Aqua man tells me he is "going of the grid" to realign himself

Posted by bumboklatt
He's telling you to chill. Also he's testing to see if you're real and worth the love.

don't panic, just remember aquas are unpredictable

Posted by Aquascottish
He's took the time to tell you he's going off the grid I only do that for people I care about if I wanted you out my life for good I would cut you off and not say anything, I'm doing that just now with my aqua we are both aqua and he's giving me the time to deal with whatever issues I have since I need time to think, you should do the same but if it's for longer than 2 weeks move on I would say. It's already been a day I've not spoke to my aqua and I think I'm going to contact him tonight just had to get my feelings in order he's never been far from my thoughts.

Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist

but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...

love...reread....and I had actually asked before I even responded to him...I've never dealt with an aquarius and really like him and with me being a leo I know I'm quick fire so I get emotional quickly and just put everything on the table and didn't want to say the wrong thing and it be misconstrued on my part...especially since we were texting at this point and I know how text messages can come off and I do understand his logic because like I said I do the same thing when I need to go into myself and my thoughts but I'm a leo and he's anot aquarius and they are very peculiar...wanted to respond correctly...it's not that I didn't understand what he meant by him needingredients a moment to place his energy I just wanted to know based on their characteristics was it a brush off or does he really need a moment...and I did hear it directly from his lips...next time read and understand and not pick and choose something I said to requote....and this is a blog and message board right...where we can share questions and ideals...if you don't want to hear complete strangers ask other for advice on a social media sites then don't join one...be blessed

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist

but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...

So you were lying to him when you said you understood? Why lie though, why not just ask him to clarify what he meant instead of playing it off like it's cool and then running to dxp and asking total strangers to speculate when you could have heard it directly from his lips.

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
No i wasn't love...reread....and I had actually asked before I even responded to him...I've never dealt with an aquarius and really like him and with me being a leo I know I'm quick fire so I get emotional quickly and just put everything on the table and didn't want to say the wrong thing and it be misconstrued on my part...especially since we were texting at this point and I know how text messages can come off and I do understand his logic because like I said I do the same thing when I need to go into myself and my thoughts but I'm a leo and he's anot aquarius and they are very peculiar...wanted to respond correctly...it's not that I didn't understand what he meant by him needingredients a moment to place his energy I just wanted to know based on their characteristics was it a brush off or does he really need a moment...and I did hear it directly from his lips...next time read and understand and not pick and choose something I said to requote....and this is a blog and message board right...where we can share questions and ideals...if you don't want to hear complete strangers ask other for advice on a social media sites then don't join one...be blessed

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist

but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...

So you were lying to him when you said you understood? Why lie though, why not just ask him to clarify what he meant instead of playing it off like it's cool and then running to dxp and asking total strangers to speculate when you could have heard it directly from his lips.

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Posted by Tickosity
Ok, if I ever told a woman half of what he's told you, let alone offered to move to you, then I'd be completely yours. Don't push him. I know that if it was me that you had me hooked despite me 'going into my cocoon' and I'd only be doing that because I didn't want to expose you to what was going through my head because I cared so much that I would't want to affect you. I really don't think it's because of you really, he might need to get his feelings for you in order first but it's not because of you or anything you've done.I know when a woman gets to my feelings that it is difficult for me to adjust and get comfortable with my feelings. I know I did recently and I only told 2 people and they weren't my family, people I value and want to know that I'd be back and that it wasn't them.

Like I said earlier, if it was me the fact that I even told you any of this means that you are special to me and that I never want to hurt you. If I didn't care you'd never hear from me until I was ready to be social again. The only people I miss are those who have captured me, so I'm not surprised that he told you that. Obsessed with you and captured with your energy is a good thing, you were able to get past his barriers. At least from my perspective.

take your advice and do just that...practice patience

Posted by bumboklatt

Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I know they are so confusing but what I feel for him feels like it's worth my patience...he even told me be patient

Posted by bumboklatt
He's telling you to chill. Also he's testing to see if you're real and worth the love.

don't panic, just remember aquas are unpredictable

Yes confusing but the message is clear: Be patient for me and ill be patient for you

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ot lol that's why I hate not being able to speak lol I'm so direct I come off bitch via chat so I'm sorry if you took it that way not defensive at a

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
No i wasn't love...reread....and I had actually asked before I even responded to him...I've never dealt with an aquarius and really like him and with me being a leo I know I'm quick fire so I get emotional quickly and just put everything on the table and didn't want to say the wrong thing and it be misconstrued on my part...especially since we were texting at this point and I know how text messages can come off and I do understand his logic because like I said I do the same thing when I need to go into myself and my thoughts but I'm a leo and he's anot aquarius and they are very peculiar...wanted to respond correctly...it's not that I didn't understand what he meant by him needingredients a moment to place his energy I just wanted to know based on their characteristics was it a brush off or does he really need a moment...and I did hear it directly from his lips...next time read and understand and not pick and choose something I said to requote....and this is a blog and message board right...where we can share questions and ideals...if you don't want to hear complete strangers ask other for advice on a social media sites then don't join one...be blessed

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist

but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...

So you were lying to him when you said you understood? Why lie though, why not just ask him to clarify what he meant instead of playing it off like it's cool and then running to dxp and asking total strangers to speculate when you could have heard it directly from his lips.

Defensive and emotional much?

Only he knows whether or not its a brush off. Only time will tell that.

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Posted by dolluxe
I think it's so considerate and sweet of him to actually let you know. A lot of men would just disappear for a few days when they need space leaving their women hanging and confused.

Your man respects you and it sounds like he does care about you.

Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Thank you love I appreciate your input...me being a leo I get emotional quick and tend to over analyze and make it worse in my head than what it was....I kind of freaked a good bit because I saw a picture his ex posted with his dog with something she got the dog for christmas.... and the picture was inside his house so I was seriously on wtf mode lol but I had to pull the jealousy reins back lol...I was just wondering when he said he's not sure where it will go was that more because of the fact I'm moving or because he's still into his ex...

Posted by Tickosity
Ok, if I ever told a woman half of what he's told you, let alone offered to move to you, then I'd be completely yours. Don't push him. I know that if it was me that you had me hooked despite me 'going into my cocoon' and I'd only be doing that because I didn't want to expose you to what was going through my head because I cared so much that I would't want to affect you. I really don't think it's because of you really, he might need to get his feelings for you in order first but it's not because of you or anything you've done.I know when a woman gets to my feelings that it is difficult for me to adjust and get comfortable with my feelings. I know I did recently and I only told 2 people and they weren't my family, people I value and want to know that I'd be back and that it wasn't them.

Like I said earlier, if it was me the fact that I even told you any of this means that you are special to me and that I never want to hurt you. If I didn't care you'd never hear from me until I was ready to be social again. The only people I miss are those who have captured me, so I'm not surprised that he told you that. Obsessed with you and captured with your energy is a good thing, you were able to get past his barriers. At least from my perspective.

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e opposite sign of aquarius so in a weird way we match...I've heard from a few aquarians that it was a leo who knocked them off their feet and the same for leos...I've thought about it because ki am moving and I can't be selfish and this was set in stone before I met him and he let me know he doesnt.care about distance and just out the blue...he asked what would I say if he wanted to come to cali with me like out there together and I played it off like he was being funny because truthfully it floored me because I honestly think he was serious and crazy thing is I believe in fate.and destiny and the universe working how it does for a reason that I would've let him go with me...lol but I appreciate your well wishes...I hope it works for the best if not I'm glad to have just shared those moments with him

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Thank you love I appreciate your input...me being a leo I get emotional quick and tend to over analyze and make it worse in my head than what it was....I kind of freaked a good bit because I saw a picture his ex posted with his dog with something she got the dog for christmas.... and the picture was inside his house so I was seriously on wtf mode lol but I had to pull the jealousy reins back lol...I was just wondering when he said he's not sure where it will go was that more because of the fact I'm moving or because he's still into his ex...

Posted by Tickosity
Ok, if I ever told a woman half of what he's told you, let alone offered to move to you, then I'd be completely yours. Don't push him. I know that if it was me that you had me hooked despite me 'going into my cocoon' and I'd only be doing that because I didn't want to expose you to what was going through my head because I cared so much that I would't want to affect you. I really don't think it's because of you really, he might need to get his feelings for you in order first but it's not because of you or anything you've done.I know when a woman gets to my feelings that it is difficult for me to adjust and get comfortable with my feelings. I know I did recently and I only told 2 people and they weren't my family, people I value and want to know that I'd be back and that it wasn't them.

Like I said earlier, if it was me the fact that I even told you any of this means that you are special to me and that I never want to hurt you. If I didn't care you'd never hear from me until I was ready to be social again. The only people I miss are those who have captured me, so I'm not surprised that he told you that. Obsessed with you and captured with your energy is a good thing, you were able to get past his barriers. At least from my perspective.

I know this is probably going to sound horrible. However the only woman in almost 20 years who's gotten inside my shell was a Leo woman. It took her around a year for me to even let her in. The problems being that she was a coworker, married, and 11 years younger. So I can appreciate the Leo perspective a bit.

The fact that the photo was taken in his home could have been when she picked up the dog, obviously the dog is well loved. In me if I told you I didn't know where is was going to go it would be because I wouldn't want to lead you on if you were moving out for me. I wouldn't want to give you the wrong impression if things didn't work out, not that I was planning on them not working out. I always look forward to the future, for better or worse, and I'd rather give you the worst case instead of leading you on with the best case. This is especially true if I value you, it isn't that I don't want you to more that I don't want to mislead you and regret anything.

I'm not him however he's doing things I've done in the past and I feel like I can understand him. Please don't take me as the authority, I want you to have the best possible outcome and I don't see anything with what he's done to make me believe that he's upset with you. Quite the contrary, if I did anything like he's done that would mean that I'm yours. I really am hoping the best for you.

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hat with aquarians so much and what's funny is with me being his opposite zodiac I'm more like no no tell me how you're feeling now before I die!!! Not literally but that's just the high strung leo in me lol I understand everything you're saying because it sounds about right...it was intense I could tell the last night we spent together a few days ago he was talking to me about how our meeting and our vibe and energy is so much more than henough expected it to be and he's just like whoa...he did say his feelings and the fact heshe not sure where it's going is part of the reason for him going into exile a few days...I'm just going to give him his space...it might suck at first but truthfully I have a sense of calm...I can feel him and his energy around me...it's soothing...so I actually feel like I'll be okay with it and hope for the best when he resurfaces

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I have an aquarius man I met and started dating....everything was explosive his intelligence and mind lured me in...we spend hours on the phone...when I say hours 7 to 8 hours...when we spend time together it's amazing...but as of late the past few days he's been off and I thought it had to do with his ex and although we have been talking everyday it's nowhere near as deep and connecting as before...today he texts me and says he will be going off the grid for a few days because he is off center and needs to realign...said he didn't want me to think he was distancing himself or avoiding me and I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist but I like clarity and asked should I put my feelings I have developed to the side he asked what I meant by that and said the interest is still there on his end and he has developed feelings too...it's just they aren't as "there" to me as before...he's already expressed STRONG feelings but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...

Don't take it to heart. He's probably feeling overwhelmed by the intensity. Us Aquarians like to go through cooling off periods, not because we don't care, it's because we do. It's hard to understand if your not one of us but basically when I do something like that it's because I want to regain my composure. I don't want to be overwhelmed with feelings because then I'll just end up with a broken heart. The intensity between you was very fast and consuming, something he probably wasn't expecting and his mind hasn't processed yet. So he's stepping back to align his emotions to his logic. To see where his heart and mind stand. If you keep your distance and give him that space...he will love and respect you because you didn't pressure him to 'open up' about what's going on. When he realizes that your out on your own and doing your thing, he'll come around to see where you been. Aquarius don't like to be ignored or forgotten.

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o to the bone...we are exact opposites and yes you're correct we love to have constant admiration...I hate to admit that lol but we get worried and those insecurities shine through when we don't feel that consistency...he didn't just fall off and then respond with his statement we had been chatting all day and he told me that yesterday and we talked a bit and I said okay...I'm just going to let it ride...he told me don't stop my feelings from growing because his interest is still there so I'll see what happens...

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
When I asked him were we okay and if i should push my feelings to the side he was like no because the interest is still there...I told him I felt he was going through something and I understood his logic because I do the same sometimes...he replied that he had feelings for me but where it will go he's unsure alms that's part of the reason he's going into his cocoon to figure things out said he's feeling himself going through a change and needs to be clear on the energy he is feeling...I just told him I'm here and as long as it doesn't effect where we are then I'm good...he said he just didn't want me to think he's distancing himself...lay time we spent time together it was so amazing just like everytime we are together...our energy is amazing beyond the spectrum actually but I think what it is with him is that I'm moving from georgia to cali in march and he said he doesn't care about distance and asked could he come...he's sent me poems we have spent upwards of 8 hours on the phone multiple times...the way he states at me and holds me...he told me I feel like comfort and love...I think I'm falling for him but just worried he's still into his ex and his feelings for me are confusing him...

Are you a Leo? Because if you are this would explain the insecurity ^^. It's common in Leo/Aqua relationships. Leo I was talking to also had doubts about me and my ex.

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist

but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...

So you were lying to him when you said you understood? Why lie though, why not just ask him to clarify what he meant instead of playing it off like it's cool and then running to dxp and asking total strangers to speculate when you could have heard it directly from his lips.

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is he's such a great guy I couldn't be mean if I wanted too I only bite when provoked...other than that I'm a baby kitten...and I don't like to hurt...what stood out to me with what you said was that you don't want to get your heart broken...I understand the logic but to my leo mind it feels like you're saying let me not let this feeling make me feel good let me take it in doses so I won't give too much of myself because they will just hurt me anyway...I want to feel that intensity why does that bother aquarians as far as letting feelings take over you...if I make you feel like you're in a dream and the feeling is mutual why step back from it even if only temporarily

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Don't take it to heart. He's probably feeling overwhelmed by the intensity. Us Aquarians like to go through cooling off periods, not because we don't care, it's because we do. It's hard to understand if your not one of us but basically when I do something like that it's because I want to regain my composure. I don't want to be overwhelmed with feelings because then I'll just end up with a broken heart. The intensity between you was very fast and consuming, something he probably wasn't expecting and his mind hasn't processed yet. So he's stepping back to align his emotions to his logic. To see where his heart and mind stand. If you keep your distance and give him that space...he will love and respect you because you didn't pressure him to 'open up' about what's going on. When he realizes that your out on your own and doing your thing, he'll come around to see where you been. Aquarius don't like to be ignored or forgotten.

Yes, try and not make the mistake that Leos tend to do and say hurtful things to your Aquarian. I have this problem with the Leo in my life which is why I decided to cut him out. Haven't spoken to him since Sunday... oh well.

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Yes ma'am leo to the bone...we are exact opposites and yes you're correct we love to have constant admiration...I hate to admit that lol but we get worried and those insecurities shine through when we don't feel that consistency...he didn't just fall off and then respond with his statement we had been chatting all day and he told me that yesterday and we talked a bit and I said okay...I'm just going to let it ride...he told me don't stop my feelings from growing because his interest is still there so I'll see what happens...

Just be patient my dear Leo. Because that's all we need. Aquarians don't say things just because. If he says he has feelings...he MEANS it. I don't say things unless I feel them. And Leos are the ONLY ones in the zodiac who can truly get to our hearts. You suckers are special as fck. Hate to admit it. But the ardent Lion can turn this Ice Queen's heart into mush. Which is why I think he needs time to understand this. Because I went through it. Never experienced true love until I met the Leo in my life.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
To the op, you don't have to cut your losses just yet but I would take a step back, do not ask him about feelings and all that.

Do not contact him until he contacts you first, i mean he needs the break right?

He is possibly very interested and is scared of his emotions or he's not interested as much anymore. Regardless, watch what he does next and that should explain more. Just sit back and do your own thing.

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist

but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...

So you were lying to him when you said you understood? Why lie though, why not just ask him to clarify what he meant instead of playing it off like it's cool and then running to dxp and asking total strangers to speculate when you could have heard it directly from his lips.

Nothing wrong with getting other people's perspectives, we learn through communication.

I say ask away..., if we were all perfectly programmed, we wouldn't need much.

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Funny thing is he's such a great guy I couldn't be mean if I wanted too I only bite when provoked...other than that I'm a baby kitten...and I don't like to hurt...what stood out to me with what you said was that you don't want to get your heart broken...I understand the logic but to my leo mind it feels like you're saying let me not let this feeling make me feel good let me take it in doses so I won't give too much of myself because they will just hurt me anyway...I want to feel that intensity why does that bother aquarians as far as letting feelings take over you...if I make you feel like you're in a dream and the feeling is mutual why step back from it even if only temporarily

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Don't take it to heart. He's probably feeling overwhelmed by the intensity. Us Aquarians like to go through cooling off periods, not because we don't care, it's because we do. It's hard to understand if your not one of us but basically when I do something like that it's because I want to regain my composure. I don't want to be overwhelmed with feelings because then I'll just end up with a broken heart. The intensity between you was very fast and consuming, something he probably wasn't expecting and his mind hasn't processed yet. So he's stepping back to align his emotions to his logic. To see where his heart and mind stand. If you keep your distance and give him that space...he will love and respect you because you didn't pressure him to 'open up' about what's going on. When he realizes that your out on your own and doing your thing, he'll come around to see where you been. Aquarius don't like to be ignored or forgotten.

Yes, try and not make the mistake that Leos tend to do and say hurtful things to your Aquarian. I have this problem with the Leo in my life which is why I decided to cut him out. Haven't spoken to him since Sunday... oh well.

I told you I asked him the questions I wanted to know as to what to do with my feelings....i.e should I cut my losses and he told me know because he still has interest and feelings for me

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist

but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...

So you were lying to him when you said you understood? Why lie though, why not just ask him to clarify what he meant instead of playing it off like it's cool and then running to dxp and asking total strangers to speculate when you could have heard it directly from his lips.

Nothing wrong with getting other people's perspectives, we learn through communication.

I say ask away..., if we were all perfectly programmed, we wouldn't need much.

Sure... but why lie and say one thing when your actually feeling another. Communication is so important in relationships and she missed an opportunity to bond with him by not being forthcoming.

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ave to really not like you to come out biting and clawing....and I think I evoke and awaken something in him and it bothers him...I don't think he expected it to be that strong....and you say why open yourself just to get hurt I ask why do you feel everyone will break your heart....I think the intimacy got to him too...he says he loves it and has proved it tenfold...the first date set that bar...after dinner We played chess for like 3 hours and talked hours after that we danced and he washed and massaged my feet and calfs....I work on my feet all day....and he just held me and kissed me the whole night...and our interactions and conversations up to the point of our first real date was amazing...so I'm hoping he's not to afraid and just falls back and away...like the feeling is too good to be true

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Funny thing is he's such a great guy I couldn't be mean if I wanted too I only bite when provoked...other than that I'm a baby kitten...and I don't like to hurt...what stood out to me with what you said was that you don't want to get your heart broken...I understand the logic but to my leo mind it feels like you're saying let me not let this feeling make me feel good let me take it in doses so I won't give too much of myself because they will just hurt me anyway...I want to feel that intensity why does that bother aquarians as far as letting feelings take over you...if I make you feel like you're in a dream and the feeling is mutual why step back from it even if only temporarily

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Don't take it to heart. He's probably feeling overwhelmed by the intensity. Us Aquarians like to go through cooling off periods, not because we don't care, it's because we do. It's hard to understand if your not one of us but basically when I do something like that it's because I want to regain my composure. I don't want to be overwhelmed with feelings because then I'll just end up with a broken heart. The intensity between you was very fast and consuming, something he probably wasn't expecting and his mind hasn't processed yet. So he's stepping back to align his emotions to his logic. To see where his heart and mind stand. If you keep your distance and give him that space...he will love and respect you because you didn't pressure him to 'open up' about what's going on. When he realizes that your out on your own and doing your thing, he'll come around to see where you been. Aquarius don't like to be ignored or forgotten.

Yes, try and not make the mistake that Leos tend to do and say hurtful things to your Aquarian. I have this problem with the Leo in my life which is why I decided to cut him out. Haven't spoken to him since Sunday... oh well.

For me I don't like to be that vulnerable. I've been there and gotten hurt way too many times. Logically why open yourself up to hurt if you don't have to? I understand that is the only way to love however not everyone understands that yet. It took a Leo to show me that by the way. And all Leos I've been in close contact with have been total sweethearts, so I don't know about biting unless you really don't like him.

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
But I did...I told you I asked him the questions I wanted to know as to what to do with my feelings....i.e should I cut my losses and he told me know because he still has interest and feelings for me

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist

but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...

So you were lying to him when you said you understood? Why lie though, why not just ask him to clarify what he meant instead of playing it off like it's cool and then running to dxp and asking total strangers to speculate when you could have heard it directly from his lips.

Nothing wrong with getting other people's perspectives, we learn through communication.

I say ask away..., if we were all perfectly programmed, we wouldn't need much.

Sure... but why lie and say one thing when your actually feeling another. Communication is so important in relationships and she missed an opportunity to bond with him by not being forthcoming.

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you had to go through that love because heartbreak especially but someone you felt that soul tie love for is a horrible feeling...we do wear our hearts on our sleeves and maybe me being an end of July leo being my bday is on the 28th I actually hold on to people...I may never speak to them but they are hard to truly let go which is why we may pop back up every now and again because we miss you and crave you and want to be with you but our pride keeps us from saying that and admitting wrong because we are worried of your response and reaction and that you may have moved on...my heart feels so deeply I try my best not to hurt anyone because I believe in karma being full circle and it will come back to me...I've met the most hell with libras my ex of 6 years was a library and boy oh boy heartbreak city.... and as far as not used to being treated so well I can understand and agree to that...the fact that sleds wear their hearts on their sleeves is what gets us hurt so very often and leos love HARD so if we put our all into someone and get hurt when a good man/woman comes along we are so used to possibly being hurt we tend to sabotage which is why I could understand your logic in saying why let it overwhelm you if yourequired just going to wind up heartbroken...I do hate you experienced that with a leo not to take up for him but he must've been hurt bad to hurt you...if you're anything like my aquarius I don't see how it's possible to hurt you...

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Funny thing is he's such a great guy I couldn't be mean if I wanted too I only bite when provoked...other than that I'm a baby kitten...and I don't like to hurt...what stood out to me with what you said was that you don't want to get your heart broken...I understand the logic but to my leo mind it feels like you're saying let me not let this feeling make me feel good let me take it in doses so I won't give too much of myself because they will just hurt me anyway...I want to feel that intensity why does that bother aquarians as far as letting feelings take over you...if I make you feel like you're in a dream and the feeling is mutual why step back from it even if only temporarily

I can't tell you why he does that but I know I made the mistake of opening my heart to the Leo in my life and he hurt me. Really bad. I don't think he was accustomed to having someone in his life treat him so well. Because he came back and basically gave me his version of an apology. He took me for granted and he deeply wounded me. Like I said in my previous post, Leo is the only man in my life who's had my heart. He is my one true love. I know he is my soulmate. Am I his? probably not...idk. But I can tell you is that because he's so close to my heart, which I guard very much, to have him wound it...it's devastating.

I know you don't understand because Leos wear their hearts on their sleeves. Aquarians do NOT. We have them locked away deep within ourselves. Only special people are allowed access. The reason for that is because we do love DEEPLY. It takes us a while to fall in love but that only makes it harder to FORGET you and take you out. This is why we are very guarded. Leos can up and leave and move on to another relationship like if we didn't matter. Us Aquarians....not as easy. And to let someone like him in, only to wound it, was utterly devastating to say the least. It left me in shambles. I NEVER experienced this with my Aries ex despite the 10 years of hurt and abuse. And i was in love with my ex Aries. But the Leo is truly special. So I won't make that same mistake again. which is why I'm keeping my emotional distance.

This is why I warn you not to wound him. sounds like you're in or at least almost there. Don't make the same mistake the Leo in my life did.

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and your issue love...I've been hurt immensely and what sucks is deep down I'm afraid to find that love of a lifetime because I feel I will push them away feeling it's too good to be true and figure the hurt is coming soon so I might as well back away now and save myself the pain...and you're also right in how women are sensitive and feel more...we're built that way men are more physical and logical and women are mental and emotional....I just wish I could be the Leo I am and dive deeper in his mind with questions...and I just hope when he comes back he's ready to pick back up where we left off...it's hard not contacting him and seeing his posts on facebook...he's an artist so he has been posting painting and pieces he doestrogen pushing his brand he's put new work up and I've likedone a few and it just sucks cause it's like he's so close but so far away...part of me wants to stop posting and go into radio silence

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I'm so sorry you had to go through that love because heartbreak especially but someone you felt that soul tie love for is a horrible feeling...we do wear our hearts on our sleeves and maybe me being an end of July leo being my bday is on the 28th I actually hold on to people...I may never speak to them but they are hard to truly let go which is why we may pop back up every now and again because we miss you and crave you and want to be with you but our pride keeps us from saying that and admitting wrong because we are worried of your response and reaction and that you may have moved on...my heart feels so deeply I try my best not to hurt anyone because I believe in karma being full circle and it will come back to me...I've met the most hell with libras my ex of 6 years was a library and boy oh boy heartbreak city.... and as far as not used to being treated so well I can understand and agree to that...the fact that sleds wear their hearts on their sleeves is what gets us hurt so very often and leos love HARD so if we put our all into someone and get hurt when a good man/woman comes along we are so used to possibly being hurt we tend to sabotage which is why I could understand your logic in saying why let it overwhelm you if yourequired just going to wind up heartbroken...I do hate you experienced that with a leo not to take up for him but he must've been hurt bad to hurt you...if you're anything like my aquarius I don't see how it's possible to hurt you...

I feel like women are much softer and humbler than guys in general which makes it tougher on us. But the Aqua/Leo push/pull dynamic is still there regardless. It's a hate/love relationship where we bring the best and the worst in each other. But we're both loyal to a fault and we do love as hard equally. I think this is why we're drawn to each other. All fixed signs believe in loyalty and love until the end. Which is why it's hard for us to move on when we find that one person we 'believed' was the one. When they don't share that same belief it's devastating because their true natures come to light. Aries broke my heart numerous times despite him loving me and worshiping the ground I walk on. Leo doesn't do that but I know he's loving, faithful, honest, and most importantly LOYAL.

He has been hurt before. His ex cheated on him and humiliated him as well. So it left him pretty devastated. Which is why i tried to be even more loving and understanding. I did my best to treat him well but he would push me away when I would get too close. Thing is he still does it at times. I love this man so much but I can't keep putting myself through this. Which is why I don't vocalize my feelings anymore. Because I don't want to end up hurt again and I feel like that in turn hurts him. Honestly, the fear of being hurt, fear of what will be said, fear of the other person not feeling the same is what I feel is what's holding us back.

Battle of the egos vs Battle of our hearts.

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and your issue love...I've been hurt immensely and what sucks is deep down I'm afraid to find that love of a lifetime because I feel I will push them away feeling it's too good to be true and figure the hurt is coming soon so I might as well back away now and save myself the pain...and you're also right in how women are sensitive and feel more...we're built that way men are more physical and logical and women are mental and emotional....I just wish I could be the Leo I am and dive deeper in his mind with questions...and I just hope when he comes back he's ready to pick back up where we left off...it's hard not contacting him and seeing his posts on facebook...he's an artist so he has been posting painting and pieces he doestrogen pushing his brand he's put new work up and I've likedone a few and it just sucks cause it's like he's so close but so far away...part of me wants to stop posting and go into radio silence

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I'm so sorry you had to go through that love because heartbreak especially but someone you felt that soul tie love for is a horrible feeling...we do wear our hearts on our sleeves and maybe me being an end of July leo being my bday is on the 28th I actually hold on to people...I may never speak to them but they are hard to truly let go which is why we may pop back up every now and again because we miss you and crave you and want to be with you but our pride keeps us from saying that and admitting wrong because we are worried of your response and reaction and that you may have moved on...my heart feels so deeply I try my best not to hurt anyone because I believe in karma being full circle and it will come back to me...I've met the most hell with libras my ex of 6 years was a library and boy oh boy heartbreak city.... and as far as not used to being treated so well I can understand and agree to that...the fact that sleds wear their hearts on their sleeves is what gets us hurt so very often and leos love HARD so if we put our all into someone and get hurt when a good man/woman comes along we are so used to possibly being hurt we tend to sabotage which is why I could understand your logic in saying why let it overwhelm you if yourequired just going to wind up heartbroken...I do hate you experienced that with a leo not to take up for him but he must've been hurt bad to hurt you...if you're anything like my aquarius I don't see how it's possible to hurt you...

I feel like women are much softer and humbler than guys in general which makes it tougher on us. But the Aqua/Leo push/pull dynamic is still there regardless. It's a hate/love relationship where we bring the best and the worst in each other. But we're both loyal to a fault and we do love as hard equally. I think this is why we're drawn to each other. All fixed signs believe in loyalty and love until the end. Which is why it's hard for us to move on when we find that one person we 'believed' was the one. When they don't share that same belief it's devastating because their true natures come to light. Aries broke my heart numerous times despite him loving me and worshiping the ground I walk on. Leo doesn't do that but I know he's loving, faithful, honest, and most importantly LOYAL.

He has been hurt before. His ex cheated on him and humiliated him as well. So it left him pretty devastated. Which is why i tried to be even more loving and understanding. I did my best to treat him well but he would push me away when I would get too close. Thing is he still does it at times. I love this man so much but I can't keep putting myself through this. Which is why I don't vocalize my feelings anymore. Because I don't want to end up hurt again and I feel like that in turn hurts him. Honestly, the fear of being hurt, fear of what will be said, fear of the other person not feeling the same is what I feel is what's holding us back.

Battle of the egos vs Battle of our hearts.

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
I so understand your issue love...I've been hurt immensely and what sucks is deep down I'm afraid to find that love of a lifetime because I feel I will push them away feeling it's too good to be true and figure the hurt is coming soon so I might as well back away now and save myself the pain...and you're also right in how women are sensitive and feel more...we're built that way men are more physical and logical and women are mental and emotional....I just wish I could be the Leo I am and dive deeper in his mind with questions...and I just hope when he comes back he's ready to pick back up where we left off...it's hard not contacting him and seeing his posts on facebook...he's an artist so he has been posting painting and pieces he doestrogen pushing his brand he's put new work up and I've likedone a few and it just sucks cause it's like he's so close but so far away...part of me wants to stop posting and go into radio silence

I would logout and go silent. I had to do that to keep away from the temptation of contacting him. I went as far as blocking his number. I just wish my heart could move on. The thing is I know he will always be the one and only who is my true love. I don't think I can truly love anyone else like I do him. ? and it hurts because my Aquarian logic couldn't comprehend this. Even when I was with my ex Aries, I was always ready to walk away. It hurt for a bit but I knew I was going to survive. I couldn't understand why it was so easy to leave. I met the Leo in my life and I truly understand now. He has done what no one else has. You know what truly sucks too? The fact that he knows I'm the 'best thing that has happened to him' (his words not mine) yet he still pushes me away. What you said about personally sabotaging relationships, he's admitted to doing this (not with me) with other people. But I know he's doing it with me too. His logic is because he doesn't want to get too attached. Stupid, stupid, stupid!

He's going to lose me... if he doesn't get his sh#t together. **OP feel free to PM me. Don't feel like posting on here where the whole world can see**

Mucho love -- Aqua baby.

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pet me click on the message lol I enabled the messages but it won't let me open....sidenote my aqua contacted me...yesterday was the first day we didn't speak....he liked one of my posts about love then messages me and let me know I crossed his mind and I asked him what about me crossed his mind and he was like just you...I told him I was thinking of him too which was true so it was weird he message me mid thought lol but I just told him I liked the art he posted yesterday and I hoped he was well and smiling...I guess that's a good thing he could only go a day with no contact right?

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I so understand your issue love...I've been hurt immensely and what sucks is deep down I'm afraid to find that love of a lifetime because I feel I will push them away feeling it's too good to be true and figure the hurt is coming soon so I might as well back away now and save myself the pain...and you're also right in how women are sensitive and feel more...we're built that way men are more physical and logical and women are mental and emotional....I just wish I could be the Leo I am and dive deeper in his mind with questions...and I just hope when he comes back he's ready to pick back up where we left off...it's hard not contacting him and seeing his posts on facebook...he's an artist so he has been posting painting and pieces he doestrogen pushing his brand he's put new work up and I've likedone a few and it just sucks cause it's like he's so close but so far away...part of me wants to stop posting and go into radio silence

I would logout and go silent. I had to do that to keep away from the temptation of contacting him. I went as far as blocking his number. I just wish my heart could move on. The thing is I know he will always be the one and only who is my true love. I don't think I can truly love anyone else like I do him. ? and it hurts because my Aquarian logic couldn't comprehend this. Even when I was with my ex Aries, I was always ready to walk away. It hurt for a bit but I knew I was going to survive. I couldn't understand why it was so easy to leave. I met the Leo in my life and I truly understand now. He has done what no one else has. You know what truly sucks too? The fact that he knows I'm the 'best thing that has happened to him' (his words not mine) yet he still pushes me away. What you said about personally sabotaging relationships, he's admitted to doing this (not with me) with other people. But I know he's doing it with me too. His logic is because he doesn't want to get too attached. Stupid, stupid, stupid!

He's going to lose me... if he doesn't get his sh#t together. **OP feel free to PM me. Don't feel like posting on here where the whole world can see**

Mucho love -- Aqua baby.

Click on my profile and then go to message user. Make sure you enables private messages in your settings.

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frustrated lol omg I think it's just my phone but I have a galaxy edge s7 it's not letting me open and I've enabled twice...sheesh...do you have an fb and I was hoping it would mean something I hate I smiled so much when he popped up because I was thinking of him at that very moment lol

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Omg it won't pet me click on the message lol I enabled the messages but it won't let me open....sidenote my aqua contacted me...yesterday was the first day we didn't speak....he liked one of my posts about love then messages me and let me know I crossed his mind and I asked him what about me crossed his mind and he was like just you...I told him I was thinking of him too which was true so it was weird he message me mid thought lol but I just told him I liked the art he posted yesterday and I hoped he was well and smiling...I guess that's a good thing he could only go a day with no contact right?

I don't think you have messages enabled because I sent you a message. Go to settings - private messages settings - click on receive from all - update. It should work then.

The fact he texted you and told you he was thinking of you is huge. I only say that because I mean it. 🙂

He may not be vocal about his true feelings 100% but he is showing you that you mean something to him.

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Posted by Aquascottish
He's took the time to tell you he's going off the grid I only do that for people I care about if I wanted you out my life for good I would cut you off and not say anything, I'm doing that just now with my aqua we are both aqua and he's giving me the time to deal with whatever issues I have since I need time to think, you should do the same but if it's for longer than 2 weeks move on I would say. It's already been a day I've not spoke to my aqua and I think I'm going to contact him tonight just had to get my feelings in order he's never been far from my thoughts.

d an update in the comments...tell me what you think...sorry to be so analysis about it but I really like this guy lol

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Posted by Paradoxical_leo
Thank you love I appreciate your input...me being a leo I get emotional quick and tend to over analyze and make it worse in my head than what it was....I kind of freaked a good bit because I saw a picture his ex posted with his dog with something she got the dog for christmas.... and the picture was inside his house so I was seriously on wtf mode lol but I had to pull the jealousy reins back lol...I was just wondering when he said he's not sure where it will go was that more because of the fact I'm moving or because he's still into his ex...

Posted by Tickosity
Ok, if I ever told a woman half of what he's told you, let alone offered to move to you, then I'd be completely yours. Don't push him. I know that if it was me that you had me hooked despite me 'going into my cocoon' and I'd only be doing that because I didn't want to expose you to what was going through my head because I cared so much that I would't want to affect you. I really don't think it's because of you really, he might need to get his feelings for you in order first but it's not because of you or anything you've done.I know when a woman gets to my feelings that it is difficult for me to adjust and get comfortable with my feelings. I know I did recently and I only told 2 people and they weren't my family, people I value and want to know that I'd be back and that it wasn't them.

Like I said earlier, if it was me the fact that I even told you any of this means that you are special to me and that I never want to hurt you. If I didn't care you'd never hear from me until I was ready to be social again. The only people I miss are those who have captured me, so I'm not surprised that he told you that. Obsessed with you and captured with your energy is a good thing, you were able to get past his barriers. At least from my perspective.

I know this is probably going to sound horrible. However the only woman in almost 20 years who's gotten inside my shell was a Leo woman. It took her around a year for me to even let her in. The problems being that she was a coworker, married, and 11 years younger. So I can appreciate the Leo perspective a bit.

The fact that the photo was taken in his home could have been when she picked up the dog, obviously the dog is well loved. In me if I told you I didn't know where is was going to go it would be because I wouldn't want to lead you on if you were moving out for me. I wouldn't want to give you the wrong impression if things didn't work out, not that I was planning on them not working out. I always look forward to the future, for better or worse, and I'd rather give you the worst case instead of leading you on with the best case. This is especially true if I value you, it isn't that I don't want you to more that I don't want to mislead you and regret anything.

I'm not him however he's doing things I've done in the past and I feel like I can understand him. Please don't take me as the authority, I want you to have the best possible outcome and I don't see anything with what he's done to make me believe that he's upset with you. Quite the contrary, if I did anything like he's done that would mean that I'm yours. I really am hoping the best for you.

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