@nats
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Please need some insight into aquarian behaviour!!
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So tomorrow (Thursday) we've got class again and im hoping she will turn up. Im not going to say anything to her I??ll be distant and ignore her somewhat and she what she does (in the past when I've ignored her when were in person she??ll do something to try and get my attention). So basically my question is, from her behaviour, should I completely get over it? Or still have some hope? Is she deffinately NOT interested? I mean if shes not interested that's fine like I said to her, but I just want her to tell me STRAIGHT UP, —DON??T BOTHER ITS NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN??. And with that believe me, I??ll be gone like she never even knew I existed.
So tomorrow (Thursday) we've got class again and im hoping she will turn up. Im not going to say anything to her I??ll be distant and ignore her somewhat and she what she does (in the past when I've ignored her when were in person she??ll do something to try and get my attention). So basically my question is, from her behaviour, should I completely get over it? Or still have some hope? Is she deffinately NOT interested? I mean if shes not interested that's fine like I said to her, but I just want her to tell me STRAIGHT UP, —DON??T BOTHER ITS NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN??. And with that believe me, I??ll be gone like she never even knew I existed.
She sounds like an alcoholic. Seriously. They just want to get wasted with friends who don't judge them. I went out with one(he was an Aqua), the only guy who ever stood me up and I found out later that he works hard ( a doctor!) and drinks excessively after to compensate for whatever feelings he can't deal with to the point of passing out. You wouldn't know it because this guy worked such long hours and was respected but after, you couldn't wrench a bottle away from him. High functioning but seriously f'ed up. Your previous post sent up red flags to me and her behavior sounds similar. Kind of distant to you, tells you things but forgets later and you will eventually find out that they were out getting wasted when you thought you had plans. She doesn't have a clue to her feelings and isn't capable of relating to anyone if this is the case.
^^ sounds like me
mmmm well shes got a gemini moon so i dont know. fk she pisses me off but theres something so fascinating about her. i fee like theres SOOOOOOOOOOOO much to learn! and it keeps me wanting to know more and more!
nats. i know what you mean. these girls are fascinating. and mesmerizing. i was inlove with my aqua best friend for a long time...then decided its not worth it because im more like a brother too her. she isnt affectionate as other friends are...she never says i love you or anything. hell, she only talks about her bf that way. i like attention. i kinda crave it...she knows it too. but she doesnt give it at all sometimes. i get ignored alot...but she says its not me its something going on. hell, im lucky she trusts me enough to let me in on her love life sometimes. she hurts people without knowing it...shes that oblivious. but i love her unconditionally. i accepted shes my best friend (sister really) and i will do anything i could for her. so yeah...thats the power of an aquarian. you wanna get to know them...and me having my ascendant in scorpio...im always wanting to know her secrets. anything and everything. i also have a gemini moon. we get distracted easily. lol.
also in that vid...umm i am a jealous type. nor do i like sharing a lover with someone else. if i catch a girl in bed with another man i dont give a damn how open minded she is. or whatever. its cheating. she will have to deal with it. ill cut her off from my life...even if we had a thing and shared alot of memories. i demand loyalty. at all times. lol. thats not much too ask either...dont mess around and we are good...do whatever else ya want.
also in that vid...umm i am a jealous type. nor do i like sharing a lover with someone else. if i catch a girl in bed with another man i dont give a damn how open minded she is. or whatever. its cheating. she will have to deal with it. ill cut her off from my life...even if we had a thing and shared alot of memories. i demand loyalty. at all times. lol. thats not much too ask either...dont mess around and we are good...do whatever else ya want.
@valeria yeah i know....i never have to worry bout her thats for sure. lol. i am a good friend..but i get all fatherly and stuff...cappy traits...thanks val your sweet yourself
Alrite today is thursday we got class again tonight and I havent spoken to her at all. (as you've read in my posts).
So Im at work and just got an email from her.
She says:
"Hey u, How are u?
Man my phone is stuffed and yes i been really busy have some issues outside of work.
Whats been happening with you?"
Dont know what to make out of this..... What does she want? Just friendship I guess...
So Im at work and just got an email from her.
She says:
"Hey u, How are u?
Man my phone is stuffed and yes i been really busy have some issues outside of work.
Whats been happening with you?"
Dont know what to make out of this..... What does she want? Just friendship I guess...
She was trying to get over her ex. And now she has her head cleared up
After 8 years as it is...she must be a mom now lolzx.
After 8 years as it is...she must be a mom now lolzx.
Posted by Catgirlpk
She was trying to get over her ex. And now she has her head cleared up
After 8 years as it is...she must be a mom now lolzx.
Stahp doing this...I read the intro and not seeing the date, I got invested only to find out it's ancient as hell lol
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Anyway, we had 3 weeks holiday break from our college class and we came back to class yesterday. I assumed she wouldn't turn up (but I was hoping she would) since we haven't spoken in a full week with no contact etc and shes been posting status?? on facebook about forgetting about someone and getting over them etc and I had a gut feeling they were directed at me (maybe im just being self centered. Don't know lol).
Anyway so surprise surprise she didn't turn up to class. One of the girls told me that they had spoken to her and she wasn't going to class because she was going to go and see a friend or something. Anyway, after I found out I rang her as I wanted to see how she was etc and see if she was okay (because she had that day posted as her status something like saying someone will always be in her thoughts and she loves them very much etc it sounded like someone had died or something) so yea I wanted to —check up on her?? I guess.
So I rang her (and we've spoken on the phone once before and she was really nervous and spoke REALLY fast loll) anyway she rejected my call!! So I msgd her and said —good one rejecting my call?? she replied straight away and said —huh sorry im in a meeting?? so I text her back saying —at lunchtime? Lol okay when do you get out— she replied —haven't had lunch im in d meeting most of the day?? so I left it at that.
So today I was still well not worried but lets say —concerned?? actually not concerned I??ll be honest I want to hear from her so I text her saying —hey are u still in ur meeting today? :p or do u have some spare time from your busy schedule??. I got no reply. I figured that would be the case. So an hour later when I was at lunch and KNEW she would also be at lunch I rang her. She rejected my call AGAIN!. So I text her saying —rejecting my call again aye. Listen if u don't wanna talk to me that's sweet just say so instead of ignoring me etc. Be straight with me. I just wanted to see how u were going since u didn't come to class and u seem to have disappeared from this planet.?? And again no reply, nothing.