My mother: I have three boyfriends

My mother makes it look so easy. She's the type of aquarius women who won't settle until she's hit with that special someone. Honestly, I'm not sure she's even had that yet.

My mother has been dating someone (a scorpio) longterm for the past year or so. However, she doesn't feel fulfilled by this guy; at least, I think she is realizing this now. She doesn't find him romantic enough, and she doesn't think he is ready to commit yet (although, I don't think she was either). So in the process of dating him, she has been wooed by another guy (I don't know his sign yet). She likes him more. I asked my mother if she would continue to date the scorpio of she started to date the new guy (she is already kind of dating him). She was hesitant, but said yes, but more so to keep him around as a friend. The new guy seems to be her main goal now. The third "boyfriend" isn't really a boyfriend at all. In fact, it's her ex (A virgo) from her previous longterm relationship that she is still friends with. They still go out and do things together, but I don't think my mother feels anything for him at this point. I believe my mother plans on keep them all around, whether she is dating them or just treating them as friends.

I know it can take an aqua woman a long time to settle. Is it also a trait for aqua women to engage in multiple dating? Her chart could have something to do with her relationships.

Sun Aquarius 19.33
Moon Scorpio 17.31
Mercury Pisces 7.30
Venus Aries 6.05
Mars Cancer 0.01
Jupiter Capricorn 22.57
Saturn Capricorn 24.05
Uranus Leo 23.56 R
Neptune Scorpio 11.19
Pluto Virgo 7.16 R
Lilith Leo 0.46
Asc node Virgo 6.22

Well, Aquas are usually "players" persay BUT it is very hard for them to find that 1 special person that can tie them down & offer the most amazing connection.

So technically, it's not uncommon to see an Aqua dating multiple people.

But it's not b/c they're trying to be players, play mind games or b/c they are too selfish to settle down. No, it's moreso that 1. We figure that we're not wrong for dating multiple people unless/until we actually agree to be exclusive with only 1 person & 2. We figure that we're entitled to keep "shopping" until we've finally found that special one

Some may disagree with that strategy b/c of course it's alot harder to focus on 1 guy long enough (to know if he's good enough) if your attention is divided by 2+ other men. Plus, Aquas need to remember that all good connections may not be felt/come right away. Sometimes it takes a while & the more people you're dividing your attention with, the harder it'll be for you to recognize a good connection with just 1 person

Maybe your mom knows this. Maybe she's not really ready to settle down like she thinks. Maybe she's purposely spreading herself out b/w 3 men b/c it's her way of preventing herself from falling for just 1 guy, thus no choice but to be vulnerable & open up completely

basically, most aqua females are slores and i stay away from unless i want to stimulate my brain or stimulate my meat.

Ayb, you hate most females lol.

Posted by krysrenee7

But it's not b/c they're trying to be players, play mind games or b/c they are too selfish to settle down. No, it's moreso that 1. We figure that we're not wrong for dating multiple people unless/until we actually agree to be exclusive with only 1 person & 2. We figure that we're entitled to keep "shopping" until we've finally found that special one

That's basically what my mother was telling me without going into all the gory details. Although, while it may sound bad to some, I support her regardless. I mean, she's 50. She can do whatever she wants at this point lol.

Lol I do that too

Posted by Candeh15
My mother has been dating someone (a scorpio) longterm for the past year or so. However, she doesn't feel fulfilled by this guy; at least, I think she is realizing this now. She doesn't find him romantic enough, and she doesn't think he is ready to commit yet (although, I don't think she was either).

Maybe she doesen't inspire romantic feelings in him? I find that many Aqua chicks are way too cold with their feelings yet they expect to be treated like queens. Aqua and romance sounds kind of funny when you put it in the same sentance. They are more practical, prissy and frigid than romantic.

Im Dating a Aqua girl and She doesn't have a romantic bone in her body....But I wouldnt tell her that because she would swear im wrong......I agree that Aqua women (or at least the one im dating) want the red carpet treatment sometimes but its tough for them to give it back.

My Aqua relationship is: TO BE CONTINUED