Aqua Disappearance?

It's not a disappearance act, yall just have that rubber band theory down pat!

🙂


(sounds good anyway)

I only went M.I.A because you left me in the forums 😭

i disappear when i am in danger of getting hurt.

to them its re charging

I can be hallow sometimes where I need to recharge, most people deserve the silent treatment, or I got pretty darn busy with life lol.

I disappear from a romantic interest when I feel strong emotions for them, which scares me.

I disappear from friends when I overexpose myself to them. I need my alone time here and there.

I go 'poof' when a problem needs solving. Like if we are really Martians and the Aliens gave birth to us by getting cheeky with the apes.

Or just generally when life goes to the shit and I don't want to talk to anyone lol.

Yall know I was just teasing about yall getting accused of disappearing all the time. Found ya a good reason for it. 🙂

Love you guys!

I must say the Aquas that appear on DX are of a different breed! They are consistent as shitt!
hahaha!

Never really dissapearing for too long!
Thanks Aquas of DX HAHAHAH

I'm an Aquarius I disappear if I think someone has lost interest in me, I would rather just disappear and wait and see if they contact me, basically to me if someone has lost interest in you you just have to move on

Sometimes I disappear b/c alone time/solitude means just that ----> Being to yourself lol (can't be alone & be in the company of someone at the same time lol) And the natural desire in me to have days/moments of solitude doesn't go away just b/c I'm married or have good friends or am madly in love. Nope, still the same ole "need solitude sometimes" person lol

When something is apart of who you naturally are (The proof is that Aquas do this even when there's no one around to entertain...they still need alone time whether they have an audience or not), that won't change just b/c you cross paths with others. Others may encourage you to tone it down, but they'll never get you to turn it off completely. That's like asking someone to change who they are at the core. Not fair. And with Aquas, it's not gonna happen. Ever lol

And the other reason I disappear is b/c you're getting on my nerves or provoking a fear or insecurity deep within me. Could be ego, pride, lack of trust, fear of rejection or fear of vulnerability. Who knows. Everybody has their own demons they're trying to overcome or tuck away.

Here's the way I see it:
1. If I disappear b/c you've wronged me in some way, apologize, offer to fix it & actually fix it. I can't promise I'll come back 5 minutes later, but if I value you enough, I'll be back.

2. If I disappear b/c I'm starting to feel smothered or that I'm spending all of my time catering to you vs. still maintaining some sense of independence, I'll take a 'break' persay. It's not about you though. It's about me restoring my own independence and individuality b/c doing so is important to me.

And in either circumstance, the more you guilt me for my desire for solitude, the longer it's gonna take for me to 'come back.' Kinda like a baby trying to push an elephant lololol Sorry, this is 1 area Aquas are the most stubborn

It's best to just ask them up front if the disappearance is personal, trust whatever answer they give you (it's usually an honest one), let them know that you'll be around when they get back & from there, give them their space. Might as well. They're gonna take a 'break' 1 way or another anyways lol

Oh and if an Aqua never comes back, it's either b/c they weren't that into you or b/c you committed a deal breaker. In either case, they won't be back so you might as well do us & yourself a favor & keep it moving 🙂