Is a Taurus..

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Has anyone here ever have dating experiences with or know someone that has a Taurus Sun and Moon In Gemini?

If so, have you ever seen someone with those placements cheat?

Reason I am asking is there is a girl I used to go to high school with. I didnt know her well really back then.

She was popular considered one of the hottest girls in school and I was just this introverted awkward dude that is why I never really associated with her

Anyway flash forward to our class reunion years ago. I look physically different than I did then She didnt recognize me at first and started just flirting with me And then was shocked when I reminded her who I was

That didnt stop the flirting though but she was with someone. I didnt pay it any mind at the time.

But now in the years since ever since when running into each other at mutual friends she has kept up the flirting And we have now exchanged facebooks as of a few days ago. And her birthday was on the 1st of this month which is how I know the chart

But the flirting seems to look now where it may be more than that. If restrictions ease up more in a few months I am thinking of testing the waters to see if there is actual interest and not just a personality tick.

That's why I wanted to see if anyone has any experiences or have friend that have Taurus with a gem moon who cheated.

Just curious
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sorry for late reply, but I created this thread right before getting off work.

@dillpickle - Very true but depending the moon and mars placements, the chance of cheating can be greater.

I'm trying to be cautious as I am very aware people can have just flirtatious personalities in general. If it's light flirting I dont even assume interest.

But when it goes a little deeper such as constant physical contact, consistent compliments about looks, and her giving the impression in conversation that she is bored with her significant order makes me think otherwise.

But I dont want to be arrogant either and completely assume she's wanting to get plowed on the side

Hence why I am asking on here. I know how to test how serious the interest is once we are able to meet in person again.

If I actually am right, I would have no problem hooking up with her. I guess the attraction for me is to be able to have sex with someone who is in my age range for a change. Since most women I meet that like me are usually in their 20's.

I might be looked at for being a douche for hooking up with a taken gal, but unless a girl is in her very late 20's I am just not interested anymore When you are either dating or just fooling around with someone that is also in their 30's, its just easier period from my experience





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Posted by slowdive80

Has anyone here ever have dating experiences with or know someone that has a Taurus Sun and Moon In Gemini?

If so, have you ever seen someone with those placements cheat?

Reason I am asking is there is a girl I used to go to high school with. I didnt know her well really back then.

She was popular considered one of the hottest girls in school and I was just this introverted awkward dude that is why I never really associated with her

Anyway flash forward to our class reunion years ago. I look physically different than I did then She didnt recognize me at first and started just flirting with me And then was shocked when I reminded her who I was

That didnt stop the flirting though but she was with someone. I didnt pay it any mind at the time.

But now in the years since ever since when running into each other at mutual friends she has kept up the flirting And we have now exchanged facebooks as of a few days ago. And her birthday was on the 1st of this month which is how I know the chart

But the flirting seems to look now where it may be more than that. If restrictions ease up more in a few months I am thinking of testing the waters to see if there is actual interest and not just a personality tick.

That's why I wanted to see if anyone has any experiences or have friend that have Taurus with a gem moon who cheated.

Just curious


My hubs is Taurus sun w Gem moon.... he's super loyal (but he is also a male, just turned 40 & balding so he may not have been as accustomed to shallow flirting)... a way to know if she likes you is she will want to hang out w you every chance she gets. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø
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Could be unevolved energy She has been with the guy from high school to now and is married

I think she is having that feeling of missing out on casually dating in her 20's and settling down too soon. Cause she was always super interested in my stories from traveling around since she hasnt been out of state in a long time

When I went to my 10 yr reunion, I got a strong sense of the married people that I went to school with not being happy since they all married in early 20's It's not surprising since where I am from is a small city not a lot of people move away like I did.

I am just glad I never married young as Ive been recently finding out that everyone I went to school is currently divorced or divorcing

The cult thinking of the small town lol..
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Whats your sign and what are your intentions? Do you actually care for her or is this just a conquest for you?

Either way, starting anything from cheating never leads to anything solid. Let me add to this, anyone has the capacity for cheating. It’s about choices. I’m this combo and my story was full of poor choices for a long time. After my mom died, instead of making healthy choices for my life I did the converse, over and over. Got addicted to drugs and yes, cheated. Most regrettable thing I ever did but also a catalyst for me to clean up my life. So how much damage do you want to inflict? Bc that’s all that cheating really does let’s be real. One moment of perceived bliss is worth that to you? Move on. Ignore her boredom and advances and find a healthier mate. Save you and others some pain. It’s just not worth it.
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So she’s married šŸ¤”

Kinda weird to reject 20 something singles as not mature enough for a relationship.

But entertain an older married woman... I don’t see how that would make your life ā€˜easier’.

I watch too many true crime documentaries and the outcome for the side piece is either a shallow grave via enraged spouse or a prison cell after getting caught up for helping wifee kill the hubby to collect the life insurance monies.
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Sorry for bringing a thread back from the dead, but just want to clear up some things.

I wasnt seeking a relationship with her this is just smashing. 2nd my impression from what mutual friends have said (BTW they dont know she has been flirting with me and that I am thinking of banging her) about the significant other is he already mentally checked out of the relationship and is looking for any excuse to leave at this point.

With 30 somethings I meant it is easier to do casual as 20 somethings are either easier to get clingy based off good sex alone or they flake on meeting in person. Not saying 30 somethings cant get attached but at least they flake way less for date or meetups than 20 somethings from my experience.

I havent made a move yet regarding this But the sense of how easier it would be if she is wanting to take the flirting into the bedroom is tempting.

I may have a option with a single girl right now so pursuing that instead However because she is 20 something I get the feeling we'll set up a meet and she will flake then ghost I dont care if someone starts ghosting me after I ask if they want to meet up.

My pet peeve is when a meet up is set up then gets cancelled by them Then get ghosted. My feeling is if you werent interested in me and were not going to meet up, why bother setting it up in the first place3?

They can just ghost me if I ask to hang out via text and they are not interested and I'll take the hint. This is why I dont like dealing with trying to date 20 somethings. 30 somethings can flake too but again the ratio is much lower

We'll see what happens but for now the thing with the taurus gal is in limbo