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Anybody have any stories from being a Cap/Sag and Taurus couple or something similar...

hey bang... i had two long term relationships with taurus. im a cap sag chick as well.

i read your other post and his behavior is a little odd... in fact it's too odd... i would not trust him. i know that's prob not what you want to hear, but a good taurus guy would give you no doubts whatsoever. they are awesome guys. prob one of the best in the zodiac next to scorp... imo! you mentioned that you dont believe him... you really need to trust what your instincts are telling you because they are probably spot on.

when a guy truly wants you, he will respect you and be completely honest and up front with you. this guy is hot n cold... i really think he's probably hanging out with someone else in between. and did he really say he wouldnt "MIND" spending his life with you? lol thats completely unromantic. you should tell him you wouldn't mind him pounding salt. ugh.

sorry :/ but i actually did come across one taurus guy who behaved this way and he confirmed later that he was going back to his ex repeatedly. i knew it the entire time, and when he fed me his bs about wanting to be with me or seeing himself with someone like me... i called him out on it. after the first time he messed up, i never let him back into my heart or my good graces again. we'd talk and hang out and he'd try, but i was sooo onto his crap. your guy seems eerily similar.

i know it's been 2 yrs already that you've been with him, but try to get some answers from him... if he wants to act like a jerk about being honest... thats a huge red flag that he's hiding something. its better to not waste any more of your time on someone who doesnt deserve you.

i honestly could be jumping to conclusions, but like i said, it's just because this reminds me so much of some idiot that i didnt trust... and he proved me right. im glad i kicked him to the curb. it was a little over a year ago that i fell hard for him and shortly there after ditched him because i could tell he wasnt as great as i thought. and now... im with the best guy in the world.

please try to find out if he's an honorable guy and if he isn't... leave quickly and be happier with someone way better.

when you've been with a great guy, you know very quickly when you're dealing with an asshole.

my long term relationships with taurus were SO awesome. so great. I thought id end up with them for the long haul. first taurus relationship i was just too young and wasnt ready for marriage which is exactly where it was headed. I felt I was too young for the relationship period. I was only 22 when we split. he was a bit older and was about to propose.

second relationship... he and i argued SO much it was unbelievable. he was extremely controlling, possessive, jealous... and while I can handle those flaws... it caused too much trouble between us. however he left the biggest imprint on my heart... despite those flaws, he was an amazing boyfriend. when he moved away to go to law school, it kinda sealed the deal on us splitting... otherwise i would have kept trying and i think he would have too.

cap/sag girl and taurus guy is a great match up. if this guy doesnt work out, dont give up on the pairing for good.

Thanks a lot @CreepyPants for your response. I think I'm going to have that talk again. He said he like this because he was "hurt" from a 4 and 1/2 year relationship, and he FINALLY started to open up but I do feel as if he hiding something, it maybe just me...idk. He a person that is afraid to get hurt and open up, so a lot of times I think its a act for his friends or just one of them days. Because when he seriously want to talk, he opens up and so called "afraid of losing me", after he almost lost me once... But I think he lowkey bi-polar, I'm not sure... But your response is much appreciated = )

Do you think being hurt from alot of people in the past can affect a person that deeply? And for me to to take almost 2 years to finally almost getting to his heart and for him to act the way he do?

the guy that i was talking about that kept going back to his ex was with her for 4 yrs too. guys will say anything to make life the most convenient for them. i dont want to discourage your relationship from him, but just be wise and consider that...

a really great guy will be honest and upfront with you because he will want to keep you... because he will want to do everything he can to be respectful and not mess things up. when a guy is serious, especially a taurus, there's no doubting it.

this doesnt mean he doesnt love you. that one taurus i was talking about, i believe he loved me too, but he didnt love me enough for me to even consider him. there is NO way i was going to be his second best and thats how i was being treated.

if he's still hung up and hurt from his last relationship... i could be because he's not over her. That alone is a lot to hide. And he's sneaking off and wont tell you what's up? This guy just doesnt sound good to me.

Guys are different with the way they handle relationship pain. I've been hurt a lot but I've moved on fine. Guys tend to hang on to their feelings for another woman for a while. I would check with the Taurus board and see what the guys have to say though. And two years seems like a long ass time to open up to a girlfriend. Maybe I'm skeptical but he could be stringing you along.

Dig into him for answers... you'll only be able to solve this with him, so talk to him and read him closely.

Great response again! lol Thank you and will do = )