Littlepig77
@Littlepig77
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Aqua man!
The aqua hoops have been set...
Posted by sultrykittyOhh please explain??
The aqua hoops have been set...
Aquas tend to control the pace of the relationship. They also don't like planned meetups. Look for resistance when trying to make plans. They will not commit to something unless it's their idea, and if something better comes up, expect to get flaked.
Posted by sultrykitty
Aquas tend to control the pace of the relationship. They also don't like planned meetups. Look not commit to something unless it's their idea, and if something better comes up, expect to get flaked.
this sounds just like him so far, he's planned 3 weeks in advance before so I suggest a week and he ignores me. I know he won't get another offer! What would you suggest I do from here? I was thinking about texting him asking if we could compromise but the fact he is ignoring me is turning me off to him! Why can't he communicate, just say no if he doesn't want too! X
Posted by Littlepig77I would wait until the night before and then touch base with him to see if he's up for the next day.Posted by sultrykitty
Aquas tend to control the pace of the relationship. They also don't like planned meetups. Look not commit to something unless it's their idea, and if something better comes up, expect to get flaked.
this sounds just like him so far, he's planned 3 weeks in advance before so I suggest a week and he ignores me. I know he won't get another offer! What would you suggest I do from here? I was thinking about texting him asking if we could compromise but the fact he is ignoring me is turning me off to him! Why can't he communicate, just say no if he doesn't want too! Xclick to expand
He wanted to see you sooner, and you planned for later. Good luck.....
I agree with you that meeting at 10 pm isn't feasible. It's a work night.
Aqua or not, set your boundaries and stick to them.
Posted by truecapI don't claim to be practical
I agree with you that meeting at 10 pm isn't feasible. It's a work night.
Thank you everyone for your advice. Since I wrote this he text me this evening to let me know one of my favourite films was about some to start.. So I'm guessing he's not to angry with me for not just agreeing to meet! I'm just pleased he isn't ignoring me! Maybe after a few days to think he has come back round. So you think it's okay to ring and not leave the ball in his court? X
Posted by FutureSeekebr />How did it go?I haven't seen him yet as I really don't want to meet him 10 at night after a long day at work, I know I wouldn't be the best company that's why I would rather wait till we can meet a little earlier . I want to see so I'll give him a text or call towards the end of the week as I've got a busy few days now. X
If you want to see him- see him. You don't have to wait.
Posted by GennieSo I heard from him a couple days after, he just text me to let me know one of my favourites films was about to begin, which I thought was nice but he didn't make any conversation at all. I tried an he replied but not asking any questions or taking the conversation any further. Why would he do that? Do you think he was hoping I would mention meeting up or what??Posted by truecapI don't claim to be practical
I agree with you that meeting at 10 pm isn't feasible. It's a work night.click to expand
Hey guys so we still haven't seen each other! Partly because I think we are both stubborn and don't want to be vulnerable.
So I'm think about messaging him saying,
Do you fancy a cuppa this week? It been ages since we have seen each other! And I'm really not up for a 10 o clock hook up. I like your mind as well as your body!
Do you think that may come across as a bit too forward? Opinions please! 😘
So I'm think about messaging him saying,
Do you fancy a cuppa this week? It been ages since we have seen each other! And I'm really not up for a 10 o clock hook up. I like your mind as well as your body!
Do you think that may come across as a bit too forward? Opinions please! 😘
How long have you been dating? I would probably leave off the last part if you haven't been dating long.
Posted by sultrykittyI find this to be somewhat true because they like to be carefree and spontaneous. BUT if they really want to see you they will take the opportunity to mold their schedule to work with yours. Just from my previous experiences. And usually they will pout about not being able to see you sooner but if the date you set is the soonest theyd rather take that than lose the chance to hangout dont you think?
Aquas tend to control the pace of the relationship. They also don't like planned meetups. Look for resistance when trying to make plans. They will not commit to something unless it's their idea, and if something better comes up, expect to get flaked.
Posted by truecap+100000000
I agree with you that meeting at 10 pm isn't feasible. It's a work night.
Aqua or not, set your boundaries and stick to them.
Posted by Littlepig77I like the first part of this, sounds casual and like you are wanting to catch each other up. The "And I'm really not up for a 10 o clock hook up. I like your mind as well as your body!" should be left out. He either takes of leaves your offer, no need to explain yourself to him. Now, if he asks in person tell him the reason, that you dont do work nights and that should be understandable if he is also a career man.
Hey guys so we still haven't seen each other! Partly because I think we are both stubborn and don't want to be vulnerable.
So I'm think about messaging him saying,
Do you fancy a cuppa this week? It been ages since we have seen each other! And I'm really not up for a 10 o clock hook up. I like your mind as well as your body!
Do you think that may come across as a bit too forward? Opinions please! 😘
Posted by PeanutbutterLol, I never experienced that. He has a lot of fixed in his chart though, so if I didn't see him when he wanted to see me, then I just didn't see him. I learned to have my own life and treat him the same way. Then he started coming around, a little.Posted by sultrykittyI find this to be somewhat true because they like to be carefree and spontaneous. BUT if they really want to see you they will take the opportunity to mold their schedule to work with yours. Just from my previous experiences. And usually they will pout about not being able to see you sooner but if the date you set is the soonest theyd rather take that than lose the chance to hangout dont you think?
Aquas tend to control the pace of the relationship. They also don't like planned meetups. Look for resistance when trying to make plans. They will not commit to something unless it's their idea, and if something better comes up, expect to get flaked.click to expand
the fixed signs could quite possibly make him a lot more stubborn then haha. always have a life of your own and theyll be begging at your feet for more. I DONT mean to sound like a bitch but its true. Attraction happens when you're busy taking care of and making things happen for yourself but that goes without saying for all signs!
The Aqua I just started talking to has opened his schedule up to me & tells me to drop by whenever I want (basically implying that he wants to see me every chance he gets, that his availability is there at my disposal) and I pick and choose the days that work for me and we make it happen. Its ladies choice y'all 😛
Were both very open & honest with one another and are not playing games. He knows that if he doesn't take the chance to see me when I am available that there are men lined up ready to take the opportunity of spending time with me, getting to know me, and will do what he isnt willing to which is why he also appreciates the time I spend with him because of the fact that I am putting him before anyone else.
Not sure if any of that makes sense, Im just blabbering now. Lol.
The Aqua I just started talking to has opened his schedule up to me & tells me to drop by whenever I want (basically implying that he wants to see me every chance he gets, that his availability is there at my disposal) and I pick and choose the days that work for me and we make it happen. Its ladies choice y'all 😛
Were both very open & honest with one another and are not playing games. He knows that if he doesn't take the chance to see me when I am available that there are men lined up ready to take the opportunity of spending time with me, getting to know me, and will do what he isnt willing to which is why he also appreciates the time I spend with him because of the fact that I am putting him before anyone else.
Not sure if any of that makes sense, Im just blabbering now. Lol.
But obviously if hes busy/working when youre free that wont work so as long as other dates are still being suggested/plans/ arrangements are coming from his part its all good. Continuous effort to connect and bond never goes to waste in my book.
Posted by PeanutbutterIf mine knew there were other guys in the picture he would've just walked and let me have them. He doesn't compete for a girl's attention, period. No jealousy, no games, just "do you want to be with me or not?" It was hard to get used to but ultimately it's a better way to go, IMO.
the fixed signs could quite possibly make him a lot more stubborn then haha. always have a life of your own and theyll be begging at your feet for more. I DONT mean to sound like a bitch but its true. Attraction happens when you're busy taking care of and making things happen for yourself but that goes without saying for all signs!
The Aqua I just started talking to has opened his schedule up to me & tells me to drop by whenever I want (basically implying that he wants to see me every chance he gets, that his availability is there at my disposal) and I pick and choose the days that work for me and we make it happen. Its ladies choice y'all 😛
Were both very open & honest with one another and are not playing games. He knows that if he doesn't take the chance to see me when I am available that there are men lined up ready to take the opportunity of spending time with me, getting to know me, and will do what he isnt willing to which is why he also appreciates the time I spend with him because of the fact that I am putting him before anyone else.
Not sure if any of that makes sense, Im just blabbering now. Lol.
Posted by Littlepig77I don't know your aquas natal chart and you better look at it very carefully, but I have an aqua friend, whos in love with me, He's also too clingy, even I don't give him any hope. So apparently it's all about moon and other planets in his chart. So try to find out more about him
So the Aqua I have been seeing suggested meeting at my place when I finish work tomorrow which is at 10pm.
I replied saying "no not a Monday, too limited, how about Sunday the 28th"
I said this as I don't really want to be meeting him that late at night as it would only give us an hour together where as waiting till Sunday would give us more time together. I didn't explain that but I thought by me saying it was too limited that was obvious?! He never replied back to me though about next Sunday !? Why would this be? I know he doesn't have plans next Sunday as he doesn't really have a social life and all he does is work but he has his own business so can get away when he likes with in reason.. He made it clear he wanted to see me but just because I didn't want to do the day he suggested he ignores me?
Posted by pisceanlovesThank you all u know about the rest of his chart is that he has a Scorpio moon . I'm not sure of other placements . Do you know much about Aqua with Scorpio moon? I know he has a rather big ego but I'm not sure if it's more of an act. XPosted by Littlepig77I don't know your aquas natal chart and you better look at it very carefully, but I have an aqua friend, whos in love with me, He's also too clingy, even I don't give him any hope. So apparently it's all about moon and other planets in his chart. So try to find out more about him
So the Aqua I have been seeing suggested meeting at my place when I finish work tomorrow which is at 10pm.
I replied saying "no not a Monday, too limited, how about Sunday the 28th"
I said this as I don't really want to be meeting him that late at night as it would only give us an hour together where as waiting till Sunday would give us more time together. I didn't explain that but I thought by me saying it was too limited that was obvious?! He never replied back to me though about next Sunday !? Why would this be? I know he doesn't have plans next Sunday as he doesn't really have a social life and all he does is work but he has his own business so can get away when he likes with in reason.. He made it clear he wanted to see me but just because I didn't want to do the day he suggested he ignores me?click to expand
Structured dates are red flags for aqua
A Scorpio moon you say? Come right this way....
Just kidding you're screwed!
Just kidding you're screwed!
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11And why do you say that? Tell me more.... 🙂
A Scorpio moon you say? Come right this way....
Just kidding you're screwed!
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11You think so? I set up dates when Im free (we both have busy lives and unfortunately have to work around that) and hes like OK, ill let my friends know Ill be off the radar hahaha.
Structured dates are red flags for aqua
If it were up to me itd be alot more fluid but realistically we have to pencil each other in... Or is that just my Virgo talking here?
Posted by sultrykittyThats true, mine is all about being one on one and I truly appreciate that aspect about him. We ladies know we have a good thing w our Aquas, & our Aqua guys know they have a good thing w us.Posted by PeanutbutterIf mine knew there were other guys in the picture he would've just walked and let me have them. He doesn't compete for a girl's attention, period. No jealousy, no games, just "do you want to be with me or not?" It was hard to get used to but ultimately it's a better way to go, IMO.
the .......TL: DR...... lol.
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I have found that alot about his free spirit makes me do a double take sometimes haha, like you said a bit hard to get used to but its also what I appreciate about him, how open and free he is.
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I replied saying "no not a Monday, too limited, how about Sunday the 28th"
I said this as I don't really want to be meeting him that late at night as it would only give us an hour together where as waiting till Sunday would give us more time together. I didn't explain that but I thought by me saying it was too limited that was obvious?! He never replied back to me though about next Sunday !? Why would this be? I know he doesn't have plans next Sunday as he doesn't really have a social life and all he does is work but he has his own business so can get away when he likes with in reason.. He made it clear he wanted to see me but just because I didn't want to do the day he suggested he ignores me?