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Advice for Aquarius girlfriend problems..
IDK, there seems to be a bit more to this then what is being said here. Maybe she is using this as an excuse for some kind of space.
Did she tell you exactly how you acted and exactly what you did that ticked her off? You said you don't remember much...
she is not sharing personal information with you because she does not want whatever you guys have to go to that level. sounds like she really likes you by showing you attention and the gifts. you are a special someone. the does not mean she is in love with you. however, she may be holding back because she is unsure of where you are in all this. you say you love her but have not told her. why not? if you love someone, tell them! (sorry, but that is a personal pet peeve of mine. we are quick to curse at or flip off some stranger that is not driving like we want them to, but we have such a difficult time saying 'i love you' to each other)on the other hand, she may be holding back because that is the relationship she wants with you. communicate with your aqua. she is not a mindreader
man, as aqua. i can't even explain that lol. Honestly, this is one of many examples aquas will forever be the most unpredictable ...its just hard to say. I think there is more you done that your not saying 🙂 I think she's just sick of it. and its not just that one day is it? vices*
If I were you, I'd just send one text telling her that you really care about her and you'd never intentionally do anything to make her uncomfortable. Also, say you'd really to talk about what happened and you're ready to do that whenever she feels ready too.
Then leave her alone completely.
Then leave her alone completely.
if you love her, then accept that she doesn't want to get mushy and introduce u to her family. im that way too & just like to keep my love life separate. it's the norm for people to introduce their partners to their family n blahblahblah, but we're untraditional. if things r good, keep it that way and don't overspeculate. live in the moment. if she has a dark past or secrets, she would've shared it w/ u by now.
as for the pda thing, all u can do is apologize & explain y u couldn't control urself n see if she comes around. im cool w/ a hug & kiss here n there, but not to the point where i feel like a piece of meat. i hate it regardless if its in front of strangers or people we know. ass-grabbing etc, its fine for when we're alone. but that kind of pda pisses me off too. it makes me feel like a "thing" that can just be tossed around. maybe that's what she felt.
as for the pda thing, all u can do is apologize & explain y u couldn't control urself n see if she comes around. im cool w/ a hug & kiss here n there, but not to the point where i feel like a piece of meat. i hate it regardless if its in front of strangers or people we know. ass-grabbing etc, its fine for when we're alone. but that kind of pda pisses me off too. it makes me feel like a "thing" that can just be tossed around. maybe that's what she felt.
Its possible she wanted you to pay attention to her not her body. Even if you have a great physical relationship, I know when I want the "me" inside paid attention to, and someone is only grabbing me I take it as they dont care about me just gratification. Its very Aqua to think whatever you are saying is important and its also possible she was looking for emotional display that night maybe she was feeling really connected and your physical display confused her and now shes not sure if you feel for her what she thought. However, she should have come around. But everyone is different. Are you ecrtain that there is no one else? did you possibly say another girls name? could someone at the party have told her somethng about you? did you pay attention to another girl?
The best would be to leave at least a few days of space.. a lot of issues seem less "big" over time. Then ask her to meet and tell her how you feel. Take the chance because hiding from the truth wont change it. Its possible shes just confused especially if the behaviour was a departure for either one or both of you from the norm. Sometimes we overthink sometimes there are outside issues sometimes we are just confused. Good luck.
The best would be to leave at least a few days of space.. a lot of issues seem less "big" over time. Then ask her to meet and tell her how you feel. Take the chance because hiding from the truth wont change it. Its possible shes just confused especially if the behaviour was a departure for either one or both of you from the norm. Sometimes we overthink sometimes there are outside issues sometimes we are just confused. Good luck.
I texted her saying I was sorry for everything and all that and haven't heard back :/.
Shes lettinng it sink in, Ive done that to silently show "I menat it - dont do it again"
Also if it cheers you up, if someone doesnt care about you, their reaction would be mild because it wouldnt matter. I think se just felt you were showing your friends shes hot but an Aqua wants ppl to see shes Aquarious in all her fascinating sparkly mysterious ways. Tell her how you see her aside from physically and I bet shell respond.
Shes lettinng it sink in, Ive done that to silently show "I menat it - dont do it again"
Also if it cheers you up, if someone doesnt care about you, their reaction would be mild because it wouldnt matter. I think se just felt you were showing your friends shes hot but an Aqua wants ppl to see shes Aquarious in all her fascinating sparkly mysterious ways. Tell her how you see her aside from physically and I bet shell respond.
hi just gonna through my two cents in. I'm an aqua, engaged to a libra. 🙂 well she may not be sharing because she is not ready too yet. i didnt share a lot of things with my libra when we first met. he still doesnt know that i have a potty mouth and we have been together for 3 yrs. 🙂
and like aquarius21 said i like to keep my love life separate from my family life. not to say you will never meet them, but dont base if she is serious with you on meeting her parents. thats not the case with us.
*now something that confused me was that you said you were her first but then you said she has only had flings? i'm thinking that means something else.*
now when my fiance gets drunk he gets all touchy feely too. he lets the world know, "hey dude, this my girlfriend" then he lets me know, "hey, your my girlfriend" then he gets in my face and "yeah your my girlfriend, lets go make out, i like making out with you". then we are making out in front of people, but he thinks we are in the corner where no one can see us. LOL
since you are more *clears throat* affectionate when your blasted she may not know how to handle that. since we are the type that dont like a lot of pda usually. after some time she will probably be all over you. anyway, she may have been embarrassed at the extra pda and since you dont remember what happened. it must have been bad, because she is pissed.
also i would follow what the other aquas said here.
just communicate with her. she will come around. 🙂
and like aquarius21 said i like to keep my love life separate from my family life. not to say you will never meet them, but dont base if she is serious with you on meeting her parents. thats not the case with us.
*now something that confused me was that you said you were her first but then you said she has only had flings? i'm thinking that means something else.*
now when my fiance gets drunk he gets all touchy feely too. he lets the world know, "hey dude, this my girlfriend" then he lets me know, "hey, your my girlfriend" then he gets in my face and "yeah your my girlfriend, lets go make out, i like making out with you". then we are making out in front of people, but he thinks we are in the corner where no one can see us. LOL
since you are more *clears throat* affectionate when your blasted she may not know how to handle that. since we are the type that dont like a lot of pda usually. after some time she will probably be all over you. anyway, she may have been embarrassed at the extra pda and since you dont remember what happened. it must have been bad, because she is pissed.
also i would follow what the other aquas said here.
just communicate with her. she will come around. 🙂
Posted by luvnacap
I texted her saying I was sorry for everything and all that and haven't heard back :/.
Shes lettinng it sink in, Ive done that to silently show "I menat it - dont do it again"
Also if it cheers you up, if someone doesnt care about you, their reaction would be mild because it wouldnt matter. I think se just felt you were showing your friends shes hot but an Aqua wants ppl to see shes Aquarious in all her fascinating sparkly mysterious ways. Tell her how you see her aside from physically and I bet shell respond.
+1 exactly
She's now ignoring you and making you suffer because she's enjoying it. Yep,you read that right. It's called validation )"I'll make you chase me so I feel validated")> Stop apologising now, you've done it. Let her come to you. I'm picking if you didn't contact her for a few days she'd send you a message asking to hang out like nothing had ever happened.
Oh, and if she doesn't want to share, to "let you in" it's because she isn't ready or simply doesn't have the trust in you yet. Don't force it, it's not personal against you, it's just the way she is.
You'll hear from her, she won't stand being ignored.
Oh, and if she doesn't want to share, to "let you in" it's because she isn't ready or simply doesn't have the trust in you yet. Don't force it, it's not personal against you, it's just the way she is.
You'll hear from her, she won't stand being ignored.
Posted by NZAqua
She's now ignoring you and making you suffer because she's enjoying it. Yep,you read that right. It's called validation )"I'll make you chase me so I feel validated")> Stop apologising now, you've done it. Let her come to you. I'm picking if you didn't contact her for a few days she'd send you a message asking to hang out like nothing had ever happened.
Oh, and if she doesn't want to share, to "let you in" it's because she isn't ready or simply doesn't have the trust in you yet. Don't force it, it's not personal against you, it's just the way she is.
You'll hear from her, she won't stand being ignored.
Yup.
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