How Long Does It Take For Aquas To Get Over An Ex?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by firewaterearthpiscesvenus on Tuesday, January 29, 2013 and has 20 replies.

How Long Do Aquarians Take to Get Over an Ex

Aquarians typically take several weeks to months to move on from an ex. Their process depends on emotional attachment and personal growth. They value independence and often need time to regain balance before forming new connections. Patience and self-reflection are key for Aquarians to heal and move forward.

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@Angeleyes17
13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by aquasnoz
Anywhere between 1 day to 2 years ๐Ÿ˜›

Depends on how long the relationship went for and serious and circumstances leading to the break up.

true.. but would Aquas go back to there ex? talk to them after a break? start again? or would they cut them off completely?

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Like I said there are certain deciding factors.

The girl I went out with for 6 years from when I was 15. It took 2 years, we got back together etc etc. Not your usual going disappearing act. There are girls who I've really liked but felt it wasn't right so I've cut it off and remained friends, there are others that I haven't remained friends with.

There's no definite.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Angeleyes17

Posted by aquasnoz
Anywhere between 1 day to 2 years ๐Ÿ˜›

Depends on how long the relationship went for and serious and circumstances leading to the break up.

true.. but would Aquas go back to there ex? talk to them after a break? start again? or would they cut them off completely?

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Look to the their top 3 dominant signs. ๐Ÿ™‚
Or top 5 if you like.

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@EvilTurtle
14 YearsAquarius

Never! Yesterday! All depends on factors like emotion pain, chemistry and such. The best way i can put is: I still love yes i still love you just slightly less than use to my love. Love is forever even though realationships are not. Point is, the love is forever even if i hope to never see that person again. To say you can wipe the slate clean and start anew isnt logical but when is the heart ever logical.

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@WaterCup
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It depends. Some break-ups happen with myself 1st, get time to deal with whatever i feel, then break up for real with the person. Most of these are with difficult-to-deal-with people and i get over them quickly. Then there are those that are spontaneous (on the spot), example- i catch them in a lie & get outraged, etc. These take time to get over, like a year or so. I'm going through one of those as we speak, its been a month and I feel ok. I dont get sad or anything, i just obsessively think about what happened, minute by minute. I never go back to exes except for one.

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@candi3bb
15 Years500+ PostsAquarius

LOL its not the same as asking if you'll get back with a abusive person! oh dear child i hope that is a definite no. But then again i can see the possibility IF that person became some spiritual being. that the possibility that i could go back to them.

I guess with me,,, hmm...it depends too! hahaha if i must give a definite answer..the answer would be: quickly. the longest i ever got hunged up over a past relationship was a month. shortest 1 day. or couple of hours.

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Posted by steponscorpionsCRUNCH
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I think?? Since Aquas can detach just like that? *snaps*

I'm an Aqua only by A-Sun-Dance. (Ascendance)

define detach? i am possibily failing to understand the concept as iam never attached so never want the detachment? Is it strange to still love without the desire to see that person again?

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Posted by EvilTurtle

Posted by steponscorpionsCRUNCH
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I think?? Since Aquas can detach just like that? *snaps*

I'm an Aqua only by A-Sun-Dance. (Ascendance)

define detach? i am possibily failing to understand the concept as iam never attached so never want the detachment? Is it strange to still love without the desire to see that person again?

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As in, getting over the humiliation of rejection, regardless of whether you were personally invested in the particular guy.

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@aquapiscescusp
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Posted by EvilTurtle
Never! Yesterday! All depends on factors like emotion pain, chemistry and such. The best way i can put is: I still love yes i still love you just slightly less than use to my love. Love is forever even though realationships are not. Point is, the love is forever even if i hope to never see that person again. To say you can wipe the slate clean and start anew isnt logical but when is the heart ever logical.

I agree with the --love is forever-- part for me. If I "really" loved you, I will always love you but it doesn't mean we will be together.

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Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by aquapiscescusp

I agree with the --love is forever-- part for me. If I "really" loved you, I will always love you but it doesn't mean we will be together.

YES!! ๐Ÿ™‚ yes yes yes

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Unfortunately people have told me to not say that to them because it gives them the wrong idea. Okay I don't say that exact thing but "You have a place in my heart because you're special to me" is a no no.

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@firewaterearthpiscesvenus
13 Years

My Aqua Ex left me for his Aqua Ex. Then, he came crawling, crying, and begging to come back. (Long backstory.) And I was like "Hell no". We can be cool i.e. I don't want anything to happen to you... but, I can't take you seriously as a significant other.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by EvilTurtle
Never! Yesterday! All depends on factors like emotion pain, chemistry and such. The best way i can put is: I still love yes i still love you just slightly less than use to my love. Love is forever even though realationships are not. Point is, the love is forever even if i hope to never see that person again. To say you can wipe the slate clean and start anew isnt logical but when is the heart ever logical.

I agree with the --love is forever-- part for me. If I "really" loved you, I will always love you but it doesn't mean we will be together.

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so if the person u broke up with after being together in a long relationship based on love, told u that hes willing to change nd make things better to make u more comfortable wouldnt u give them a chance?