Aqua gal - more than friend?

Hi All,

I was at a seminar with my gf when I met this Aqua gal. Obviously she saw us together but right from the time I first saw her, I couldn't stop looking at her. She was stunning! On the last day of the seminar, we managed to talk and exchange tel no.

So far we'd chatted online and dated 3 times. The communication has been cordial and we'd never mentioned about my gf.

My question is... for Aqua, is this gonna be like a fling or for long-term relationship? Is she gonna want me to break up with my gf if it works out with her?

Please advise!

Well the question is moreso are YOU going to break up with your girlfriend just in case this girl doesn't seem to care much about the fact that you're ALREADY in a relationship? This Aqua girl DID notice that you had a girlfriend on your arm, TRUST ME! She's probably waiting on you to mention this girlfriend of yours.

There's only 2 reasons I can think of that an Aqua girl wouldn't atleast "remind you" of the girlfriend:
1. She's either literally waiting on you to tell her & is pretending not to know/care, just for the sake of waiting to see just how long it's going to take you to mention the obvious. And if this is the case AND if this Aqua really likes you, it'd be in your best interests to be upfront with her before you start losing her respect. After all, YOU should be the one bringing up the obvious b/c it's YOUR girlfriend. If you don't say anything, she'll just use her imagination & depending on what kind of girl she is and/or what she's been through in the past, her using that imagination of hers might be a BAD thing for your case.
OR
2. She's not interested in anything long-term or serious with you, thus she has no reason to bring up a topic that truly won't matter to her. For some girls, if they are in it for the wrong/shallow reasons, they could care less who you're shacking up with at night.