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Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Rindaroo
Well yes you want to hide it, but how do you know it's just attention seeking.. you don't know what winen have gone through. Maybe this #metoo is a form of support for those who have been sexually assaulted or raped.

Have some compassion.


Nope, not going to have compassion for this type of behavior.

I will reserve compassion for the women that have actually been raped or severely sexually assaulted, and live with it and refuse to be victims.

I am not going to have compassion for these idiots. And you can almost always tell the fabricated stories, from the real ones.


So how do you personally tell the truth between those who have been assaulted compared to those who are just jumping the bandwagon.

I certainly hope your statement of "living with it" and not being a victim comes from a place of personal experience.... because lets be honest here, People deal with things differently.

So if someone wants to hashtag metoo. Who are you to judge who is really a victim or not, because I assume you wrote the textbook to "coping and living with it"


Nothing against you, so dont take this personal.

Please refer to the 2 last pages. I am tired of repeating myself and the low key women whom dont understand that i want fairness when things are obviously lies.


Yeah I kinda stopped reading the thread at page 4 so apologies if you have explained.

I think its easy for us to judge how others deal with things. Just because you put on your right shoe first while I put on my left, does not mean we doing it wrong was my point.

Two sisters are raped in one family....

One commits suicide over it because she cant cope or deal with what happened to her.

The other sister may decide to tweet/post #metoo.

Just saying.

Edit to add: Also what one person will feel is harassment the next person may not. If my friend slaps me on my ass and I don't like it, I could view this has sexual harassment. If the same friend slaps another friend on the ass, it could be seen as a joke.



It is not the validity of the stories that I have an issue with, nor discrediting them all together. Again, I will state that I believe all women have a story of some from of sexual harassment. Be it a catcall, a smack on the ass, etc...

It is the obvious exaggeration of those stories, or the oneupsmanship nature that I am seeing that annoys me.
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Ok, I can see your point and agree somewhat. I think it was more the part where you said "and live with it and refuse to be victims" that just got to me :-)

Anyway I understand now and didn't mean to single you out, as I say I stopped reading the thread... sorry if you felt I did single you out.



Posted by tiziani
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Should I go for/with guy C, D or F?


Serious question or just kidding?

I don't know what C D F is


Serious lol. They refer to names :-)

Oops I forgot - Current location = London, UK and time is 14:54pm




I had to use 14.44 as that was when you first asked

I'll offer you three kinds of romance from what I see in this question, it depends which kind of romance you want:

- The guy who seems kind of selfish, stubborn and not so easy to throw off his path is the one you can feel good trusting your secrets to. More of a lovemaking romance here.

- The guy who seems crafty, like he'd tell a few lies to keep people away, is the one you can build a long-term relationship with.

- The guy who's a musician or into art, who knows how to win favours with friends and strangers, he's the one you can have wild unhibited sex with, with no regrets.


You freak me out sometimes!

C it is then.



Enjoy

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Thank you!



Posted by tiziani
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Should I go for/with guy C, D or F?


Serious question or just kidding?

I don't know what C D F is


Serious lol. They refer to names :-)

Oops I forgot - Current location = London, UK and time is 14:54pm




I had to use 14.44 as that was when you first asked

I'll offer you three kinds of romance from what I see in this question, it depends which kind of romance you want:

- The guy who seems kind of selfish, stubborn and not so easy to throw off his path is the one you can feel good trusting your secrets to. More of a lovemaking romance here.

- The guy who seems crafty, like he'd tell a few lies to keep people away, is the one you can build a long-term relationship with.

- The guy who's a musician or into art, who knows how to win favours with friends and strangers, he's the one you can have wild unhibited sex with, with no regrets.
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You freak me out sometimes!

C it is then.

Posted by tctao
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by tctao
you deserve to live your dream and I hope it comes true for you !


Did you delete your old profile?






no I can't even get back in there - had to open 2 new accounts with all this stuff going on - it has not been fun
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Awe ok. LOL your name reminds me of something they would call a panda bear now

Posted by tctao
you deserve to live your dream and I hope it comes true for you !


Did you delete your old profile?




Posted by tiziani
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Should I go for/with guy C, D or F?


Serious question or just kidding?

I don't know what C D F is
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Serious lol. They refer to names :-)

Oops I forgot - Current location = London, UK and time is 14:54pm

Should I go for/with guy C, D or F?
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Rindaroo
Well yes you want to hide it, but how do you know it's just attention seeking.. you don't know what winen have gone through. Maybe this #metoo is a form of support for those who have been sexually assaulted or raped.

Have some compassion.


Nope, not going to have compassion for this type of behavior.

I will reserve compassion for the women that have actually been raped or severely sexually assaulted, and live with it and refuse to be victims.

I am not going to have compassion for these idiots. And you can almost always tell the fabricated stories, from the real ones.


So how do you personally tell the truth between those who have been assaulted compared to those who are just jumping the bandwagon.

I certainly hope your statement of "living with it" and not being a victim comes from a place of personal experience.... because lets be honest here, People deal with things differently.

So if someone wants to hashtag metoo. Who are you to judge who is really a victim or not, because I assume you wrote the textbook to "coping and living with it"


Nothing against you, so dont take this personal.

Please refer to the 2 last pages. I am tired of repeating myself and the low key women whom dont understand that i want fairness when things are obviously lies.
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Yeah I kinda stopped reading the thread at page 4 so apologies if you have explained.

I think its easy for us to judge how others deal with things. Just because you put on your right shoe first while I put on my left, does not mean we doing it wrong was my point.

Two sisters are raped in one family....

One commits suicide over it because she cant cope or deal with what happened to her.

The other sister may decide to tweet/post #metoo.

Just saying.

Edit to add: Also what one person will feel is harassment the next person may not. If my friend slaps me on my ass and I don't like it, I could view this has sexual harassment. If the same friend slaps another friend on the ass, it could be seen as a joke.

Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Rindaroo
Well yes you want to hide it, but how do you know it's just attention seeking.. you don't know what winen have gone through. Maybe this #metoo is a form of support for those who have been sexually assaulted or raped.

Have some compassion.


Nope, not going to have compassion for this type of behavior.

I will reserve compassion for the women that have actually been raped or severely sexually assaulted, and live with it and refuse to be victims.

I am not going to have compassion for these idiots. And you can almost always tell the fabricated stories, from the real ones.
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So how do you personally tell the truth between those who have been assaulted compared to those who are just jumping the bandwagon.

I certainly hope your statement of "living with it" and not being a victim comes from a place of personal experience.... because lets be honest here, People deal with things differently.

So if someone wants to hashtag metoo. Who are you to judge who is really a victim or not, because I assume you wrote the textbook to "coping and living with it"
I also go with Aqua.

I have too much airy bits in water to be detached overall. My feels are real. However if I make my mind up to detach from anyone or a situation, I can do it in a heartbeat..
LOL at this thread.

I really want to add my 2c but I will refrain.

Best of luck to you both
Posted by jeane
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I peck kiss ALL of my family on the lips. Mum, dad, uncles.... aunts.... grannies and grandpas

It's greeting them ffs.




They must think we fully make out with them or something.



I agree, its so weird that people will read into it as anything else. Those complaining about bacteria must brush and rinse before they kiss their other half EVERY time.


I admit, I brush my teeth a lot and try to keep my mouth as clean as I can. I consider it a sign of respect.
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I brush mine around 3 times a day, morning, after lunch and before bed. But the way some are going on about dirty mouths etc. I am surprised humans have sex and show any affection with romantic kissing.

As I mentioned I am happy to kiss my family members even close friends and most certainly show affection to my little ones so if they want a kiss on the lips they will get them :-)

But I do understand each to their own and no one should ever feel they are dirty or weird for kissing family or friends with a peck on the lips.

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I peck kiss ALL of my family on the lips. Mum, dad, uncles.... aunts.... grannies and grandpas

It's greeting them ffs.




They must think we fully make out with them or something.



I agree, its so weird that people will read into it as anything else. Those complaining about bacteria must brush and rinse before they kiss their other half EVERY time.


I find it treetrunking sad if your kid gets to see their parent showing affection to the other parent but they dont get the same affection. Kids need way more love and affection than other adults do ffs.
I can imagine...Fast forward to adulthood..."My mom would kiss my dad but never me. I only ever got a quick emotionless pec on the forehead"
Some people shouldnt breed. IMHO.
Affection that comes with limits is the quickest way to treetrunk up your children. Just saying. Obviously people need to use common sense so lets not get all stupid and ridiculous arguing my point now.
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I agreee
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I peck kiss ALL of my family on the lips. Mum, dad, uncles.... aunts.... grannies and grandpas

It's greeting them ffs.




They must think we fully make out with them or something.



I agree, its so weird that people will read into it as anything else. Those complaining about bacteria must brush and rinse before they kiss their other half EVERY time.


I find it treetrunking sad if your kid gets to see their parent showing affection to the other parent but they dont get the same affection. Kids need way more love and affection than other adults do ffs.
I can imagine...Fast forward to adulthood..."My mom would kiss my dad but never me. I only ever got a quick emotionless pec on the forehead"
Some people shouldnt breed. IMHO.
Affection that comes with limits is the quickest way to treetrunk up your children. Just saying. Obviously people need to use common sense so lets not get all stupid and ridiculous arguing my point now.
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I agreee
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I peck kiss ALL of my family on the lips. Mum, dad, uncles.... aunts.... grannies and grandpas

It's greeting them ffs.




They must think we fully make out with them or something.
click to expand



I agree, its so weird that people will read into it as anything else. Those complaining about bacteria must brush and rinse before they kiss their other half EVERY time.
I peck kiss ALL of my family on the lips. Mum, dad, uncles.... aunts.... grannies and grandpas

It's greeting them ffs.