Another Leo/Aquarius rant and a question

What is it out opposite sun signs. I swear this magnetic pull is insane. I see myself stumbling and get lost in thought. It sucks cause if things were a little different it'd be great. We both got out of some bad relationship. I have a fear of being used. She has trust issues. She told me she just wants to be single.

A bit about how she acts.
We text everyday with her usually initiating every other day.

Almost every time we hang out she's always asking about the next plans. Like this sat we were out and about and she said "so when are we gonna go running tomorrow?".

The typical aquarius hot/cold behavior.

She's involving me in a lot of future plans.

So a mutual friend was being led on by someone he knows. My buddy called and confronted her and asked her if she was leading me on like he was. She paused a bit and said she wasn't ready to date but she saw herself settling down with me and even talked about a future involving marriage.

I freaked out a bit but this got me thinking. I decided to just wait on her. I'm not dating or talking to anyone else. There was cap lady that we were seeing each other but I just told her I'd rather just be friends. I suck at gambling yet I always win when I bet on her for some reason.

Does anybody else think I'm being a total idiot? I'm usually so impatient and never stress ovee things like this so it's all new to me.

Sun: Leo
Moon: Capricorn
Mars: Libra
Venus: Cancer

Sun: Aquarius
Moon: Taurus
Mars: Scorpio
Venus: Capricorn

Dude, don't know what to tell ya. Your guys' sun/moon combos are the same as me and my SO's. Except I'm the Leo/Cap (female) and he's the Aqua/Taurus (male).

I have no idea how the gender switch would affect the end result.

If it's the same kind of dynamic, you will both need to be really mature to avoid the pitfalls we experienced.

My only advice would be to go with the flow (like you're doing) and don't count any chickens before they're hatched. Don't wait around forever if it looks like she's not going to take a.step forward, but don't rule her out. If you can date more than one person at a time without getting too involved, then do.

Posted by AquaMermaid
Isn't it weird that so many Cap Mooners are involved with Aquarians? Anyways, OP I've had a brief encounter with a Leo male and it was really disastrous. He was too impatient and would expect me to call or text him constantly. He would get upset and bombard my cellphone with texts accusing me of ignoring him. As an Aquarius we really need space to recharge and Leo guys need a LOT of attention and pampering. It's one reason I decided never to date a Leo Male. My father,bestie and father-in-law are all Leos but that's a total different dynamic.

I don't consider myself one of those leos that need a lot of attention.... Just some. The dynamic we have now is more than enough. At this point she's reaching out to me and I'm happy with a 50/50.

Posted by AquaMermaid
It seems like she's still testing you to know if you two are romantically compatible. Her Venus in Capricorn is going to be little slow and reserved while your Cancer Venus is all emotions. You might find her a bit closed off and that might make you more restless. I think you both need to take it slow. You both need to heal from past relationship. A rebound relationship is never a good idea because then you're only using the other person as a crutch for support. Most Leo guys get impatient and don't wait for too long. I hope that steady Cap moon helps you.

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I hope so too. This pseudo stage is a but annoying but I can deal with it for a bit longer. I agree we're both a bit broken but it's not so bad that we would have the past interfere. It has been a year for us both and we both came from an 8 year relationship.

As her testing me still, I find it hard to accept cause we have really learned a lot about each other. We do have a lot to learn from each other. I guess it's the leo impulsive nature.

Sup Gandolf!!! Long time! Welcome back!


Sorry I have no helpful words, only been involved once with a Leo and that was many moons ago. Not much to tell great as friends, sex was meh.

I've never felt any type of intimate attachment or pull to any of the aqua that i've met, regardless of gender.

I was able to maintain a friendship with one for about a year or so until she began cheating on her husband-who at the time was stationed overseas.

It wasn't the cheating that bugged me however- It was the lack of remorse, or guilt or- awareness about the situation that bothered me the most.

I ended up just dipping out. Anyone incapable of feeling- guilt, or empathy- or anything for that matter with the exception of anger. Just scares the crap out of me.

Not to imply that all aquas are like this- In there defense i really haven't given them any type of opportunity otherwise.

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Posted by justagirl
Sup Gandolf!!! Long time! Welcome back!


Sorry I have no helpful words, only been involved once with a Leo and that was many moons ago. Not much to tell great as friends, sex was meh.

Hey! You are that hippy chick 😛

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Maybbbeeeee

Posted by GreyWiz

Posted by Skitty
I've never felt any type of intimate attachment or pull to any of the aqua that i've met, regardless of gender.

I was able to maintain a friendship with one for about a year or so until she began cheating on her husband-who at the time was stationed overseas.

It wasn't the cheating that bugged me however- It was the lack of remorse, or guilt or- awareness about the situation that bothered me the most.

I ended up just dipping out. Anyone incapable of feeling- guilt, or empathy- or anything for that matter with the exception of anger. Just scares the crap out of me.

Not to imply that all aquas are like this- In there defense i really haven't given them any type of opportunity otherwise.

Aquas are "do what thou wilt" types. They pretty much do what they want and don't apologize for anything. It is how they roll.

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Yep.

I've always been attracted to Aquas, and had relationships with 2. But I do think male and female Aquas are different enough that maybe that's why you don't feel quite the intense "pull". All I can say is that the two relationships I had with Aqua males have been the most significant ones in my life.

I'm an Aqua Sun Cap Venus too. I automatically click with Leos and have tons of Leo friends of both genders. I also get along great with people who have many Leo placements and in fact my best friend is a Leo rising to top it off. I have a Leo moon so maybe that helps.

I think this combo (like any really) is hit or miss for both signs romantically. I personally know some Leo/Aqua couples and 2 are very happy and one is pretend happy and that one is just ugh. The Leo guys I dated didn't work out mostly because at the time I wasn't where they were in life (was young and establishing my career etc.) and I wasn't ready to settle down.

As someone with that Sun Venus combo I tend to take things slow. I want loyalty and faithfulness as well as stability in my partner but I know that needs a solid foundation so I'd probably continue to develop a friendship and let it progress from there.

Based on what you said she seems she might be unsure of herself a bit and is still feeling you out. If you feel it's worth go for it.