Aqua Girls, and Aqua Connoisseurs, Please Help!!

If she said she didn't like, then she probably does not. MAybe she was just enjoying the attention. I think it's best to forget about her.

Giorgio, she sounds very inmature and she is playing games. I think she likes you to react to her flirtations which most aquas I know do . I would just ignore her and find her another job. I don't think she is going to stop but just don't react to her. In when you do she will probably start it up again , just ignore her and find someone who does really care about you.

She sounds confused and playing with your emotions is her hobby...I dont think she wants to persue a relationship with you even if she really does like you.

You have to protect your heart...

but no one does that...its a viscious circle.

OK I've been this girl (years ago before maturity set in!) She doesn't want you. But since I can relate, I am going to relate your story to what happened to me. (Guy was a leo as well.) I had no idea that my jokes were taken so seriously. Like I was talking about the future, someday, far away time and then I wanted a guy's opinion so I would say stuff like "OK let's say that we're getting married would you possibly mind if..." He wasn't who I wanted since I was mostly day dreaming of another guy. All I'm saying is that she might just be starting to realize that she's attactive and you are taking her flirtations to heart.

In a way it's good that she met you because if she matures she'll do what I did and that's set the record straight then say that I'm going to disappear until you can take us just being friends. I'm not proud of what I did or made that poor guy think, but in all honesty I didn't even realize that I was attractive to the opposite sex. Your taking her seriously will hopefully help her mature. And I would bet money that her current boyfriend was the first guy in her life that told her that he loved her. I can't say that even now I completely understand love or what it means, but I know that when things get serious what is needed is honesty.

Good Luck BUT I do recommend walking away from this girl fast. She's not going to leave her boyfriend, even if she's attracted to you. Your feelings don't matter to her. She should tell you "that I never was interested" of "I realized that my boyfriend will always have my heart... I'm sorry." But if she's not mature and she's just learning her sexuality, then she's going to leave you dangling. Don't... you deserve to be happy.

kris it wasn't a relationship in my point of view; he was just giving me my so rightly deserved adulation. I just didn't know how hot I was until I met that leo. (Sadly it gave me too much confidence and not enough emotional depth for a little while in my life.) It's hard to surpass an aquarius in looks when she realizes exactly what she has, and this Monica is just learning her weapons... it's dangerous to be around.

Again, Monica doesn't sound like she's mature and this leo needs to get going... quick!

Nope Ive never had a leo...theres still time.

I do agree with what ladyvie says...his story does sound all to familiar. But as an aquarian we really dont get how we affext people by our words and actions, she just may not get it...but I agree leave her alone. Stay away.FAR AWAY.

Okay.. Now, this is just my opinion... but it sounds like something I would do. She is probably attracted to you and because she sees you often, the attraction gets stronger every time plus, you seem to be easy bait if you told her you love her. We love to flirt with guys who we think we can get into their minds and play. If you play hard to get or disinterested, it will drive us crazy and we will keep on until we get you where we want you. However, with the same breathe, she has a boyfriend and we are extremely loyal, almost to a fault. Once the relationship flipped and you gave her all the control she got scared and probably realized she took it too far, but at that point it was too late, so then the back peddling begins.

This is what I suggest. Flirt with females in front of her, but not too much and act disinterested in her, even if you are still madly in love, do not let her know. Aqua's HATE competition or to know we are not the center of a man's attention. It drives us mad, even if we are not all that interested to start with. Be strictly professional with her from now on and actually be a little firm. We love it when men are firm with us, in a gentle way... I don't know about her, but that crap would spin my head around so fast. Be consistent. I promise it will drive her insane and shortly she will have a huge blow out fight with her boyfriend.. and Oah, look at that, she is single and available for YOU. Now this may take a long time or it could happen in a few days.. we are unpredictable like that, but if you are consistent, she will come around, unless that boyfriend starts playing mind games, too. Then the game might get a little thick. What usually happens to me, when I begin playing like this (which is why I try not to do it that much anymore) the guy then becomes disinterested FOR REAL, and I can't get his attention back, after I have broken it off with the boyfriend. So I lose on both fronts. That's just me though. (bad karma or something)

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I can handle it.

Don't listen to Kris Lady M... I'm telling you if you want flattery, leos are great... whoever I seriously suggest once you realize how easy they are to flirt with setting the record straight and being friends. (Wow that sounds awful and I know some aqua chicks dig leos, but you haven't lived until you try all varieties of life.) In fact I suggest we all date each sign of the zodiac just long enough to get a picture on what astrology says... wait darn it all I'm dating a Cap (but this scientific adventure could be worth leaving the known universe for... joking, at least for now.)

however not whoever (freudian slip)

My bestfriend and the aunt I lived with are both leos...CRAZY. Thats the only relationship i've had with them, it seems like i'm the only one that can handle them....So bring on the leo boys...i'll handle them even better 😛

Is paranoia a leo trait?

Get laid...by someone else..maybe another hottie you work with. LOL Im joking, but its a suggestion.

Ignore her. simple. Keep it professional, yet remain friendly...after awhile you'll forget about thw entire thing.

I think she was attracted to him too, just confused like we usually are, but she didnt mean any harm HONEST.

🙂 Well well well....what can we say....

Yeah PM they are paranoid about those things alot, but im talking about people out to get them paranoia...

We are hard to understand...so I hear.

But trust me she remembers everything she has said to and about you...well, most of it.

Flattery is nice, but but my confidence has long been established and isnt going anywhere...leos are the ones who really crave flattery.

^^Ladyvie you really are deceving the poor girl you want her to date a leo for flattery i think she is confident enough and doesn,t need flattery . Besides every leo aqua relationship fails and she already knows enough about leos so she doesn,t even need a relationship with a leo boy to get the experience of her oppisite half . I really think Lady m will do great with a capricorn or aries . Actually out of all the fire signs aqua has happy ending s with aries . Eliza married one .

Kris, I was only teasing here. I thought she was day dreaming of a libra anyhow? But either way experience which is fun and helps us grow is never a bad thing. And I don't know Eliza but marrying an aries sounds intense and I know that aqua girls are drawn to intensity like moths to the flame. I know of one very happy scorpio/aqua love relationship even in real life.

But I have to admit dating a Capricorn has been quite trying with me, but it's cool because he is definately a real man who has priorities. So I'll back you up on saying find a Cap.

Hows your relationship going Kris...are you being a good kitty?

Were less drama, thats all...but yet still know how to have fun.

Oh yes for now mr libra has my attention...but like I said theres always room for others...in the future...

Aries is cool, I can handle them too. 🙂

Oh Yeah...mr libra is very interesting/weird....GO GO GAdget sounds like something he would say.

The vainess is a turn off though. Well the goal was to get him smitten, and now that he is (not fully, but im working on it)...we'll see whats next.

Oh my gosh..aqi, im not that young. I loved inspector gadget and penny and i forget the dogs name at the moment.

If an aquarian woman REALLY likes you (a young one), she is less likely to be so forthcoming with her feelings for you, as this girl was with you Giorgio.

She was totally playing games with you...she wasnt taking the situation seriously. You need to make her understand things like this have consequences and people have feelings.

Yes, she sounds quite immature.

Forthcoming meaning she would not if rarely discuss how she feels about you to you. She sounds so open with her comments to you and others...just think of the entire situation as a mind fuck and major flirting...a power trip on her part.

GOODLUCK, come and visit some time. 🙂

I will.
Btw, do you really think I am taking the right conclusion with what I told in my last post (capitalized letters in "good luck" always give me the shivers)?

Wait are you trying to get her or are you trying to get over her...

Seems like aquarianbrat is telling you how to get Monica. I guess that would be an approach if you are. BUT if your trrying to get over the situation and work in peace again just keep it pofessional and civil..not flirty, but friendly and strictly business.

Sorry about the Goodluck in caps...but you'll need it 🙂

"--Well, it already is."

What are you talking about?

well, what ya waiting for?

^^that was beautiful....*sheds a tear*

lol...not what notso said...

"Everything we do has a reason, you just may not fully understand that reason."

...I'm pretty sure that applies to everyone.😛

She sounds a bit screwed up and very immature.

totally agree.... Deff not a typical aqua 🙂

Branh's probably a little raw afetr his aqua love interest didn't play by his rules or somethin. Yeah enough of the Hatorade already Branston.

"MelloDee, what Aqua love interest are you referring to? I never had an Aquarian love interest"

Branh0913: the woman you were talking about a few months ago. She was the slightly plump aqua lady who had big boobs and your little nephew answered the phone to her one day and she hung up or something.

Have you forgotten her already? Does that mean that I retain more about your romantic endeavours than you do? That's freaky.

giogio,

brother, be firm and strong with this girl.

i dated an aqua for over a year and we may get back together after months of hesitation...
aqua girls have awesome qualities, but they need to be in the right time in their lives to be able to love you back...even if you are a good person for her...she will have to make that choice...whatever it is that made her act one way and then act another with you...it doesn't matter...what matter is the reality that you both live in today.

one day you may understand things better. today, take care of your heart, be firm, keep on going with your life...if she truly wants to be with you, she'll be with you...if not, then she was never yours to begin. you keep on walking buddy.

be open to learn to love her like a friend, unless one day you know she loves ya back...in actions and in words...for now...just look at her from the distance and keep on going. take care of yourself.

wow reading these posts was a trip. I too knew a few aqua girls in my time and had one serious relationship with one. It was great. But then it all turned sour unnecessarily. They are on a different planet. She made friends so easily but then it seemed that noone really knew her properly. She was overly-friendly almost to the point of voyeurism/fanaticism but then eventually she would get bored and drop this person just like that and move on and make friends with another person and do it all over again. Eventually she did it to me the relationship went down the pan. From my experience i think that aqua girls enjoy this journey-girl enigma role that they play they never let anyone get close and never show emotions they just lock them away as if they are in denial. But i do know that the emotions are there because the only way to get them out was to be really mean to her. With this girl, the line from jerry maguire, "great at friendship, bad at intimacy" rang true. But i never got bored with her.............. definitely a trip

Giorgio, my aqua too played a few games with friendsips and with me on relationship and ppl got disenchanted. And she also always always thought she was right! As VirgowithalittleLibra says stay strong and be yourself. I think they just need to know that some of their actions have strong effects on others. However they do have fantastic qualities such as loyalty, great conversationalist, when they help you they really go out of the way to do so. Hope it works out with the scorpio.

She might have a scorpio moon...

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Giorgio,

Check out my last posts...I totally understand where you are coming from...except I was the one in the relationship...maybe this can explain some more from both perspectives...

Im almost done reading all your post, just have two left to read.

My aqua has been a pain in the butt too, just read my latest story...

Hope all is well for you today bud.

VLL

I gotcha brother I'll read it when I can.

My aqua has her bday coming up soon...sometimes I wonder if she sabotage the relationshp bc of this...since she was struggling between spending time with me vs. her friends...because she didn't wanted to mix both worlds for some reason that night...probably ralted to things she's been hiding not sure...

I'll write more later.