Insight (Trying this again)

Ok, giving this another shot! Hopefully it makes sense. This is the MOST confusing Taurus I have ever met. She speaks in Riddles, and often wants me to believe what she says vs what something looks like, because she doesnt see it as I do....

Ok So Just looking for perspectives on this situation...

My Taurus Ex and I have been on a rollercoster of emotions, one in which I have recently began trying to pull away emotionally because I do not do well with Grey areas, and I don't want to be lead on. On numerous occasions she has said that she cant say she doesn't want to get back together because that isn't how she feels but says we both have things we need to work on that led to our relationship failing.

Taurus met a Virgo shortly after our breakup (September) and Claimed to me that She isnt in a relationship and its not serious between them. She also told her best friend the same thing...But Unfortunately I hate to bring in social media because it can all be fake; but the Virgo posts everything about their outings, her gifts, even a trip they recently took. But the Taurus posted everything with NO trace that the Virgo was with her.

My ex is a Taurus/Libra Moon. What I have learned is that shes far more superficial than me. I find quality time with someone means way more than just "something to pass time" She is more of a social butterfly for quantity and not so much quality. Shes one to just like your company.

I as a a Scorpio Moon I see her actions from my point of view as You're lying!! this woman means more to you than you say....Just because you're with her all the time!

So The woman she is seeing is a Virgo (8/28) She is smitten by the Taurus, posting their pics all over and recently began with hastagging #mygf is the best. Taurus posts nothing of the girl. At times she would do a temporary Instagram story...& when I confronted her on this she said I told you what it was, and why are ypu concerned about what people are posting, What have I posted? What have I told you?

Taurus best friend told me the Virgo is looking for attention....and prob doing it so I can see or to prove to her own ex that shes moved on..



I also noticed she took down a lot of our pics, but kept all the pics of gifts I gave her and shes tagged me in, and kept my Surprise bday party pictures and a pic of us where she called me her favorite girl....

So my question is, What would make a Taurus get involve with someone, Claim the relationship is just a thing, and allow the virgo to post so much of them, and NOT post these things herself?

Is she being honest?

Is sure about the woman?

Is she Trying to keep private?

i think you need to let it go. you are wasting so much time and energy on her. you've broken up. who cares what she does and what she thinks and who she sees?

you do you and move on.

Posted by jeane

i think you need to let it go. you are wasting so much time and energy on her. you've broken up. who cares what she does and what she thinks and who she sees?

you do you and move on.

You cant tell someone HOW to handle something or suggest when they should move on. I am doing whats best for me & I wanted insight on this..Thank you.

Thank you.

It’s probably 50/50.

She’s keeping one foot in your door and the other in the Virgos. She might not be willing to give the Virgo the gf tittle on sm. But who knows what’s going down irl. She’s presenting a water down version on sm to keep you on the hook. But she’s giving the Virgo a ton of her time. Seems like she is playing both sides.

She might not be 100% sure about the Virgo and wants to keep her options open with you in case she decides grass isn’t greener and wants to come back.

I’d say do you and don’t hold out for the Taurus. Cause she certainly isn’t holding out for you.

Posted by Ssasy

Posted by jeane

i think you need to let it go. you are wasting so much time and energy on her. you've broken up. who cares what she does and what she thinks and who she sees?

you do you and move on.

You cant tell someone HOW to handle something or suggest when they should move on. I am doing whats best for me & I wanted insight on this..Thank you.

Thank you.

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fair enough. do you feel what you are doing now, is the best for you? is it working for you? feeling good? feeling happy? if so, continue and i hope that eventually you'll find the answers to your questions.

if not, then maybe it's time to reconsider your choices.

Posted by LadyNeptune

It’s probably 50/50.

She’s keeping one foot in your door and the other in the Virgos. She might not be willing to give the Virgo the gf tittle on sm. But who knows what’s going down irl. She’s presenting a water down version on sm to keep you on the hook. But she’s giving the Virgo a ton of her time. Seems like she is playing both sides.

She might not be 100% sure about the Virgo and wants to keep her options open with you in case she decides grass isn’t greener and wants to come back.

I’d say do you and don’t hold out for the Taurus. Cause she certainly isn’t holding out for you.

Thank You for your input, It does feel this way like an uncertainty.... I def haven't held back either only difference is, she cant tell what or who I am doing it with.....