Are Geminis Capable of being in Love?

I mean, for more than a day or 2..

Asking for a friend 🫡

I know a Gemini who's been engaged to the same person for years...

Sure, for about 6 minutes.

The women are, esp with cancer mercury

Only with Virgos, I think 🤔

They are capable of love when they are married…. just not with their spouse.

not sure if it’s a gemini problem but if you’re just referring to people who can’t stay focused on a single person for more than a few days, they’re suffering from a lack of imagination, lack of patience, lack of compassion/empathy, lack of ability to see the beauty in things/people that aren’t picture perfect, lack of loyalty, lack of humor (people who have a good sense of humor usually have big hearts too), lack of maturity and lack of attention span amongst other stuff (too many to list here).

basically, these are the type of people who have a new crush every single week or month because they tend to lose interest as soon as they find out whoever they’re dealing with is not perfect.

gemini energy has little to do with it. i’m gemini dominant and never had any attention span issue in love. i’m just a little forgetful sometimes but never had any issue keeping my attention on one person for a long time. also know many people with prominent gemini in their charts. they don’t have this issue.

look within yourself and see what’s really going on.

Posted by serenidad
not sure if it’s a gemini problem but if you’re just referring to people who can’t stay focused on a single person for more than a few days, they’re suffering from a lack of imagination, lack of patience, lack of compassion/empathy, lack of ability to see the beauty in things/people that aren’t picture perfect, lack of loyalty, lack of humor (people who have a good sense of humor usually have big hearts too), lack of maturity and lack of attention span amongst other stuff (too many to list here).


basically, these are the type of people who have a new crush every single week or month because they tend to lose interest as soon as they find out whoever they’re dealing with is not perfect.


gemini energy has little to do with it. i’m gemini dominant and never had any attention span issue in love. i’m just a little forgetful sometimes but never had any issue keeping my attention on one person for a long time. also know many people with prominent gemini in their charts. they don’t have this issue.


look within yourself and see what’s really going on.

A Gemini with cancer placement don't have this issue at all. As a Gemini dominant as you and I both are do you have any cancer placements? And is it prominent if you do have cancer placements?

Yeah only when its build through friendship

Posted by ThatWoman
Do geminis like being in love?

No, its very inconvenient

No

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Posted by serenidad
not sure if it’s a gemini problem but if you’re just referring to people who can’t stay focused on a single person for more than a few days, they’re suffering from a lack of imagination, lack of patience, lack of compassion/empathy, lack of ability to see the beauty in things/people that aren’t picture perfect, lack of loyalty, lack of humor (people who have a good sense of humor usually have big hearts too), lack of maturity and lack of attention span amongst other stuff (too many to list here).

basically, these are the type of people who have a new crush every single week or month because they tend to lose interest as soon as they find out whoever they’re dealing with is not perfect.

gemini energy has little to do with it. i’m gemini dominant and never had any attention span issue in love. i’m just a little forgetful sometimes but never had any issue keeping my attention on one person for a long time. also know many people with prominent gemini in their charts. they don’t have this issue.

look within yourself and see what’s really going on.

A Gemini with cancer placement don't have this issue at all. As a Gemini dominant as you and I both are do you have any cancer placements? And is it prominent if you do have cancer placements?

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the only cancer i have is my south node and chiron.

i think i just understand that humans aren’t perfect and someone not being perfect isn’t a valid enough reason to throw them away.

i don’t treat humans like they are easily disposable and replaceable.

the people i know who treat people this way are usually walking red flags themselves yet they think everyone else is the problem. when these types of folks come to me for love advice, i’m just like, “………….”

like, think of someone (anyone) in your life who has a new crush every week or month. i’m willing to bet they are full of issues themselves. issues that go way deeper than just their short attention spans.

Posted by serenidad

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Posted by serenidad
not sure if it’s a gemini problem but if you’re just referring to people who can’t stay focused on a single person for more than a few days, they’re suffering from a lack of imagination, lack of patience, lack of compassion/empathy, lack of ability to see the beauty in things/people that aren’t picture perfect, lack of loyalty, lack of humor (people who have a good sense of humor usually have big hearts too), lack of maturity and lack of attention span amongst other stuff (too many to list here).

basically, these are the type of people who have a new crush every single week or month because they tend to lose interest as soon as they find out whoever they’re dealing with is not perfect.

gemini energy has little to do with it. i’m gemini dominant and never had any attention span issue in love. i’m just a little forgetful sometimes but never had any issue keeping my attention on one person for a long time. also know many people with prominent gemini in their charts. they don’t have this issue.

look within yourself and see what’s really going on.

A Gemini with cancer placement don't have this issue at all. As a Gemini dominant as you and I both are do you have any cancer placements? And is it prominent if you do have cancer placements?
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the only cancer i have is my south node and chiron.

i think i just understand that humans aren’t perfect and someone not being perfect isn’t a valid enough reason to throw them away.

i don’t treat humans like they are easily disposable and replaceable.


the people i know who treat people this way are usually walking red flags themselves yet they think everyone else is the problem. when these types of folks come to me for love advice, i’m just like, “………….”


like, think of someone (anyone) in your life who has a new crush every week or month. i’m willing to bet they are full of issues themselves. issues that go way deeper than just their short attention spans.

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That's not Geminis tho

My boyfriend has moon in cancer and Venus in cancer. And as far as I can see, he has empathy for everybody else but me and himself.

He's one of the most selfish self, absorbed men Ive ever met

The answer is no btw 😂

Maybe. Well, Idk but my marriage with Aquarius, failed. I'm now married to a Scorpio. Maybe he's my true love. Who knew?

Posted by Raminheartz
They are capable of love when they are married…. just not with their spouse.

They can fall in love.. btw who on earth create such true phrase. Fall in love.. when you are in love, you fall..

Now I think about how sagittarius can't fall in love because they are always going up with their broomstick and gears.

I think geminis are super cutesy. Idk why they can never hurt me, a scorpio.. they are so fluffy.. i think people fall in love wit them but they be wondering why..

Or perhaps Aquas who like to wonder too much. Sigh...

Yes, if you don't love them back.

Posted by MyuMe84
My boyfriend has moon in cancer and Venus in cancer. And as far as I can see, he has empathy for everybody else but me and himself.

He's one of the most selfish self, absorbed men Ive ever met

What's keeping you hooked?

They can but they are very strict and flighty. You'd have to be in a position where they have to rely on you for something. And you'd have to be super consistent and adventurous. It's a lot of work imo. If they have fixed placements it might make it easier. My mom was a Gem.

And like a user here previously stated, there has to be a strong friendship. Such is the Air energy.

probably not

Yes, we can.

Posted by clare
Yes, if you don't love them back.

So true. They need to love you more than you love them.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by clare
Yes, if you don't love them back.

So true. They need to love you more than you love them.

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To be honest, I was in a prickly mood when I wrote this. I loved a Gemini once and he loved me back.

I had a brief connection with a gemini sun guy in my neighborhood. It was a great friendship, we did things together after a while he did a little sexual gesture.

Tbh I didn't have any strong feelings for him at that time so i was like ok, it could be enjoyable..

But yeah the friendship faded away and no heartbreak at all..

Thing is I didn't know how he felt for me so I was just enjoying moments with him.. having conversations with him was exciting! He was a great conversationalist.

But he did reveal he hadsome kind of mental breakdown at times.. I remembered he shed light about having many friends and acquintances he felt "alone" in the middle of the crowds he was in. Maybe he didn't feel such deep connections to all of them and it might have included me too..

I think geminis are not very open in speaking up about what they feel. They had rather "mask" them be it by joking, or excessive talking.. yeah, so it can be complex for them.

Now I have my husband who is a gemini moon and I can say the same thing, he doesn't feel comfortable to talk about feelings and had rather talk about bazillion things but feelings... Which can't fail me to still feel how he feels..

So it almost like he talks about what I feel and I feel what he talks about..

I think they need to be sure they won't be rejected one way or another so they had rather keep it on friendly level.. and another factor is their mind kind of racing so they may get confused what feelings they are having.. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Posted by Whynn
I had a brief connection with a gemini sun guy in my neighborhood. It was a great friendship, we did things together after a while he did a little sexual gesture.

Tbh I didn't have any strong feelings for him at that time so i was like ok, it could be enjoyable..

But yeah the friendship faded away and no heartbreak at all..

Thing is I didn't know how he felt for me so I was just enjoying moments with him.. having conversations with him was exciting! He was a great conversationalist.

But he did reveal he hadsome kind of mental breakdown at times.. I remembered he shed light about having many friends and acquintances he felt "alone" in the middle of the crowds he was in. Maybe he didn't feel such deep connections to all of them and it might have included me too..

I think geminis are not very open in speaking up about what they feel. They had rather "mask" them be it by joking, or excessive talking.. yeah, so it can be complex for them.

Now I have my husband who is a gemini moon and I can say the same thing, he doesn't feel comfortable to talk about feelings and had rather talk about bazillion things but feelings... Which can't fail me to still feel how he feels..

So it almost like he talks about what I feel and I feel what he talks about..

I think they need to be sure they won't be rejected one way or another so they had rather keep it on friendly level.. and another factor is their mind kind of racing so they may get confused what feelings they are having.. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Haha nailed it 👍