he was emotionally unavailable and too hot and cold for me. I still believe he is a great guy (I love virgos) , but not for me given his mental state at the time. Anyway, so I wrote him a letter explaining why I needed to let our —relationship?? go, wished him well but asked him to respect my wishes. Fast forward - we haven't spoken at all, not an email, a text, a postcard, nothing since the break up.
Well last night when editing one of my photo albums on facebook I noticed every comment he previously wrote on my pictures when we were together was gone. Poof!! Its like he was never there, needless to say I realized he has blocked me. The odd thing is we weren't even Facebook friends (I un-friended him about a month BEFORE our breakup), both our pages are private so it wasn't like he could see my page, status updates, photos, ect. or me his if I wanted to. He had to have blocked me recently because his comments were there last week.
On one end I could care less, its not like we were communicating anyway or hanging out and he's free to block who he wants. However, a small portion of me is hurt that he felt the need to block me. The only person I have blocked is a crazy stalker who kept emailing me. I could understand if it was immediately after the breakup when emotions are high, but why block someone you were close to who isn't bothering you or trying to 7 months after a break up— I understand unfriending an ex but to block them ??_.—
That's why I am so confused .. since we were not FB friends anyway neither he nor I could view anything about the other, including photos, comments, ect. We had already severed our ties ??_ we already didn't speak so to block me to reiterate that you REALLY don't want to speak EVER lol seems I don't know kinda mean at worse and unnecessary at best. Given our ages and his personality I didn't expect that from him.
Truth be told, given how long ago we broke up I'm surprised he even thought about me enough to take the time and effort to block me. I just don't get it ...
A guy to whom you haven't even been involved with for 7 months decides to make decision in his life, for whatever reason .... you make a case out of it?
Are you a joke?
He has a right to make WHATEVER decision he chooses .. and it's not your business to question. And that fact that you ARE questioning something when you have no right to ... is likely the whole reason why he didn't want to be with you.
LOL You are certainly funny .. a general comment on a casual website is hardly making a CASE of anything. I'm not seeking therapy, crying on anyone's shoulder, or jumping off any buildings. It was an observation that I vocalized but I'm certainly not loosing any sleep over it.
—He has a right to make WHATEVER decision he chooses?? Um yeah I think I said that already when I stated —and he's free to block who he wants.??
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Well last night when editing one of my photo albums on facebook I noticed every comment he previously wrote on my pictures when we were together was gone. Poof!! Its like he was never there, needless to say I realized he has blocked me. The odd thing is we weren't even Facebook friends (I un-friended him about a month BEFORE our breakup), both our pages are private so it wasn't like he could see my page, status updates, photos, ect. or me his if I wanted to. He had to have blocked me recently because his comments were there last week.
On one end I could care less, its not like we were communicating anyway or hanging out and he's free to block who he wants. However, a small portion of me is hurt that he felt the need to block me. The only person I have blocked is a crazy stalker who kept emailing me. I could understand if it was immediately after the breakup when emotions are high, but why block someone you were close to who isn't bothering you or trying to 7 months after a break up— I understand unfriending an ex but to block them ??_.—