What do Aquas think about FWB situations?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by firewaterearthpiscesvenus on Sunday, January 27, 2013 and has 7 replies.

What Aquarians Think About Friends With Benefits Situations

Aquarians often view FWB situations as casual and may not immediately seek to turn them into serious relationships. They value independence and may enjoy exploring connections without rushing into commitment. However, individual experiences vary, and some Aquarians may develop deeper feelings over time. Understanding Aquarius's need for space and authenticity can clarify their approach to FWB setups.

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@firewaterearthpiscesvenus
13 Years

It seems as though there are a lot of people in the DXPNET world whom have either been in a FWB situation with an Aqua are currently in one, and/ or contemplating starting one.

Are Aquas known for promoting their FWB into a full-fledged significant other?

My experiences with Aqua males has been them trying to wife me up within the first week of dating. lol. But, I have read a lot about the Aquas FWB situations on here and heard tales of woe from female friends whom are FWB with Aqua males but, hoping for something more.

What are your thoughts?

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

This is not just an "revolutionary" trait for Aquarius,(Uranus - breaking traditions and making up their OWN rules out of selfishness most of the time, but some of the time it's for the GOOD)

But it's due to GREED most of the time. They don't care about your feelings at all, because feelings aren't even in on it.
Although, the fault also lies in the other person for also saying, "yes it's good as long as I am getting you too!"

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Not me personally. I've tried FWB, one night stands I just can't do it, need to feel the love!

I think it spawns from the fact we are friendly and rub off as just wanting to be friends and this causes other people to think we are just physically attracted so I can see how or why Aquas can be good for FWB situations.

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@NotYourAverageAquarius
13 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by firewaterearthpiscesvenus
It seems as though there are a lot of people in the DXPNET world whom have either been in a FWB situation with an Aqua are currently in one, and/ or contemplating starting one.

Are Aquas known for promoting their FWB into a full-fledged significant other?

My experiences with Aqua males has been them trying to wife me up within the first week of dating. lol. But, I have read a lot about the Aquas FWB situations on here and heard tales of woe from female friends whom are FWB with Aqua males but, hoping for something more.

What are your thoughts?

Honestly I think your experience with Aquas is more like what I would expect.... I guess but wife up in a week LoL you must be one hell of a lady I would think they would hold off for a long time

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@EvilTurtle
14 YearsAquarius

I hate the whole label thing first of all. Secondly I dont fuck my friends if i want to keep them as a friend. Knowing this its safe to say i am not into the fwb bs.

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@CYAN
18 Years

I dont think there is much sexual objectification going in an aquas heads. I dont think Aqua men think that way even though they may want it that way. And, Ive had the opposite experience years back, me wanting sex and not him (1st time). haha. that was the best. Thats when i knew what an Aqua man was made of. I b****** at him for it! There is just what a woman wants and what a man wants and im not talking about sex. If a woman needs full commitment from a man she likes then that is her agenda but that just sounds like a trap.

And instead of feeling sorry for all the women who take the backseat just think that its possible for them not to throw their heart out the window. I think what feb16 said is refreshing. I will add to keep the emotions out of it until your instincts tell you its safe. Sorry to sound all buddhist but suffering is your making. Its best to make sure you keep your distance. i dated a man once (libra) i knew i could love but i kept my interests primary, consciously, and it made him love me more. Then i caved because i felt sorry for him. Dont cave for the wrong reasons! Stay in control of situation, to AVOID pain. Be like Jennifer Anniston. She sifted through a slew of men, did not waist an ounce of time. Her agenda was the same but she saw the signs real fast.

If they are trying to wife you up they must like you. just stand back and let it unfold, or not. Thats how Aquas see it. I dont know any 'bad" aquas. Generally i think they have the big picture. Stand back and look at it with them. Or not.

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@Angeleyes17
13 Years500+ Posts

Thats the situation with my aqua and me. He wants it to be FWB and i was ok with it, but I do want more.. I'd rather have him in my life and a friend. Its his bday today, sent him a message so see how he responds to that lol..