Aqua and scorp way too intense!

My Scorpio man had a rep before me as a slut basically. It's almost a year later since we started messing around and he is obsessed with me. I'm an Aquarius so I like my space but he always touches me, alwayssssss on me it's so annoying. I been over him because he slipped up a couple times anyway, but I'm here because he's my first and the sex is good. I can see us being together in the future but I'm 20 right now and I have a life to live. He's 24 and he already got accustomed to his life style of weed and working and I feel like I'm turning into a mini him. I think we got very comfortable with sleeping in and ordering food. It's sad because he's such a great person all around and I know he changed for me but I don't even want to be in this deep. lol I feel stuck, trapped, helpless. When we break up (mainly me and my thoughts but sometimes him) we bounce back in a 24 hour time period. We are always together literally everyday for the past several months and recently I feel like he's moved me into his place. It's all so weird and I just want to be free. Any advice?

*** I told him we should just be f buddies but he is so sure we have a future together. I'm too nonchalant to be with someone like him. It drives me crazy but I'm comfortable. I had a Gemini ex and we were great. So spaced out and good together

Posted by 2Moon
Lmao, aqua can't handle the intimacy and depth of Scorpio..

What's new...

this is my first relationship. For a first, this is more than I Can handle

Posted by Thataquagirl15
My Scorpio man had a rep before me as a slut basically. It's almost a year later since we started messing around and he is obsessed with me. I'm an Aquarius so I like my space but he always touches me, alwayssssss on me it's so annoying. I been over him because he slipped up a couple times anyway, but I'm here because he's my first and the sex is good. I can see us being together in the future but I'm 20 right now and I have a life to live. He's 24 and he already got accustomed to his life style of weed and working and I feel like I'm turning into a mini him. I think we got very comfortable with sleeping in and ordering food. It's sad because he's such a great person all around and I know he changed for me but I don't even want to be in this deep. lol I feel stuck, trapped, helpless. When we break up (mainly me and my thoughts but sometimes him) we bounce back in a 24 hour time period. We are always together literally everyday for the past several months and recently I feel like he's moved me into his place. It's all so weird and I just want to be free. Any advice?

he smokes weed.

i don't like men who have addictions that are bad.



I've learned my lesson with my first husband.



but this is your first relationship,

so you will see.... you will see what it is like to be with someone who has an addiction that is detrimental to his health and well being and it will effect the relationship.

my husband would quit anything cold turkey because he loves me.

only a man deep in love would do that, and ONLY because he WANTS to, not because you tell him.

anyway, out of all the signs scorpio man can QUIT anything cause he has the STRONGEST WILL POWER. he can QUIT...but only if he wants to....

but if he don't want to.



you're shit out of luck.

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and i know what being unlucky is like in my past.



but you cant make a man do anything he don't want to....

NOTHING...not even your good looks and your charm.



so enjoy your time, and his weed smoking.

Posted by lisabethur8
anyway, out of all the signs scorpio man can QUIT anything cause he has the STRONGEST WILL POWER. he can QUIT...but only if he wants to....

but if he don't want to.



you're shit out of luck.

edit

and i know what being unlucky is like in my past.



but you cant make a man do anything he don't want to....

NOTHING...not even your good looks and your charm.



so enjoy your time, and his weed smoking.

He said he'd quit 4/20

We are full on

Aquas need their space

So.....

Water and air have weird dynamics. Even though I have a lot of water in my chart, I can hardly cope with the intensity of water dominant people at times. My Aqua placements make me run away regularly respectively avoid in-depth situations because I know once I'm hooked.. damn!

Just get out of that bed, girl! 😉

Posted by Thataquagirl15

Posted by lisabethur8
anyway, out of all the signs scorpio man can QUIT anything cause he has the STRONGEST WILL POWER. he can QUIT...but only if he wants to....

but if he don't want to.



you're shit out of luck.

edit

and i know what being unlucky is like in my past.



but you cant make a man do anything he don't want to....

NOTHING...not even your good looks and your charm.



so enjoy your time, and his weed smoking.

He said he'd quit 4/20

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ridiculous.



there's no time limit.



if he can't do it today, ....



cold turkey.



but like I said, you go ahead....stay with him.

you cant make him do anything.

I know a lot of you women WISH to get a good man, who would do anything for you..

I know it.....cause I want that too!!!

it's a DEEP DEEP DESIRE...

sigh....

Posted by lisabethur8
I know a lot of you women WISH to get a good man, who would do anything for you..

I know it.....cause I want that too!!!

it's a DEEP DEEP DESIRE...

sigh....

He'll do anything for me. It's absolutely annoying. We are both attractive and wanted so I kinda wish he would get the memo. But he's so certain im for him. And I feel like I can be just not right now but if I leave now we may never get together again. And I doubt I'll find anyone like him

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Thataquagirl15

Posted by lisabethur8
anyway, out of all the signs scorpio man can QUIT anything cause he has the STRONGEST WILL POWER. he can QUIT...but only if he wants to....

but if he don't want to.



you're shit out of luck.

edit

and i know what being unlucky is like in my past.



but you cant make a man do anything he don't want to....

NOTHING...not even your good looks and your charm.



so enjoy your time, and his weed smoking.

He said he'd quit 4/20

ridiculous.



there's no time limit.



if he can't do it today, ....



cold turkey.



but like I said, you go ahead....stay with him.

you cant make him do anything.

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He's 24 he's been smoking since 14.... that's not the biggest problem although I smoke bc it's available and become lazy. Don't go to class etc it's just bad I feel trapped at 20 lol.

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Posted by Thataquagirl15
*** I told him we should just be f buddies but he is so sure we have a future together.

For someone who used to be a slut, he's talking shite. He's hoping you'll fall for his sweet talk. He just wants to control you, which is the last thing you need.

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If that were the case

We would've ended because he wouldn't care. He introduced me to his family, we're fond of each other and they like me because of the kind of girl I am and I know that's why he's in love with me. He cannot control me at all, and he knows that. And he doesn't try to. He just hopes I'll stick around...

Posted by imbatgirl14
Basically you are being selfish. You want him but at the same time you want to go around and 'explore'. If that's the case then dump him and tell him you wish to screw other guys. He doesn't need someone who's going to lead him on.

I don't want to explore anything. I literally just wanna be by myself. But from reading these comments I've realized I don't show love. I'm really tough on the exterior but every time I show him the slightest love he gets happy in his eyes. I think I'm going to try my hardest to stop being stubborn bc that's one thing I learned about myself in this relation

Posted by MyStarsShine
We are full on

Aquas need their space

So.....

Exactly he hugs me too much and stuff like one hug is enough for twenty minutes lmao

Yep this is going to be really interesting to see how this pans out because we have a defence mechanism whenever we are being suffocated by watersigns who try to drown us out, we know how to infuriate all the water signs by instinct. We can be sitting on the bottom of the ocean but we will still have our heads in Valhalla.

They may have our hearts but they will never have our minds.

So far I've had cancer and Pisces and it's really interesting the drowning sensation I get from them, at their best they are just wet blankets. My Pisces ex was a hard pot smoker and I ended up going hard with him getting mac Donald's at night and wasting away my figure and it became this enabling game that neither of us could control in the end...

Don't ever let anyone convince you at 20 that "it's meant to be"

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Yep this is going to be really interesting to see how this pans out because we have a defence mechanism whenever we are being suffocated by watersigns who try to drown us out, we know how to infuriate all the water signs by instinct. We can be sitting on the bottom of the ocean but we will still have our heads in Valhalla.

They may have our hearts but they will never have our minds.

So far I've had cancer and Pisces and it's really interesting the drowning sensation I get from them, at their best they are just wet blankets. My Pisces ex was a hard pot smoker and I ended up going hard with him getting mac Donald's at night and wasting away my figure and it became this enabling game that neither of us could control in the end...

Don't ever let anyone convince you at 20 that "it's meant to be"

Yes u are spot on! I used to work out madly and was better overall with my heath 110% since him, I've been eating Chinese and sleeping and smoking and it's unlike me. This relationship even hindered my relation with my parents! I just can't seem to get away partly because he lives up the block... I want to so desperately I know I have so much potential

Posted by -Flo-
My Scorpio ex said I was clingy and jealous,

its not a good look on an Aquarius woman.

with your Gemini mars, Gemini rising and aries moon, and his libra moon, it probably wasn't.

he's an EX

forget him.

someone better for you out there.