@GeminPhilly
8 Years
Gemini woman/Capricorn man
Posted by starlord
What do you mean go with the flow?
More of a laidback vibe. We just met and he's calling me and texting 24/7 as if I have time to do that all day. Then he gets all in his feelings when I don't answer right away smh
Men driving women crazy since the world turns! What’s your personal problem with this particular man?
I love that he is showing interest but we have never even met in person yet. He seems controlling as hell. I like him, but he's making me feel smothered already.
Yeah he has asked me to clarify myself on multiple occasions. Like I'm speaking not direct enough. We were supposed to hang out this weekend for the first time but I had to work. He took it so personal he started writing me whole novels in my texts smh lol
Posted by CaptainCap
He sounds like me when I'm confused on if a girl really treetrunking with me fr or not. Probably overthinking things. I'm actually aware of it now, so I force myself to pull back and relax and let things play out.
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention
Posted by GeminPhilly
Yeah he has asked me to clarify myself on multiple occasions. Like I'm speaking not direct enough. We were supposed to hang out this weekend for the first time but I had to work. He took it so personal he started writing me whole novels in my texts smh lolPosted by CaptainCap
He sounds like me when I'm confused on if a girl really treetrunking with me fr or not. Probably overthinking things. I'm actually aware of it now, so I force myself to pull back and relax and let things play out.click to expand
Lol....these are the moments where I realize I'm not the only dude that be tripping like this lol. All I can say is he has a very genuine interest in you. He wouldn't be asking you to clarify nothing or seek for reassurance if not. Your actions (example: not being able to hangout) are probably, to him, just not matching with the vibe of your conversations or whatever you're saying to him, so he probably think you're playing games. This may sound bad, but as a Capricorn man, I look at dating or relationships as a business investment. If it seems flawed, unreliable , ingenuine , not promising, I'm not investing my time or money into it because I don't like having that waisted. click to expand
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I can understand that, but I can't relate at all! I'm easy breezy most of the time and only get affected by a person's actions after I fall for them. I'm not putting anyone over my bread. Especially someone I haven't even met yet. And, I have no obilgation to him and he is acting like I made a commitment or something when everything should feel very casual right now. I just told him this morning that we are not compatible at all. Even as friends. He is too much for me. I rather stick to my Gems and Aquas. We don't take things so serious lol
Posted by GeminPhilly
Yeah he has asked me to clarify myself on multiple occasions. Like I'm speaking not direct enough. We were supposed to hang out this weekend for the first time but I had to work. He took it so personal he started writing me whole novels in my texts smh lolPosted by CaptainCap
He sounds like me when I'm confused on if a girl really treetrunking with me fr or not. Probably overthinking things. I'm actually aware of it now, so I force myself to pull back and relax and let things play out.click to expand
Lol....these are the moments where I realize I'm not the only dude that be tripping like this lol. All I can say is he has a very genuine interest in you. He wouldn't be asking you to clarify nothing or seek for reassurance if not. Your actions (example: not being able to hangout) are probably, to him, just not matching with the vibe of your conversations or whatever you're saying to him, so he probably think you're playing games. This may sound bad, but as a Capricorn man, I look at dating or relationships as a business investment. If it seems flawed, unreliable , ingenuine , not promising, I'm not investing my time or money into it because I don't like having that waisted. click to expandclick to expand
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I think all of us Caps, view our relationships as Business Investments..
This girl is complaining about the interest level her Cap is showing, but only if she knew how rare that is for Caps to do. I would say that she won't have to worry about it for very much longer, if she doesn't start appreciating it. That's just my opinion.
Posted by GeminPhilly
Yeah he has asked me to clarify myself on multiple occasions. Like I'm speaking not direct enough. We were supposed to hang out this weekend for the first time but I had to work. He took it so personal he started writing me whole novels in my texts smh lolPosted by CaptainCap
He sounds like me when I'm confused on if a girl really treetrunking with me fr or not. Probably overthinking things. I'm actually aware of it now, so I force myself to pull back and relax and let things play out.click to expand
Lol....these are the moments where I realize I'm not the only dude that be tripping like this lol. All I can say is he has a very genuine interest in you. He wouldn't be asking you to clarify nothing or seek for reassurance if not. Your actions (example: not being able to hangout) are probably, to him, just not matching with the vibe of your conversations or whatever you're saying to him, so he probably think you're playing games. This may sound bad, but as a Capricorn man, I look at dating or relationships as a business investment. If it seems flawed, unreliable , ingenuine , not promising, I'm not investing my time or money into it because I don't like having that waisted. click to expand
I can understand that, but I can't relate at all! I'm easy breezy most of the time and only get affected by a person's actions after I fall for them. I'm not putting anyone over my bread. Especially someone I haven't even met yet. And, I have no obilgation to him and he is acting like I made a commitment or something when everything should feel very casual right now. I just told him this morning that we are not compatible at all. Even as friends. He is too much for me. I rather stick to my Gems and Aquas. We don't take things so serious lol click to expand
I literally just made a post about Gemini and Aquarius' lol, but yea I don't blame you. He gon' be salty when you cut him off. In his head, he already got you guys first and second date specifically planned out lol. click to expand
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Fellow Cap and I can attest to the second part. I find I attract Gems but there is a clash of breeziness versus solidness.
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention
😂😂😂 Oh really! Well that must be why I feel the urge to resist him. I doubt that I will ever get to that point with him. He's a nuisance at this point lol
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention
damn you're salty hahah but TRU
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention😂😂😂 Oh really! Well that must be why I feel the urge to resist him. I doubt that I will ever get to that point with him. He's a nuisance at this point lol click to expand
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You haven't even gotten to the fun part yet LOL
Posted by GeminPhilly
Yeah he has asked me to clarify myself on multiple occasions. Like I'm speaking not direct enough. We were supposed to hang out this weekend for the first time but I had to work. He took it so personal he started writing me whole novels in my texts smh lolPosted by CaptainCap
He sounds like me when I'm confused on if a girl really treetrunking with me fr or not. Probably overthinking things. I'm actually aware of it now, so I force myself to pull back and relax and let things play out.click to expand
Lol....these are the moments where I realize I'm not the only dude that be tripping like this lol. All I can say is he has a very genuine interest in you. He wouldn't be asking you to clarify nothing or seek for reassurance if not. Your actions (example: not being able to hangout) are probably, to him, just not matching with the vibe of your conversations or whatever you're saying to him, so he probably think you're playing games. This may sound bad, but as a Capricorn man, I look at dating or relationships as a business investment. If it seems flawed, unreliable , ingenuine , not promising, I'm not investing my time or money into it because I don't like having that waisted. click to expand
I can understand that, but I can't relate at all! I'm easy breezy most of the time and only get affected by a person's actions after I fall for them. I'm not putting anyone over my bread. Especially someone I haven't even met yet. And, I have no obilgation to him and he is acting like I made a commitment or something when everything should feel very casual right now. I just told him this morning that we are not compatible at all. Even as friends. He is too much for me. I rather stick to my Gems and Aquas. We don't take things so serious lol click to expand
I literally just made a post about Gemini and Aquarius' lol, but yea I don't blame you. He gon' be salty when you cut him off. In his head, he already got you guys first and second date specifically planned out lol. click to expand
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Did you really?? I wanna see it now lol I feel like we are meant to be cause no one else can understand us. We're weird,flaky and rude to everyone else 😂😂 Oh he seemed salty when I told him that. All he said was "10-4" And he definitely had at least 4 dates and a sleepover planned already 😩😩😂😂
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention
Smart girl..
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attentiondamn you're salty hahah but TRU click to expand
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Bwahahaha I wasn't gonna go there! 😩😂😂
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention😂😂😂 Oh really! Well that must be why I feel the urge to resist him. I doubt that I will ever get to that point with him. He's a nuisance at this point lol click to expandclick to expand
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Don't worry. I'm sure it won't get to that point with him either, not genuinely anyway. He probably is like this with you, because you're a challenge for him. That will get old quickly though.
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention😂😂😂 Oh really! Well that must be why I feel the urge to resist him. I doubt that I will ever get to that point with him. He's a nuisance at this point lol click to expand
You haven't even gotten to the fun part yet LOL click to expand
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Wait...is there fun part? Lol
All I can say is that when he gets what he is looking for - it will all depend on how much he is taken by Gem. He could actually continue to be annoying or he will reduce it to ‘want to fk today?’
Except between me and my Cap husband it’s not even THAT anymore...lmao
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention😂😂😂 Oh really! Well that must be why I feel the urge to resist him. I doubt that I will ever get to that point with him. He's a nuisance at this point lol click to expandclick to expand
Don't worry. I'm sure it won't get to that point with him either, not genuinely anyway. He probably is like this with you, because you're a challenge for him. That will get old quickly though. click to expand
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I kept it real and told him that I wanna take things slow and casual. He said he wanted the same and proceeded to take things quick and serious. So, I like him but I could just as easily forget him
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attentiondamn you're salty hahah but TRU click to expand
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Not salty my cap never left 😏 What other answer was she looking for? Gem and cap could never be bcz gem has two sides that cap will tire of. Caps are a card game. Know when to hold em and when to fold em.
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention😂😂😂 Oh really! Well that must be why I feel the urge to resist him. I doubt that I will ever get to that point with him. He's a nuisance at this point lol click to expand
You haven't even gotten to the fun part yet LOL click to expand
Wait...is there fun part? Lol
All I can say is that when he gets what he is looking for - it will all depend on how much he is taken by Gem. He could actually continue to be annoying or he will reduce it to ‘want to fk today?’
Except between me and my Cap husband it’s not even THAT anymore...lmao click to expand
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Cap doesn't even know what they want so you gotta make up his mind for him and gem women usually aren't built for that kind of mental stratego.
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attentiondamn you're salty hahah but TRU click to expand
Not salty my cap never left 😏 What other answer was she looking for? Gem and cap could never be bcz gem has two sides that cap will tire of. Caps are a card game. Know when to hold em and when to fold em.
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i know a cap and gem couple who have been together for yearsss, geminis can actually sustain that relationship pretty well, you think only your sign is compatible with a cap LOL
Posted by kitten_
I have nothing to say about Gemini women, but if you're a Capricorn man and reading this please trust me, Geminis doesn't love Capricorn and never will.
Wow!! lol Not disagreeing with you at all. But, what makes you say this? Personal experience?
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attentiondamn you're salty hahah but TRU click to expand
Not salty my cap never left 😏 What other answer was she looking for? Gem and cap could never be bcz gem has two sides that cap will tire of. Caps are a card game. Know when to hold em and when to fold em.
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i know a cap and gem couple who have been together for yearsss, geminis can actually sustain that relationship pretty well, you think only your sign is compatible with a cap LOL click to expand
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Yes. And cancer women. At times sag Chicks.
I reserve the right to believe that. Tha gem x cap couple are probably miserable
Posted by kitten_
I have nothing to say about Gemini women, but if you're a Capricorn man and reading this please trust me, Geminis doesn't love Capricorn and never will.How would you know?
@Moonshineleo we got another one who thinks only their sign is compatible with a specific sign lol click to expand
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lmaoooo we are all kidding ourselves anyways
I think that I need to stick to my Aquas. I'm not ready for what he's offering at this point. And I'm worse in the summer. I don't sit still and he wants to restrict my moves.
Posted by GeminPhilly
I think that I need to stick to my Aquas. I'm not ready for what he's offering at this point. And I'm worse in the summer. I don't sit still and he wants to restrict my moves.Is he born later in the month/3rd decan? Those Capricorns seem to be more regimented and less fun
Ive found Im better friends with Capricorns born early in the month click to expand
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His birthday is December 26. I said to him "oh your birthday is a day after Christmas". He says "Wrong. My birthday is on the 1st day of Kwanzaa" This sums up his personality to me. Dry!! 😥😂😂
Posted by kitten_
I have nothing to say about Gemini women, but if you're a Capricorn man and reading this please trust me, Geminis doesn't love Capricorn and never will.Wow!! lol Not disagreeing with you at all. But, what makes you say this? Personal experience? click to expand
thank you for agreeing with me 😇. click to expand
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Um...ok 😂😂
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention😂😂😂 Oh really! Well that must be why I feel the urge to resist him. I doubt that I will ever get to that point with him. He's a nuisance at this point lol click to expandclick to expand
Don't worry. I'm sure it won't get to that point with him either, not genuinely anyway. He probably is like this with you, because you're a challenge for him. That will get old quickly though. click to expand
I kept it real and told him that I wanna take things slow and casual. He said he wanted the same and proceeded to take things quick and serious. So, I like him but I could just as easily forget him click to expand
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Everything is irrelevant then, until it becomes an actual relationship. He has a genuine interest in you, but it's on the surface level. Once you're in an exclusive relationship, you will see the real him. Even then, give it a couple of months. Right around between the 6-8 week mark, he will make his final decision on you, by tallying up everything. Like, was your effort matching his, etc and then decide if he's in it for the long haul, or if he's booking it. I know for me, and a lot of Caps- it's usually the latter. Because we have so much to give, and a lot of people just don't realize a good thing when they have it.
So right now, you're not even getting reality. I'd say if you like him, do what I said above.
Posted by miriyahhh
Don't worry it will stop once you have feelings for him. After the initial first attraction fades you won't receive that same attention😂😂😂 Oh really! Well that must be why I feel the urge to resist him. I doubt that I will ever get to that point with him. He's a nuisance at this point lol click to expandclick to expand
Don't worry. I'm sure it won't get to that point with him either, not genuinely anyway. He probably is like this with you, because you're a challenge for him. That will get old quickly though. click to expand
I kept it real and told him that I wanna take things slow and casual. He said he wanted the same and proceeded to take things quick and serious. So, I like him but I could just as easily forget him click to expand
Everything is irrelevant then, until it becomes an actual relationship. He has a genuine interest in you, but it's on the surface level. Once you're in an exclusive relationship, you will see the real him. Even then, give it a couple of months. Right around between the 6-8 week mark, he will make his final decision on you, by tallying up everything. Like, was your effort matching his, etc and then decide if he's in it for the long haul, or if he's booking it. I know for me, and a lot of Caps- it's usually the latter. Because we have so much to give, and a lot of people just don't realize a good thing when they have it.
So right now, you're not even getting reality. I'd say if you like him, do what I said above. click to expand
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I like him. Just not enough. I like my space and freedom more lol
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I need more real-life information about this pairing. Already this Capricorn man is driving me crazy. Why can't they just go with the flow?? Ughhhh