your opinion of Capricorn woman virgo man case

well my situation has been sooo hot/cold so i do have questions...my virgo wanted to look thru my social network page...so he seen old messages of guys and i talkin ...even though it was harmless (meanin hey how you been what you been up to, nothin much baby chillin etc...) worst thing wrote was during one of our break it off periods...he was pretty mad or shall i say disappointed or whatever, then i looked at his page, there were similiar messages , but he says that since his were old , i had nothin on him but my most recent one was in this month, since i gave my number to an old school pal who wanted to get intouch with me...so now he has been naggin at me, sayin he is gonna start doin the exact same, but as of now he hasnt given anybody his number..but he been actin distant as if he was puttin me on restriction....he told me that he was thinkin of our case . makin it soo i would have what i want but now he doesnt think i am the girl who he thought i was...which i didnt get because on his he said he could get on his when we first started out but when i looked he was arryin on convos and leavin his number plus he had indications from his childs mother that she and he were together when we first hooked up, but he says that it was her bein messy like she usually does and all of his people know how she is, although it really doesnt seem any different , the fact is he says that he has no problem with me havin opposite sex friends but dont get mad when he does...i dont feel we as people can narrow our friends to one gender so i wouldnt have any prob with this unless it becomes disrespectful to me as his woman ...

What you think of this case ...be as blunt as possible about it

Why am I not surprised, Mr.FWB man wants out, he's too much of coward to say go away so he's going through your social network page and making shit up to get out and your ass let him LOL

Posted by 25thDecan
In any situation..virgo male or otherwise, you should discern whether or not YOU'RE doing more mental "work" at bonding. If you are, improve communication. If this seems to dig a hole....move on. Choose wisely.

Mental bonding..Makes good sense...that is something we have been working at.. we have not splitup,and it has been out of the fwb alongtime ago read the older threads..I stopped smokin, we havent been having sex, and he is still around... ****lookin up too tiki33******
But we came to the conclusion that lookin thru personal social messages was an invasion of privacy and it is messy towards our relationship, so we will not do that again because he can not take it.....He says he knows that he is not supposed to be bothered because he trusts me and we can not control or take away one anothers opposite sex friends, we stay on the phone for hours but when he gets into thesethinkin moments he shutsdown on me.

then he says to me that none of anything he has said is tellin me he doesnt want to be with me , he says if that were it he would straightout tell me then never come around or call...then he says thats how you know when a mutha fucka really does love yo crazy azz


So as virgos what does that sound to you like in this case...

yea,so it was said so now its over with , which means we each know how the other feel so there is no need to continue dwellin on this issue if he is still around cause we have placed our cards on the table....


well that is whats up....basically ill just remain kool then as what i had been b4 he bought this to situation