Aloof? Please explain

Hmm. I need help.

So, could someone expain the difference between an Aquarius that doesn't like someone at all and when they do like someone, but act like they don't. It really confusing an hurts my soft fishy feelings.

Is there 2 types of acting aloof or not? What's going?

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Message posted by: keshanb on 2/28/2006 3:10:34 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.113
Aquarius men are aloof. and When they really like someone they act like they don't. But only because their trying to protect themselves. They don't fall in love alot. So when they do, they don't know how else to react.

So, could someone expain the difference between an Aquarius that doesn't like someone at all and when they do like someone, but act like they don't.

Sounds like junior high

Don't put alot of emotion or effort into any kind of relationship with an Aqua. :-/ Trust.

I don't know about the acting like they don't like you part...aloft as in an aqua won't act like someones dog on a chain or anything similiar.No constant "i love yous" repeatedly,needs to follow you around everywhere you go,etc.A more mature aqua will generally tell you how they feel when they mean it and they usually don't see a need to make a constant,insecure almost looking routine of it.The "mushy,sobby" stuff isn't done at all pretty much is what "aqua" aloft means.

but a lot of the aqua men i hear about on here don't even say "i love you"...even after 1-2 years of dating...i find that to be strange.

my aqua tells me he loves me quite often, but not too much. when he says it he definitely means it, which is really nice!

i agree starfish...you can tell a lot by their body language and their eyes. and when they are loving you, you will know b/c you can feel it. their actions speak a lot louder than words...that's for sure!!!

yes, i know. i am a cancer (so i can relate to you) and i have been with my aqua bf for 2 1/2 years now, so i know how to deal!!! i have been through a lot with my aqua but it is completely worth it. i wouldn't want to be with another guy.

Grr... DXP is like my Aquarius support group.

Of course, I call my aqua guy asking him to go out to eat (on his voicemail). But he doesn't call me back, nada, nothing

Then I know after 5 days of ignoring him, he'll come back trying to catch my attention.

aye aye aye

Wierdd. My aqua was totally up my ass and was overly affectionate and clingy. But after a few weeks of that was just like "I changed my mind."