Ladycrab
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Advice about Aquarians
He's not interested. And a jerk. Move on.
you need to grow the fuck up.
He said something nice, that's not offensive and he said it with good intent and you throw it back in his face, just keep doing that to any man and see how long your relationships last.
He said something nice, that's not offensive and he said it with good intent and you throw it back in his face, just keep doing that to any man and see how long your relationships last.
Thank you for your reply.
I understand your opinion, but to me his answer was dussapointing and not what I needed to hear. And then he insulted me by saying you are empty headed.
But as usual in similar situations, he disappeared for few hours and tried to act as if nothing happened.but at the end as usual I fail to take a stand till the end cause I love him.
So what do you think should happen now.
He never opened the messages till now.And also through viber, I realized that he ended his trip yesterday.
I understand your opinion, but to me his answer was dussapointing and not what I needed to hear. And then he insulted me by saying you are empty headed.
But as usual in similar situations, he disappeared for few hours and tried to act as if nothing happened.but at the end as usual I fail to take a stand till the end cause I love him.
So what do you think should happen now.
He never opened the messages till now.And also through viber, I realized that he ended his trip yesterday.
I think with his words he meant you to stay strong, be strong and independent and he was assuring you that without even his help you can do better. But you took it in a wrong way. Communication gap over here sweetheart. And he tried to solve it by sending you a message next morning and you intentionally piss him off with your sarcastic reply. I think you should find someone who can cry with you. Aquas are not good in that.
I hope people would help with giving advices but with respect.
I think he meant he was praying that nothing bad would happen. If nothing bad happens then you won't need anyone.
Don't know about your world, but in my world when someone prays for you, that means they are standing beside you.
You over reacted.
And for the record, don't have any expectatons about what you think an aquarian should say. They aren't going to say whathat you would say, they are going to say what they would say. If you are expecting something else then you are clouding your understanding of what they actually are saying and you won't be able to see the positive of their words.
Don't know about your world, but in my world when someone prays for you, that means they are standing beside you.
You over reacted.
And for the record, don't have any expectatons about what you think an aquarian should say. They aren't going to say whathat you would say, they are going to say what they would say. If you are expecting something else then you are clouding your understanding of what they actually are saying and you won't be able to see the positive of their words.
don't think he's a jerk.
Posted by Ladycrab
I understand your opinion, but to me his answer was dussapointing and not what I needed to hear. And then he insulted me by saying you are empty headed.
He seemed to mean well when he said he'll pray for you and he didn't mean for you to be insulted, he even tried to explain it by mentioning his mother and how she prays. You said his reply was disappointing after he was being kind and he may have gotten offended.
He called you empty headed because you were letting emotions get in the way of understanding what he was trying to explain regarding what he said. This probably frustrated him to the point of ending the conversation.
Posted by Ladycrab
But as usual in similar situations, he disappeared for few hours and tried to act as if nothing happened.click to expand
It seems like there was miscommunication and he tried to give you time to cool off which is why he contacted you the next day. Clearly he cared enough to reach out to you but you chose to drag out your anger and responded with an attitude.
Give him time to contact you and when or 'if' he does go ahead and have a talk with him but do not let emotions cloud your mind. In all honesty unless you are willing to understand him with a clear head I don't see this working.
Anyone who calls someone empty headed is a jerk, imo. That would be all it takes for me to walk. End of.
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Posted by sultrykitty
Anyone who calls someone empty headed is a jerk, imo. That would be all it takes for me to walk. End of.
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I get what you're saying but I think he didn't mean it as she's dumb but rather that she's not listening to what he's trying to say because she's too focused on being upset over the misunderstanding.
People say things in the heat of the moment or say things without fully thinking it through how it may come across but I personally don't think that makes them a bad person. We've all said or done something we wish we could take back or that we didn't mean to be insulting.
Just my opinion anyway.
Thank you so much for your time and kind replies. I really appreciated.I know we would have difficulties because I'm a typical cancer and he is a typical Aqua.
I sent to him last night that I miss him. So that he wouldn't be shy to comunicate.
He never walked away before. Usually I'm the one who do so, but it never lasted that long. And usually I return back.
I would like to narrate the whole story and his unique one cause it really disereves and I hope I would have your kind feedback about it.
I don't know if it is better to but the whole story here on the same topic or in a new one with a different address about that loyal aqua man.
Sorry for any mistakes in English. It is not my mother tongue.
I sent to him last night that I miss him. So that he wouldn't be shy to comunicate.
He never walked away before. Usually I'm the one who do so, but it never lasted that long. And usually I return back.
I would like to narrate the whole story and his unique one cause it really disereves and I hope I would have your kind feedback about it.
I don't know if it is better to but the whole story here on the same topic or in a new one with a different address about that loyal aqua man.
Sorry for any mistakes in English. It is not my mother tongue.
well he shouldn't have called you empty headed. but if you really like him, and he's not constantly abusive. And if you feel that what he said is in fun (although i don't like that empty headed remark either) but tell him straight how you feel. that that shit is uncalled for.
but i'm really sensitive alot myself. But i notice if my husband says something out of a joke, i mirror him back. tit for tat. and he lols. Then he says, i'm so sensitive and sweet. but my mouth gets worse!!! cause when i'm hurt alot i'm gonna say pissed off shit too.
anyway, tell him straight to his face how you feel that that shit is uncalled for.
if he doesn't understand that you're that way, very sensitive, then he needs to go away OR learn to be more sensitive to your needs/emotions. Not telling him to change his ways, of course but he needs to be aware of your feelings.
but i'm really sensitive alot myself. But i notice if my husband says something out of a joke, i mirror him back. tit for tat. and he lols. Then he says, i'm so sensitive and sweet. but my mouth gets worse!!! cause when i'm hurt alot i'm gonna say pissed off shit too.
anyway, tell him straight to his face how you feel that that shit is uncalled for.
if he doesn't understand that you're that way, very sensitive, then he needs to go away OR learn to be more sensitive to your needs/emotions. Not telling him to change his ways, of course but he needs to be aware of your feelings.
I'm still confused what is right thing now to do.
Writing him a long email of how I feel and what I expected.
Or just trying to keep calm and wait till he calls .I don't know after days. Months or forever.
Or calling him straight forward. And if he didn't answer so I 'll wait till he get back to me what ever that takes.
Writing him a long email of how I feel and what I expected.
Or just trying to keep calm and wait till he calls .I don't know after days. Months or forever.
Or calling him straight forward. And if he didn't answer so I 'll wait till he get back to me what ever that takes.
Posted by Ladycrab
I hope people would help with giving advices but with respect.
I am really sorry if you felt offended with my comment. I am not a relationship breaker, I do like to see you both living happily but astro wise you go well with water signs (Cancer, Scorpio & Pisces) or earth signs (Taurus,Virgo & Capricon). Air signs don't express emotions and that can hurt your feelings in the long term. All you need is to find a soul partner that can understand your emotional needs.
You told him you missed him. Do not contact him again. It's like begging. Since you've contacted him once, it's up to him to respond. If he doesn't respond, move on. For the sake of your sanity, have some self respect and don't beg.
My personal rule of thumb, I'll give them two weeks. After that, they're out of luck. I'd never feel the same again. I have more pride than to accept being ignored.
My personal rule of thumb, I'll give them two weeks. After that, they're out of luck. I'd never feel the same again. I have more pride than to accept being ignored.
You need to prepare yourself that he may have decided that you are not the woman for him.
Posted by truecap
Since you've contacted him once, it's up to him to respond. If he doesn't respond, move on.
I agree completely. I know it'll be tough because of the strong feelings but sometimes it's for the best.
If he does contact you tell him how you feel but try not to get upset. If he really cares he'll hear you out and I think with a good talking to face to face it can clear up a lot of misunderstandings.
If he doesn't seem sensitive to your feelings or needs then I'd definitely suggest leaving him be. In order for this to work it requires understanding on both sides.
Posted by geminidudePosted by Ladycrab
I hope people would help with giving advices but with respect.
I am really sorry if you felt offended with my comment. I am not a relationship breaker, I do like to see you both living happily but astro wise you go well with water signs (Cancer, Scorpio & Pisces) or earth signs (Taurus,Virgo & Capricon). Air signs don't express emotions and that can hurt your feelings in the long term. All you need is to find a soul partner that can understand your emotional needs.click to expand
didnt you pay attention? she said she's a typical cancer and he's a typical aqua (so he is most likely dominant air)
but i wonder....how is it that OP got with the aqua guy in the first place?? People don't gravitate to eachother in real life, in a relationship without some honest to goodness connections you know??
so he has to have something in his chart and she's got to have something in her chart to make them come together as a couple.
it's like OP purposely came in here to ramble about how cold and detached he is about her emotions.
but yet she says that he's a typical aqua.
how Obvious is that?? *rollseyes*
but yet she says that he's a typical aqua.
how Obvious is that?? *rollseyes*
i have pluto in the 8th. it's just automatic for me to be suspicious at the way it's presented.
sigh.
sigh.
I contacted him cause my sister in law married to an aqua "my brother". And she adviced me not ignore him even if he did. She adviced me that I send him a message evey few hours and then call him. She said that he likes that feeling.
Actually my guy, 10 days ago got upset that he texted me that he is so tired and need to sleep but will call me then sleep. I thought of being a kind girl and say that I miss you but if you are so tired and need to sleep instead of talking so sleep and I won't be mad at you. So he at once said Ok. And I thought I did something good. But the next day he told me he was upset cause I am the one who choosed to talk and you don't force to do anything.and he told me that isn't you, becuase before..When I say I can't talk , you used to say NO,YOU WILL TALK EVEN IF U CAN'T. I told him I thought this was bathering you and thought I'm now a good girl.He said no I was happy with that.
Actually my guy, 10 days ago got upset that he texted me that he is so tired and need to sleep but will call me then sleep. I thought of being a kind girl and say that I miss you but if you are so tired and need to sleep instead of talking so sleep and I won't be mad at you. So he at once said Ok. And I thought I did something good. But the next day he told me he was upset cause I am the one who choosed to talk and you don't force to do anything.and he told me that isn't you, becuase before..When I say I can't talk , you used to say NO,YOU WILL TALK EVEN IF U CAN'T. I told him I thought this was bathering you and thought I'm now a good girl.He said no I was happy with that.
I would like to narrate the whole story. But I'm new in the forum.Is it better to post the whole story here under the same topic or create a new one.
Thank you alawyes for your kind replies and thank you for the apologies. I'm sorry I failed to quote.
Thank you alawyes for your kind replies and thank you for the apologies. I'm sorry I failed to quote.
it's all good. go ahead and post the whole story here.
Ok
Ok. You got this then.
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This is the whole story..
Actually, truth is our relationship doesn't have any frame or title. That's because he has an extraordinary story and attitude.
We both in our thirteenth, but we didn't have many experiences. For me I just had only one harsh experience ended up 12 years ago that lasted for few years but was distant in time and place. And I never loved after this and I was always keeping my self away from dealing with men for many reasons.
For him, he had a strong love story 6 years ago that ended up with the death of the girl before their wedding party with about a month. He never loved after or before that sad story.
In spite of our age, we seemed a way younger than our age besides that I always feel that we act as if we are teenagers discovering love. We fight on little things, laugh on silly things, we used to were the same colours of clothes when we meet!
We are dating for 6 months now and he was the one who started showing a very clear interest in me with all his actions and words. He narrated his sad story in several occasions.
By the way, we live in the Middle east in a religious society, and that kind of relations are not welcomed by the society and family. Only engagements and marriages are acceptable. But my mentality has changed a lot in the past two years.
I consider our relationship went through 4 phases:
To be continued
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Phase 1 (Oct. till Dec): The title of this phase that I looked at him as a colleague and he was interested but looked shy.
We were just colleagues in a post graduate study. And we used to meet only in one subject because he is studying a different kind of study. I'm the one who approached him by coincidence and absolutely nothing was in my mind during this first phase especially that I thought he is a way younger than me.
From the very first day I knew him he seemed to be interested and I then I realized that he doesn't talk to any person whether men or girls expect me. And even when I wanted him to know other people and not to isolate him self and introduced him to some nice female colleagues which they are nice and a way younger than me, he totally ignored them. When I travelled Europe for two weeks, he kept asking my female colleages about me. He didn't know that I'm out of the country.
I was little bit depressed before and after my trip, I used to mention the words of death and suicide a lot and he seemed to be very caring but without asking why I feel so.
Truth is I used to be a very religious and a VERY firm believer but a year ago I do have some different thoughts. But my appearance still gives the impression that I'm a religious person. These thoughts were the reasons behind my sad thoughts. And I rarely declare this.
In other phased I informed his about those thoughts. AND THIS WAS THE TOPIC WE WERE TALKING ABOUT WHEN I TOLD HIM TO STAND BY ME AND HE SAID I WILL PRAY FOR YOU NOT NEED ANYBODY.
At that early stage I looked at him as a kind colleage sent to me by God to give me some happiness in a hard time.
At the end of that stage he used to say some phrase that I didn't realize like( You are a very good person, you are so important to me, you are the most important person in my life, You remind me with someone who were the best person in the world, That person was graduated from the same college and has the same interests of you, I like the way you dress )!!
Phase 1 (Oct. till Dec): The title of this phase that I looked at him as a colleague and he was interested but looked shy.
We were just colleagues in a post graduate study. And we used to meet only in one subject because he is studying a different kind of study. I'm the one who approached him by coincidence and absolutely nothing was in my mind during this first phase especially that I thought he is a way younger than me.
From the very first day I knew him he seemed to be interested and I then I realized that he doesn't talk to any person whether men or girls expect me. And even when I wanted him to know other people and not to isolate him self and introduced him to some nice female colleagues which they are nice and a way younger than me, he totally ignored them. When I travelled Europe for two weeks, he kept asking my female colleages about me. He didn't know that I'm out of the country.
I was little bit depressed before and after my trip, I used to mention the words of death and suicide a lot and he seemed to be very caring but without asking why I feel so.
Truth is I used to be a very religious and a VERY firm believer but a year ago I do have some different thoughts. But my appearance still gives the impression that I'm a religious person. These thoughts were the reasons behind my sad thoughts. And I rarely declare this.
In other phased I informed his about those thoughts. AND THIS WAS THE TOPIC WE WERE TALKING ABOUT WHEN I TOLD HIM TO STAND BY ME AND HE SAID I WILL PRAY FOR YOU NOT NEED ANYBODY.
At that early stage I looked at him as a kind colleage sent to me by God to give me some happiness in a hard time.
At the end of that stage he used to say some phrase that I didn't realize like( You are a very good person, you are so important to me, you are the most important person in my life, You remind me with someone who were the best person in the world, That person was graduated from the same college and has the same interests of you, I like the way you dress )!!
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When I gave him a book mark as a sovineur from my trip, I was surprised that he was over excited and happy and he kept looking to it during the lecture and kept looking to me and say: I have something from you now!
When I wrote to him some comments related to our studying in a paper with a pencil with an ugly quick hand writing, I was surprised that he kept it with him in the pocket of his trousers and kept moving it to the trousers he is planning to wear!!
(He kept doing this till he found it would be very shabby so he kept it at home and he has shown it to me recently just to show me that he still keeping it intact)
At that stage I knew nothing about him except that he is a small business man and that he is religious and shy.
When I gave him a book mark as a sovineur from my trip, I was surprised that he was over excited and happy and he kept looking to it during the lecture and kept looking to me and say: I have something from you now!
When I wrote to him some comments related to our studying in a paper with a pencil with an ugly quick hand writing, I was surprised that he kept it with him in the pocket of his trousers and kept moving it to the trousers he is planning to wear!!
(He kept doing this till he found it would be very shabby so he kept it at home and he has shown it to me recently just to show me that he still keeping it intact)
At that stage I knew nothing about him except that he is a small business man and that he is religious and shy.
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Phase 2( Dec. till Februrary)
I asked him to be friends and that I don't understand many phrases that he say. And that it is better to treate me as a trused friend and that's all.
He asked me that he wanted to narrate to me his story and why he felt that he get used to me unlike anyone else and who is that person who is referring to.
I felt curious to hear his story. He said the story with out details that he loved a girl and she was all his life and the same to her and before the marriage she diead. And that he is planning not to marry.
He said that I reminded him with her .
I felt so sad to him, and I decided that if he tries to care for me and make me smile, I will try to be the same to him.
We started to text soooo often and meet.
And he told me that he can't speak for long calls on the phone. Because it was only her he used to talk to her for long calls and he asked me to excuse him and I understoon and didn't like to push him. But gradually we started to talk longer and longer calls.
I realized what he meant by saying that she was all his life because in just 3 weeks I was so attached to him. He was treating me like a queen and gave me the impression that I'm the only human being in his life. Not co workers, friends, family member. Me and only me literally.
At that stage he doesn't seem Aquarian at all I suppose.
Phase 2( Dec. till Februrary)
I asked him to be friends and that I don't understand many phrases that he say. And that it is better to treate me as a trused friend and that's all.
He asked me that he wanted to narrate to me his story and why he felt that he get used to me unlike anyone else and who is that person who is referring to.
I felt curious to hear his story. He said the story with out details that he loved a girl and she was all his life and the same to her and before the marriage she diead. And that he is planning not to marry.
He said that I reminded him with her .
I felt so sad to him, and I decided that if he tries to care for me and make me smile, I will try to be the same to him.
We started to text soooo often and meet.
And he told me that he can't speak for long calls on the phone. Because it was only her he used to talk to her for long calls and he asked me to excuse him and I understoon and didn't like to push him. But gradually we started to talk longer and longer calls.
I realized what he meant by saying that she was all his life because in just 3 weeks I was so attached to him. He was treating me like a queen and gave me the impression that I'm the only human being in his life. Not co workers, friends, family member. Me and only me literally.
At that stage he doesn't seem Aquarian at all I suppose.
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For him I was an extra ordinary lady with different interests and very outgoing personality comparing to him. To him I was a person who has lots of male and female friends, go out so often and speak about different topics and coin new terms that usually normal people don't talk about it.
At that stage I knew that he descended from a very rich family comparing to mine. I wasn't happy for that.
I tried to make him try different things and places like trying to move in the city using transportation. I told him that you should feel the suffering of the normal citizens in our country and tha he shouldn't live as if he is a tourist in his own country. He resisted the idea at first but after a short while he was touched with what I said and started to repeat it. He used to use transportation every time we meet. To him, this was a dangerous and unpleasant experiance but he used to make it for my sake.
He gave me the feeling that I'm dominating his life and that I'm the person who educate him about new places and ideas.
I thought he forgot about his ex and I loved him very much and felt that I'm even responsible of him and his happiness in a very short time.
He used to say that he is a tough and aloof person but with me he was treating me so nicely not like an aqua guy.He seemed totally into me.
For him I was an extra ordinary lady with different interests and very outgoing personality comparing to him. To him I was a person who has lots of male and female friends, go out so often and speak about different topics and coin new terms that usually normal people don't talk about it.
At that stage I knew that he descended from a very rich family comparing to mine. I wasn't happy for that.
I tried to make him try different things and places like trying to move in the city using transportation. I told him that you should feel the suffering of the normal citizens in our country and tha he shouldn't live as if he is a tourist in his own country. He resisted the idea at first but after a short while he was touched with what I said and started to repeat it. He used to use transportation every time we meet. To him, this was a dangerous and unpleasant experiance but he used to make it for my sake.
He gave me the feeling that I'm dominating his life and that I'm the person who educate him about new places and ideas.
I thought he forgot about his ex and I loved him very much and felt that I'm even responsible of him and his happiness in a very short time.
He used to say that he is a tough and aloof person but with me he was treating me so nicely not like an aqua guy.He seemed totally into me.
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After few weeks, during a date, he GAVE ME SOME LOVE LOOKS, the day before he sent to me A LOVE SONG and during the date he brought me FLOWERS.
BUT during the same date HE MENTONED AGAIN THAT HE WOULD NEVER MARRY!
I was SO CONFUSED and told him that I have a feeling to him and I know that that he is the same and that he is the one who started. I asked him how can he love me and will not marry me. He said so sadly and emotionally that he gave his word to his ex just before her death as he totally taking care of her in every aspect during awhole week before she passed away in a hospital. He made her an oath that he will never marry someone else.
later on he said he was planning not to treate anyyy girl nicly but I attracted him when he first saw me talking to the professor during the lectore but he would never start talking to me. He said he loved me out of his hands.when i asked him why is it different love or marring someone, he said i can't control love but i can control being married.
-During the first few weeks he kept saying that he sometimes imagine me someone else. And after that he said he was cured and that he become seeing me like WHO I AM. And then he even said: I realized that when I was saying that you remind me with her, I was just giving myself an excuse but you are totally different. And it is the first time for me that someone changes my personality to the better and I love the new person! You changed me and I like the new person! You thought me to care more for people.
- During that phase I knew that we are in the same age.
- I told him about my different ideas regarding religion
After few weeks, during a date, he GAVE ME SOME LOVE LOOKS, the day before he sent to me A LOVE SONG and during the date he brought me FLOWERS.
BUT during the same date HE MENTONED AGAIN THAT HE WOULD NEVER MARRY!
I was SO CONFUSED and told him that I have a feeling to him and I know that that he is the same and that he is the one who started. I asked him how can he love me and will not marry me. He said so sadly and emotionally that he gave his word to his ex just before her death as he totally taking care of her in every aspect during awhole week before she passed away in a hospital. He made her an oath that he will never marry someone else.
later on he said he was planning not to treate anyyy girl nicly but I attracted him when he first saw me talking to the professor during the lectore but he would never start talking to me. He said he loved me out of his hands.when i asked him why is it different love or marring someone, he said i can't control love but i can control being married.
-During the first few weeks he kept saying that he sometimes imagine me someone else. And after that he said he was cured and that he become seeing me like WHO I AM. And then he even said: I realized that when I was saying that you remind me with her, I was just giving myself an excuse but you are totally different. And it is the first time for me that someone changes my personality to the better and I love the new person! You changed me and I like the new person! You thought me to care more for people.
- During that phase I knew that we are in the same age.
- I told him about my different ideas regarding religion
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- Because I'm not used to that kind of relationships and was frightened that I would love him more with out hope, I left him 4 times so that he can make a discion for us.
Every time he seemed so depressed and sometimes it affected his health and he started to sleep a lot and lost concentration. But he never tried to stop me. I even once told him that I have a marriage proposal. He kept silent and didn't comment.
Every time I go back to him after very few days.
At that stage he was not acting like an aqua, we were together all day on whats app.He used to tell me several times that he doesn't have friends. He used to express his feelings so nicely but this was making me feel so confused, so he tried to reduce expressing feelings. I discovered that he wrote poets about me and draw some drawings related to our relationship. At that stage he used to answer my text at the same second I send and never disappeared. He was even annoyed at the beginning that I don't act the same. I was always telling him, that usually people has other things to do and I wouldn't be angry if you didn't answer right away and he was replying that I'm his first and second priorities in life and that I'm dominating 90% of his thinking!
Every time I go back, I was realizing the risk I'm doing to me self. But for me it was all done. I love him and it worth it, and besides at that stage I felt responsible of him and that I wouldn't leave him leave alone. I felt that he needs me.
- Because I'm not used to that kind of relationships and was frightened that I would love him more with out hope, I left him 4 times so that he can make a discion for us.
Every time he seemed so depressed and sometimes it affected his health and he started to sleep a lot and lost concentration. But he never tried to stop me. I even once told him that I have a marriage proposal. He kept silent and didn't comment.
Every time I go back to him after very few days.
At that stage he was not acting like an aqua, we were together all day on whats app.He used to tell me several times that he doesn't have friends. He used to express his feelings so nicely but this was making me feel so confused, so he tried to reduce expressing feelings. I discovered that he wrote poets about me and draw some drawings related to our relationship. At that stage he used to answer my text at the same second I send and never disappeared. He was even annoyed at the beginning that I don't act the same. I was always telling him, that usually people has other things to do and I wouldn't be angry if you didn't answer right away and he was replying that I'm his first and second priorities in life and that I'm dominating 90% of his thinking!
Every time I go back, I was realizing the risk I'm doing to me self. But for me it was all done. I love him and it worth it, and besides at that stage I felt responsible of him and that I wouldn't leave him leave alone. I felt that he needs me.
Sorry for that details🙂 It is my attitude that I couldn't resist🙂
To be continued tomorrow. I have an exam tomorrow.
To be continued tomorrow. I have an exam tomorrow.
Posted by Ladycrab
Sorry for that details🙂 It is my attitude that I couldn't resist🙂
To be continued tomorrow. I have an exam tomorrow.
Good Luck on your exams.
Posted by Ladycrab
Sorry for that details🙂 It is my attitude that I couldn't resist🙂
To be continued tomorrow. I have an exam tomorrow.
hope your exams went well. i, too had an exam this morning! i'm taking an online course, so let's cross both our fingers!
since saturn in Sagittarius (i guess this is the time to educate yourself more) education, for better skills, language, improvement, anything related to the Jupiter and higher learning.
i read your posts btw.
well, he is still into that last girl, though. It seems like it. He wants to move on, but it doesn't sound like it.
he's got alot of FEAR in him.
what's his chart look like?
so much fear. Sounds like he's got strong saturnic energy.
and what's yours look like?
well, he is still into that last girl, though. It seems like it. He wants to move on, but it doesn't sound like it.
he's got alot of FEAR in him.
what's his chart look like?
so much fear. Sounds like he's got strong saturnic energy.
and what's yours look like?
to be honest, i dont know those types of men.
i can offer advice but it will be for naught.
the men i usually know (ie, my ex's) and my husband are/is very very straightforward and have no fear. they jsut went for it. dove right in, even if they thought they're gonna get shot down.
so honestly, i don't know these types of men alot of you ladies post.
all i can say, is, they sound like they're not ready. And there's honestly nothing you can do. 😢
i can offer advice but it will be for naught.
the men i usually know (ie, my ex's) and my husband are/is very very straightforward and have no fear. they jsut went for it. dove right in, even if they thought they're gonna get shot down.
so honestly, i don't know these types of men alot of you ladies post.
all i can say, is, they sound like they're not ready. And there's honestly nothing you can do. 😢
unless there are women around here that can offer help and understand these "TYPES".
Posted by lisabethur8
i read your posts btw.
well, he is still into that last girl, though. It seems like it. He wants to move on, but it doesn't sound like it.
he's got alot of FEAR in him.
what's his chart look like?
so much fear. Sounds like he's got strong saturnic energy.
and what's yours look like?
Excuse me,I didn't get what do you exactly mean by "chart". Also what do you mean by "saturnic energy"?
Thank you for your time🙂
Posted by flowingwater
I was having a hard time just reading the post...
😐
Sorry, but why did you feel that way?
just go to cafeastrology.com, or astro.com, or astrodienst? astrotheme.com, or just google astrology charts. and put his and your bday in.
Posted by geminidudePosted by Ladycrab
Sorry for that details🙂 It is my attitude that I couldn't resist🙂
To be continued tomorrow. I have an exam tomorrow.
Good Luck on your exams.click to expand
Thank you for your kind wishes🙂
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Ladycrab
Sorry for that details🙂 It is my attitude that I couldn't resist🙂
To be continued tomorrow. I have an exam tomorrow.
hope your exams went well. i, too had an exam this morning! i'm taking an online course, so let's cross both our fingers!
since saturn in Sagittarius (i guess this is the time to educate yourself more) education, for better skills, language, improvement, anything related to the Jupiter and higher learning.click to expand
Thank you. Not so bad🙂
I hope you did well.
So sorry, I was willing to continue writing now but I find my self so exhausted after long round of exams. Today was the last. I'll sleep and tomorrow is a new day.
I really can't thank all of you enough🙂
I really can't thank all of you enough🙂
Posted by Ladycrab
So sorry, I was willing to continue writing now but I find my self so exhausted after long round of exams. Today was the last. I'll sleep and tomorrow is a new day.
I really can't thank all of you enough🙂
'
it is exhausting isn't it?
sounds like you did well. hopefully you can congratulate yourself later on. 🙂
Hello..
Sorry for being so late. I faced a problem to log in the forum during the last 2 days. And before this I was so depressed especially after I tried to call him and he didn't answer.
Now I would like to update you with my current situation.
Actually, his disappearance had nothing to do with being an Aqua!🙂 It had to do with politics and corruption in my country. I can't say many details but he was suspended by the police in the airport and was put under custody for a week and his cell phone was taken.
He wrote to me right after they gave it to him.And told me the story which I fully believed and his new plane was after an hour. He suspended his work in his company for the time being. And he will travel to an European country that he his family has a residence permit in it. He only has his younger brother with him and then all his family will go also and will stay there for few months . I didn't what he is thinking about.it like he is thinking of staying for sometime out of the country may be they will forget about him for awhile and return back. If I were him, I wouldn't have returned soon at all.
I will continue the whole story and would like to hear your advices and opinions.
Sorry for being so late. I faced a problem to log in the forum during the last 2 days. And before this I was so depressed especially after I tried to call him and he didn't answer.
Now I would like to update you with my current situation.
Actually, his disappearance had nothing to do with being an Aqua!🙂 It had to do with politics and corruption in my country. I can't say many details but he was suspended by the police in the airport and was put under custody for a week and his cell phone was taken.
He wrote to me right after they gave it to him.And told me the story which I fully believed and his new plane was after an hour. He suspended his work in his company for the time being. And he will travel to an European country that he his family has a residence permit in it. He only has his younger brother with him and then all his family will go also and will stay there for few months . I didn't what he is thinking about.it like he is thinking of staying for sometime out of the country may be they will forget about him for awhile and return back. If I were him, I wouldn't have returned soon at all.
I will continue the whole story and would like to hear your advices and opinions.
Posted by Ladycrabso what is your question? He's out of the country now though so are you gonna wait for him to return to you?
Hello..
Sorry for being so late. I faced a problem to log in the forum during the last 2 days. And before this I was so depressed especially after I tried to call him and he didn't answer.
Now I would like to update you with my current situation.
Actually, his disappearance had nothing to do with being an Aqua!🙂 It had to do with politics and corruption in my country. I can't say many details but he was suspended by the police in the airport and was put under custody for a week and his cell phone was taken.
He wrote to me right after they gave it to him.And told me the story which I fully believed and his new plane was after an hour. He suspended his work in his company for the time being. And he will travel to an European country that he his family has a residence permit in it. He only has his younger brother with him and then all his family will go also and will stay there for few months . I didn't what he is thinking about.it like he is thinking of staying for sometime out of the country may be they will forget about him for awhile and return back. If I were him, I wouldn't have returned soon at all.
I will continue the whole story and would like to hear your advices and opinions.
and if he is in trouble with the law in your country, that sounds kind of scary. is he a criminal on the run?
hm corruption and politics.
that Always sucks.
that Always sucks.
Posted by lisabethur8No he didn't do anything breaking the law at all. No case. And he vcan return home.But it is better to stay abroad. He already told me in our last date that he thought of imigration after her death. He did't want to stay in the country and wanted to sell his company but one of his friends persudaded him to stay.and then he said that he thought about leaving the country many times and he has many options. He said that you are one who make be patient to stay.Posted by Ladycrabso what is your question? He's out of the country now though so are you gonna wait for him to return to you?
Hello..
Sorry for being so late. I faced a problem to log in the forum during the last 2 days. And before this I was so depressed especially after I tried to call him and he didn't answer.
Now I would like to update you with my current situation.
Actually, his disappearance had nothing to do with being an Aqua!🙂 It had to do with politics and corruption in my country. I can't say many details but he was suspended by the police in the airport and was put under custody for a week and his cell phone was taken.
He wrote to me right after they gave it to him.And told me the story which I fully believed and his new plane was after an hour. He suspended his work in his company for the time being. And he will travel to an European country that he his family has a residence permit in it. He only has his younger brother with him and then all his family will go also and will stay there for few months . I didn't what he is thinking about.it like he is thinking of staying for sometime out of the country may be they will forget about him for awhile and return back. If I were him, I wouldn't have returned soon at all.
I will continue the whole story and would like to hear your advices and opinions.
and if he is in trouble with the law in your country, that sounds kind of scary. is he a criminal on the run?click to expand
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