how do aquarius men flirt? plz help! stange situ.

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by helenthelion on Friday, July 24, 2015 and has 34 replies.

Profile picture of helenthelion
@helenthelion
11 Years

Ok so im in a strange situation.... The man im with has a cousin who is aquarius. He comes over all the time and he loves to pick on me like a third grader lol. But i have a great sense of humor and enjoy our tit for tat banters. Sometimes we will text eachother funny things. Am i just a friend or does he feel a connection with me? But doesnt say anything bc im with his cousin?? Im a cancer but my venus is in gemini. Any help would be great

Profile picture of helenthelion
@helenthelion
11 Years

Sometimes ill text him because i do consider him my friend. Im simply asking to see whether or not he is flirting. Maybe he isnt and just sees me as a friend

Profile picture of helenthelion
@helenthelion
11 Years

No honestly i enjoy his friendship he is handsome but nothing would ever become of us simply bc of our situation. But he has been there when the man im with(sag/scorpi) has flipped out on me for no reason.

Profile picture of helenthelion
@helenthelion
11 Years

Aquapiecescusp. Do u know if his venus is only .23 degrees in pisces does that mean he loves like a pisces even though its not even a full degree in that sign or is he moe like a aqua

Profile picture of febaqua
@febaqua
12 YearsAquarius

We Aqua guys sometime confuse women that we are flirting. Its not the case. Sometimes, we are too good that we take friendship far too seriously. And then what your guy's cousin is doing is an example of what happens.

As long as you are okay with him texting and your guy likes and trusts you enough, rest assured things will turn out good.

Profile picture of aquasnoz
@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

pisces venus usually just love anything. To the point they don't even know what they are loving, they just do it.

Also no, I'd say as long as you don't entertain the idea, keeping it friendly, it won't escalate beyond that.

Profile picture of lisabethur8
@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by aquasnoz
pisces venus usually just love anything. To the point they don't even know what they are loving, they just do it.

Also no, I'd say as long as you don't entertain the idea, keeping it friendly, it won't escalate beyond that.

http://neptunes-aura-astrology.com/2014/05/25/venus-in-pisces-male/

Venus in Pisces male

Venus in Pisces needs a partner who is capable of giving their all to their relationship.

Venus in Pisces needs a partner with whom they can both strip away the layers of who they were until they find the real authentic self. They require a partner who is willing to go through this process with them, willing to let go of all the emotional baggage they hold as part of their bonding process they want to grow and evolve into their purest ideals as part of a couple. They are looking for someone who relates intuitive who connects on the deepest emotional levels and who is willing to strip away all the barriers they have erected and merge emotionally and spiritually. They require a lover that responds completely and intuitively on an emotional level.

Profile picture of lisabethur8
@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

since you're pisces venus/pisces mars (and i don't know what house)

Venus in Pisces Mars in Pisces,

needs a lover who is intuitive, sensitive, empathic, authentic, and very responsive to their expressions of affection. They are attracted to strong water in the natal chart. This is due to the need to express their deep sexual undercurrents with a partner who understands their need to merge as one. They need a partner who has a wide and varied experience in relationships. They are very adaptable in their sexual expression and prefer a partner with the same quality

from the site above.

Profile picture of lisabethur8
@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by helenthelion
Ok so im in a strange situation.... The man im with has a cousin who is aquarius. He comes over all the time and he loves to pick on me like a third grader lol. But i have a great sense of humor and enjoy our tit for tat banters. Sometimes we will text eachother funny things. Am i just a friend or does he feel a connection with me? But doesnt say anything bc im with his cousin?? Im a cancer but my venus is in gemini. Any help would be great

what's your chart?

water connects to water.....which is why.

Profile picture of aquasnoz
@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Yeah a wee bit like that.

Unfortunately this is where I have to say depending on other placements the tendency to 'swim away' or be fearful after that initial bonding fails, the aqua (or any sun sign with the placement) will just give up and brick themselves behind this way. I was like this and it's still hard not to just shut myself off.

I think too many people are afraid to express themselves emotionally (which I thought was always the norm) and it really scares some people at how open we can be when we do bond.

Profile picture of helenthelion
@helenthelion
11 Years

Heres something to add last night when he was hear i teased him after he made fun of me and i said "damn your gunna go home and dream about beating me up!"

Profile picture of helenthelion
@helenthelion
11 Years

Heres something to add last night when he was hear i teased him after he made fun of me and i said "damn your gunna go home and dream about beating me up!" he says "yeah but not with my fists lol jk" what the heck does that mean??

Profile picture of helenthelion
@helenthelion
11 Years

I get what you are saying. Its not something im proud of or happy about. Its one of those things that is number one a looonnngggg and complicated story and number 2 my heart working against my head.

Profile picture of helenthelion
@helenthelion
11 Years

Yes yes absolutely. Thats why i havent really said anything. Most of the time i just chuck everything up to being my friend. Its just sometimes i feel like hes flirting, like there is sexual tension there. But i dont think he nor i would ever act on in simply because of the situation.

Profile picture of aquarius09
@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by WaterBearerer
lol i think you secretly like this aqua guy cuz hes clearly not flirting with you

+1. Just to add, he's being a typical guy testing his boundaries/seeing how far he can take his cousin's gf. He probably wouldn't hook up with you because that means screwing his cousin/family/friend (?) over for a chick. If you leave his COUSIN for him, he will not respect you because:

a) it will cause some serious insecurities/judgement from him for you "what kind of girl is she? Left my cousinfor me and tomorrow will leave me for some next dude that flirts with her" or

b) out of respect and family relations with his cousin. He wouldn't want to alienate his family. If this cousin is also a friend to him, then he's definitely not trying to get with you because we aquas hold our family and friends in high regard. He's just having fun while seeing how far he can take you and YOUR expense.

Profile picture of Angmodurian
@Angmodurian
10 Years

Lol young aquarians better stay away unless they are mature enough to date. Hmm given that Aquarians eccentric nature hes probably not gonna settle down unless he is old enough or he found a woman he really love. I dont think its easy for them to find a woman who can accept their ever changing behavior haha, you have got to be really accomodative to do so but once they do Love, they are the most generous & loyal lover with full freedom for his other half due to the trust he has in you.

Everyone is different though as hes influenced by other stars & horoscopes but to make an aquarius fall in love with someone shouldnt be easy. Rarely find a woman that impresses me because we can see fake stuff & it really turns us off. Be aa NATURAL & aa real aa possible. Theres always 2 faces: social & real self. I can see genuine self amidst the smile, i dont know about others. If i see any discrepancy i am not gonn have gd feelings for u.

Profile picture of Angmodurian
@Angmodurian
10 Years

Oh i forget to mention Aquarians indeed flirt with all girls, somehow boost their ego because they can feel people like them so they wanna play with u a bit but not hurting u. He is gonna be considerate & stuff but its normal he should be like that to all people so do not misunderstood his intention for u unless your really sure haha. Anyway good luck to you, if you can catch him i think aquarians make a great partner. Good luck to you.

Profile picture of Scartooth11
@Scartooth11
10 Years

I think it's too hard to tell so fast if he didn't straight up say it. Keep him studying if you want his attention. Be a "little sister" if you wish to not for whatever other reason.