Aqua dude disappeared (WHAT A SHOCKER!) what now?

In November I met a lovely Aquarian guy at a charity I work for (of course, the humanitarian Aqua meets the Libra with Moon in Aqua at a charity!). Now this will sound crazy. We only spent two days working together but we hit it off immediately and flirted wildly. To the point where other people were ribbing him about it and he would go all red and find an excuse to run off.
Then he started getting offered bits of work doing what he really loves (music) and I didn't see him. I thought I'd see him again after Christmas only to return and find out he'd accepted a job in another city (doing music) and would be gone for "a few months probably".
I was upset, understandably. So I got his email address of someone else we work with and sent him a very brief, very friendly email asking about the new job etc. It's been almost two weeks and I've heard nothing although that doesn't mean much as I know he's not online much (has no social media, etc).

Just want to know why he disappeared so suddenly without getting my details? And is he likely to return?
Obviously I know none of you can predict his behaviour, I just want some general Aqua-based thoughts. Like I say, I have moon in Aqua so I can understand detaching emotionally to some extent but I find it a bit baffling, really.
Thank you!

Where yall actually together as a couple?

If not, I wouldn't take it personally. He has exciting new opportunities and he is busy and focused on that. Can't blame him for that. He's just moving on for his dream, as any of us would do. Doesn't mean he didn't like you.

Nope, we were just flirtin' haha!

You're right. If I had got a job I went for around new year I'd have taken off as well. But as it's only for "a few months" (apparently) do you think he's likely to come back once it's finished or do Aquas gallivant off to the next adventure and never return to where they were before?

Not sure. Just depends on the relationship.

So he finally got in contact with me again! He sent me a sweet email which told me about his new job and stuff. But it all seemed very friendly. I know Aquas are just naturally friendly but does this mean he only views me as a friend and nothing more? No problem if so! (Though I was kind of hoping for more, hehe). I'm happy to be his friend! But just a little confused as we flirted so much before and everyone else tells me it was 'so obvious' that he liked me.

Haha, do you think? Yeah maybe he's shy! He has venus in capricorn, that could make him more reserved and hesitant. I know we live in the modern world but would a man mind being asked out by a woman? maybe if i kept it friendly and not too date-like as well.

But girls enjoy the chase too! I actually have venus in Sag and I love the chase! So much fun. I don't see why guys should get to have all the chasing fun.
I think I'll just leave it a few days before replying to him and just casually ask if he wants to meet up.

What happened with this

Nothing yet, I haven't replied to him! Gonna leave it for a few days, don't wanna be pushy. I am going to ask him out though and I'll report back!

Let me know what he says it'll help me

Ignore the aquaman and he will wonder about you. When he contacts you just be happy, and don't mention his absence(s). If you always have something interesting and/or unusual to say then leave him on a cliff hanger he will keep coming back for more.

Aquas build a relationship with a friendship simultaneously. If you can't be his good friend first and foremost he won't see you as anything more. You only spent two days together and have emailed a few times. Slow yourself down, just get to know him more for now.

You will have to accept the disappearances / sudden coldness from time to time, or you should look for another sign to infatuate yourself with.

I hope you don't ask him out in your email, focus on being a good friend.