Aqua man falling in love in 2 days?

I started talking to this Aquarius man two days ago, the convo was pretty intense about both our life experiences. Within the first 24 hours he already was asking me if I'm willing to be in a relationship with him. He poured all his emotions, he didnt want us stop talking and texting in the first day. We spoke on the phone and text for about 16 hours within the very first day alone. I was involved last year to another Aqua and researched Aqua man traits and this guy is not the typical Aqua! He said he seems like he stopped being logical with me and ashamed that he already laying all his cards to me in one day only. Very emotional and even rushing me to tell him that I can be his girl now. So I asked to take things slow, get to know me and go with the flow. He told me almost half of his life story, about how he grew up, about his divorced, his ex wife and children. No holds barred with this guy and I'm not use to it knowing he is an Aqua! He is so different! Help how should I approach this—

To me, when someone "falls" that fast, it's a red flag.
Ehhh, but I'm a capricorn.

Disagree with those above.
Although you shouldn't rule out any typical traits just yet...
I'm an Aqua and prefer to lay my cards out in the start. This not only gets so he is out the way, but is a way of seeing if you still accept him...good/bad/opinions/all.
I prefer others to do the same. But even I have a nervous regret feeling doing so as it makes me feel vulnerable, open to being judged, criticism, secrets and personal things out in the open - which dramatical people and energy vampires can use against me.
To me, this is very typical Aqua...he may be dropping his walls to get to know you better. Friend first is my book. A real friend should know your all and accept you for it no questions asked besides trying to understand and see things from his shoes.
Just my 2 cents. But be careful with his heart (perhaps if you come across as the likes above. No ill intentions meant) 😉

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Posted by truecap
To me, when someone "falls" that fast, it's a red flag.
Ehhh, but I'm a capricorn.

And this is why relationships don't last. People who think they know what a red flag looks like.. But I'm just going to keep my mouth shut.

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It's a red flag to me because it scares me, makes me question their judgement and feels off to me. I don't mean to imply "end it" but it makes me pull back some and question what the hurry is. Encourages me to take some time before jumping in. Probably makes me move forward slower than I normally would. But, like I said, I'm a capricorn and my opinion probably isn't even relevant since she's asking about an aqua.

After 3 1/2 years on this board and reading Aquarian answers, I have seen MANY aquas state "what's the hurry?"

Take note:

TWO Days.

Two.

Red flag 101

I dont think this is even possible, aquarians dont fall in love within 2 days thats absurd. Average aquarians observe the potential partners for some time before making the declarations. You gotta be wary of this guy. Even if he likes you very much, that much progress in 2 day is just unbelivable not just for aquarians but for people of other zodiacs too.

Posted by truecap
To me, when someone "falls" that fast, it's a red flag.
Ehhh, but I'm a capricorn.

+1, nah aries are like this too.

Posted by Angmodurian
I dont think this is even possible, aquarians dont fall in love within 2 days thats absurd. Average aquarians observe the potential partners for some time before making the declarations. You gotta be wary of this guy. Even if he likes you very much, that much progress in 2 day is just unbelivable not just for aquarians but for people of other zodiacs too.

I think an aqua with a heavy pisces influence might verbalize the idea, but I don't think they would actually be in love.

Posted by AquaMermaid
I'm eager to know his placements. I've guessed in my head but let's see if it's right.

Yeah, same here. Wanna know his placements. The only Aqua I know who is like this is an aqua sun/libra moon.

I'm placing my bets on libra somewhere on his chart. Lol

Just met him in person three hours ago, as soon as we parted he texted me that he can talk with me the whole day everyday and he's hoping that I like him too. I have an Aquarius moon, I'd like my space too sometimes. I kept on telling him to take things slow and that I'd like to get to know him better first. He would text or call me almost the whole day, unless I tell him that I'm busy with something important and that I can't talk to him. I'm the one feeling smothered, I just couldn't let him know. I thought he might have some agenda, but the way we talk and he usually just talk about him and how he feels but I can't suspect him to have a hidden agenda as to why he is treating me as if I'm so special. I am the one asking for space and not to rush things, he wants me to declare that I like him too and that I can be his gf now! Only if I could share all his text messages and phone convo here, I would, and you all will think that this particular Aqua is a butter wearing his hearts on his sleeves this early on. The first 5 hours of our convo, we sent 569 total messages, it was insane! He said he didn't expect to find some good chemistry with me like he can just talk to me non stop and that I made him feel amazing and in love, and the typical Aqua logic is not working for him. He just stop being logical and sometimes annoyingly smothering, but he's not doing anything wrong to me so I'm just trying to understand why he is acting this way. Here is his chart, I don't know his exact time of birth so the rising might be different:

JW 1/26/78
Rising Taurus
Sun Aquarius
Moon Virgo
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Aquarius
Jupiter Gemini
Pluto Libra
Uranus Scorpio

Falling in love can happen in a few moments. That's why it's called falling. Some people may need to "fall" a bit longer than others. How absurd is it to think someone could be falling in love starting now... In love X amount of time later? Who said he is in some sort of rush because he likes who he met, what he sees and decided she is worth starting the plunge? You can jump conclusions right away. But there is nothing wrong with making him wait.
Hell, if he poured out all the bad about himself... Do the same and tell him you feel smothered.

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Posted by Angmodurian
I dont think this is even possible, aquarians dont fall in love within 2 days thats absurd. Average aquarians observe the potential partners for some time before making the declarations. You gotta be wary of this guy. Even if he likes you very much, that much progress in 2 day is just unbelivable not just for aquarians but for people of other zodiacs too.

some Aquarians like me can assess the situation or a person quicker than othrr aquas. Compared to me, other aquas are in the stone age, hence why they go slower while im more like advanced alien technology. That aquarius must be advanced to fall in love so quick. You wouldnt understand so of course you'll write it off as a red flag ir hes just trying to fuck... You dont know everything

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Love takes time to cultivate, it cant happen in a matter of 2 days. The feeling he has is mostly infatuation rather than love. Love is about accepting the other person wholly regardless of any imperfection. That aquarius dude havent even seen every side of OP, theres no way this is love. Thats why average aquarians take it slow, falling in love fast doesnt necessarily mean good things. Of course i would want every couple to see a happy ending but most likely in this situation is when that aquarius dude has seen every side of OP, he might not get used to what he has imagined in his head, this is not rational thinking! & he might just disappear on her,

The thing is OP should just tell him outright has his clingy attitude is bothering you & he should go slower as well as giving you more space. I am not in any way discouraging OP from kmowing the guy but just advising her to be careful in her assessment ro prevent unnecessary disappointment.

I'm an aqua and have my cap venus and moon in my 5th house - I knew after the 2nd date that I wanted to be together and start growing together with my boyfriend.

If he would have acted all cautious etc it would have been a huge turn off and I wouldn't have been interested anymore. Because once you start intense with me then don't you dare back off and play that stupid "let's not hurry" game. It irritates my if you start intense and pull back - a no no for me.

we all know that love developes over time - there is nothing wrong to me when he exactly knows that he wants you as his girlfriend after day 2. how else are you supposed to really get to know eachother? my bf knew it on the first date that he wanted me and locked me down a week after - sometimes you just know. beside that you never know how it will play out in the end but you'll never know if you don't try and play guessing

i say go for it but please protect urself emotionally at all times. let him fall first and make him PROVE it
he is definitely telling you what you want to hear, but that doesnt mean its not genuine!
trust me if you can keep an aquarius interested for 5 hours straight of convo something is definitely there

im an aqua sun virgo moon and let me tell ya i fall in love quick but i fall out of love quick too

My dad is a Aqua sun, virgo moon and Aqua venus w Cap Mars....My dad is Aqua heavy. Aqua Sun/Merc/Venus/Jupiter/Saturn...but anyways it took him forever to date my mom he told me. He would just ask my mom's brother if he could come over to play cards, so he could look at her from a distance but never spoke to her. LOL. He was interested from the time he saw her but definitely initiated absolutely nothing in 2 days.

We still talk, he would text me details and pics of what he do or eat or whatever. Sometimes I'll just pretend that I'm busy because the texting or phone calls will take hours and I feel obligated, I'm chatty too, maybe that's why he likes me. He said " I LOVE talking to you, and I LOVE how open you are to me and how you made me open up to you" his exact text. And "but I'm taking your lead, because I can't rush things, right? I should go with the flow like you wanted". I asked him to not rush me because I'm feeling overwhelmed with all the attention he's giving me and I might not able to keep up the chatting everyday. When I pretend I'm busy I will take long to answer his text, then I will get bombarded with text until I respond. I just don't understand all the clingyness and attention that he's showing and the fact that he don't hesitate to share the personal things about him puzzles me. The first 5 hours of us talking he said I seem mysterious and I puzzle him. And he used to be reserved, cautious and logical, but he can't with me. I'm taking things slow with this guy, I'm not attracted but will see if he can change my mind.

Posted by WaterBearerer
i say go for it but please protect urself emotionally at all times. let him fall first and make him PROVE it
he is definitely telling you what you want to hear, but that doesnt mean its not genuine!
trust me if you can keep an aquarius interested for 5 hours straight of convo something is definitely there

im an aqua sun virgo moon and let me tell ya i fall in love quick but i fall out of love quick too

Good advice.
What's your venus waterbearer?

The texting and phone calls continues...he is really talking about his feelings for me but can't do anything because I already request to take things slow. He said "True love should begin with the most amazing friendship" "I just want someone to share my life with" "I wonder if you would hold it against me if I told u I had feelings before u were ready to hear it?" - this are just some samples of things that I'm getting from this Aqua and I don't know why he seems that he develop feelings that soon. On the phone he would say that in the first 5 hours that we talked he already knew he like me soooooo much(his words). What do you guys think with this Aqua? Is he real or just treetrunking me?

Do you think he's messing with you or do you think its genuine?

If that were me and I was looking outside the box , it would be sorta off, I would think he has some Attraction towards me and he does like me ,but logically we know nothing about each other , he hasn't seen your bad days and all your good days neither have you seen his,you haven't really experience anything but physical attraction ..atleast its what it sounds like to me..I couldn't love someone I know nothing about and if I did it would be a fabrication or a fantasy that isn't rewal...to me it sounds like he wants you physically not mentally..

But this is something I think you should decided if you want to pursue or not ..eventually he will come to terms with his true intentions they always do..

I get guys in my inbox like that telling me they love me and stuff moments later its flipped..trust your gut

*real

Then again he could just be a guy who puts his heart on his sleeve , he loves deep quickly ,I just wouldn't put any interest or emotions yet until you know more about him and what this is really about it takes patience and will power

I'm not putting interest on him, actually I'm not attracted to him, but he is nice to me. I haven't seen his good in bad side in person same as he haven't seen mine. But we both are so open to tell each other our good side and bad. He told me all the bad things of his past marriage and his past before his marriage and I told him some stuff about be good and bad. Though we haven't really see each other real attitude. He knew I'm not ready, we both came from a divorce, and he knows that I still wanna have fun and explore some things that I was deprived in my past marriage. I was being vocal with what I want and not want at this moment of my life and he is vocal with his intentions with me and he said he respect me if I'm not ready. I'm just confused with this Aqua behavior, because almost all the Aqua I read on here and other sites said they're afraid of commitment and they're detached.,but this one wants me to be in a commitment with him early on and he is no way detach..I'm actually being smothered.

If you ever get a chance to ask his birthday check out his birth chart and see what his Venus is in ...could explain the clingy I'm a sag but I have a lot of Capricorn and aqua in me explains my behavior in certain things..

I like an aqua who has tons of aqua in his chart ,his Venus is in aqua and he really is reserved in his emotions and doesn't really like hugging and stuff..

I looked up my dad's chart a pisces his Venus is Aquarius and he acts the same way I just realized it..my dad barely hugged me and showed any emotion and when he did ,its like you knew it was coming from a true place from him..

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Posted by WaterBearerer
i say go for it but please protect urself emotionally at all times. let him fall first and make him PROVE it
he is definitely telling you what you want to hear, but that doesnt mean its not genuine!
trust me if you can keep an aquarius interested for 5 hours straight of convo something is definitely there

im an aqua sun virgo moon and let me tell ya i fall in love quick but i fall out of love quick too

Good advice.
What's your venus waterbearer?

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capricorn

i fell in love right away with my first husband. INSTANT love at first sight.

felt the most deeply intense connection.

my current husband, i felt a long lost love has come back home to me and i loved him forever from a long past life.

i felt that deep intense connection.

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Posted by WaterBearerer
i say go for it but please protect urself emotionally at all times. let him fall first and make him PROVE it
he is definitely telling you what you want to hear, but that doesnt mean its not genuine!
trust me if you can keep an aquarius interested for 5 hours straight of convo something is definitely there

im an aqua sun virgo moon and let me tell ya i fall in love quick but i fall out of love quick too

Good advice.
What's your venus waterbearer?

capricorn

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Same chart as my guy. 🙂

I've met one aquarius in my life that exhibits this. Really really really really bothers the crap out of me *shrugs*

I have no idea how anyone aquarius or not can fall in love so quickly. You're either really fucking hot or there's something wrong with him lol.