aqua man throws a curve on our fwb situation...

So he has be gone for 2 weeks and last night we talked about seeing each other. He couldnt wait to see me and we were both horny.. we talked really freaky on the phone. So the next morning i texted him to tell him i was making weekend plans and i wanted to know if we were going to hang out or were we just fucking..
So about 8hrs later he replys.. " i am not known to just fuck,i dont like how that question sounds,and i guess i am not a fan of what we are doing' i wish u would have noy called it what it is".. what— We have been just fucking... so why back off when he see's it in writting? It was dissspointing because i know myself i was settling because i wanted a relationship and he wanted to continue to date around.. so i am like cool ill fuck with him until i find someone who is actually trying to pursue a relationship...so he was like when a person is with me they arre not settling... well i am not with him so yes i settled. I guess the lesson i learned is to not settle this is what happens.. just three me off one min we were making plans to get ot in and the next min we call it quits.... he says i am not thst type of guy i am a one women man and i make love.. so i just said iy was nice meeting u and good luck... oh well....he was a great guy.. that just was a huge curve ball...of course there is more to this story.. this is just the surface.... thoughts plz

This is why men suck.

They don't want a relationship yet when you use them for sex they don't like it.

Losers.


Maybe the way you worded the txt was too obvious? Sometimes I think in these fwb situations people like to make it seem there is at least a "little" more connection then just plain physical.


Whenever I am I try to make them feel not so " wham bam " even though that is really all I see. Just so they won't leave.


Or maybe he found someone else? Since you said he was dating around?



I don't know..but my bet he was offend by how your text was... I have had that happen.


Either way sorry you lost your "buddy" lol 🙂

if you just used this nice guy for his dick the whole time, why do you give a shit?

He offended me by expecting me to create a fantasy... we were fucking and i called it as it was.if he found sum1 else thats cool it would have been alot simpler for hin to just say that because i understood the boundaries... or he didnt have to say anything at all.. i would have moved on... just venting. This is why i perfer my silver bullet because it does the job and i dony have to worry about childish men...

He offended me by expecting me to create a fantasy... we were fucking and i called it as it was.if he found sum1 else thats cool it would have been alot simpler for hin to just say that because i understood the boundaries... or he didnt have to say anything at all.. i would have moved on... just venting. This is why i perfer my silver bullet because it does the job and i dony have to worry about childish men...

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I've just thought of something a bit mean but funny.
If you're bored with an FWB just tell them 'I love you' lol, soon get rid of them that way.
Don't do it while slipping them the length though.

Hahaha right!

1. Men can't stand the idea of anybody other than them using someone for sex. They think only men can do this & be comfortable with it. They can't understand that women do it too...probably more than they do

2. He's like alot of guys in that he doesn't like "titles" on things. He doesn't mind acting it out behaviorally, but he conveinantly decides to mind when his actions are spelled out in words. It's not that what you said didn't make sense. No, he's in denial

3. Being a 1-woman-man only makes sense if we're talking in terms of relationships. Just like "fidelity/monogamy" only applies when there's actually a relationship. He's not in a relationship with anyone so his theory doesn't even make sense

4. Atleast you're being honest with yourself in that you're settling. He knows by now if you're someone he can see himself with long term, so if he hasn't made that move yet, he probably won't.

I don't blaim you. You were just calling it out like it was...no sugar-coating...no buttered up words to make the situation sound more innocent than it really is...

Trust me, he doesn't have a problem with only having sex with you b/c if he did, the actions of doing so would bother him moreso than the words/title of doing so would

hey krysrenee.. what happened to that libra guy you were seeing? or are you seeing a gemini now? aries maybe?
most of you aquarius girls use men for sex so okay. Whoopty-Doo!! You're more of a slore than most signs.
But look at the bright side, at least you're somewhat being real about your slorish tendencies.

It might as well be. Idk the slores is out. They out here baby. It's a pandemic.

Im bout to go to a party later tonight.. a lotta hoes, lotta sour, lotta henny.. It's #Sloreturday

Posted by virtuousvirgo83
So he has be gone for 2 weeks and last night we talked about seeing each other. He couldnt wait to see me and we were both horny.. we talked really freaky on the phone. So the next morning i texted him to tell him i was making weekend plans and i wanted to know if we were going to hang out or were we just fucking..
So about 8hrs later he replys.. " i am not known to just fuck,i dont like how that question sounds,and i guess i am not a fan of what we are doing' i wish u would have noy called it what it is".. what— We have been just fucking... so why back off when he see's it in writting? It was dissspointing because i know myself i was settling because i wanted a relationship and he wanted to continue to date around.. so i am like cool ill fuck with him until i find someone who is actually trying to pursue a relationship...so he was like when a person is with me they arre not settling... well i am not with him so yes i settled. I guess the lesson i learned is to not settle this is what happens.. just three me off one min we were making plans to get ot in and the next min we call it quits.... he says i am not thst type of guy i am a one women man and i make love.. so i just said iy was nice meeting u and good luck... oh well....he was a great guy.. that just was a huge curve ball...of course there is more to this story.. this is just the surface.... thoughts plz

they don't like it when you're real. you're supposed to be the sap pining for the girlfriend title whilst he gets his nuts wet; nevermind having the audacity to voice the reality of the situation. you took it a step too far.

next time read love poetry down the phone to him while he tells you all the reasons he's 'not ready to be in a relationship', 'doesn't know what he wants', 'getting over his ex', etfuckingc.

lol yipee?? do you say that in real life?

amazing

yipeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DazedScorp
Do you pronunciate "#" irl?

Does real life constitute tweeting while socialising ? 🙂

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you honestly made me laugh right there.. and yes that counts.

Posted by DazedScorp
Do you pronunciate "#" irl?

who pronounces that?
I feel like yur insulting my intelligence. Im not that smart but still lol rreally dude??

Posted by AybLynk
hey krysrenee.. what happened to that libra guy you were seeing? or are you seeing a gemini now? aries maybe?
most of you aquarius girls use men for sex so okay. Whoopty-Doo!! You're more of a slore than most signs.
But look at the bright side, at least you're somewhat being real about your slorish tendencies.

The fact that you don't know the answer to that question suggests that you oughta shut your mouth & not speak on things you know nothing about.

I like that fire in you.. sag much.
Stop bitxhin though.

I guess..... so today he calls and says he will be over at 9:30.. i say kewl.. then @8:45 he texted and said he wont be able to make it. And he is so sorry.... i say " ur not sorry. U are where u want to be. Have fun. Peace." So this is now becoming funny to me... its all for nothing he is playing his self.

Posted by virtuousvirgo83
I guess..... so today he calls and says he will be over at 9:30.. i say kewl.. then @8:45 he texted and said he wont be able to make it. And he is so sorry.... i say " ur not sorry. U are where u want to be. Have fun. Peace." So this is now becoming funny to me... its all for nothing he is playing his self.

Well there's your answer.

Leave him alone. And if your not really done with him yet, let him come to you

As harsh or as raw as your words may have been, atleast you were honest & did your part.

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Posted by virtuousvirgo83
So he has be gone for 2 weeks and last night we talked about seeing each other. He couldnt wait to see me and we were both horny.. we talked really freaky on the phone. So the next morning i texted him to tell him i was making weekend plans and i wanted to know if we were going to hang out or were we just fucking..
So about 8hrs later he replys.. " i am not known to just fuck,i dont like how that question sounds,and i guess i am not a fan of what we are doing' i wish u would have noy called it what it is".. what— We have been just fucking... so why back off when he see's it in writting? It was dissspointing because i know myself i was settling because i wanted a relationship and he wanted to continue to date around.. so i am like cool ill fuck with him until i find someone who is actually trying to pursue a relationship...so he was like when a person is with me they arre not settling... well i am not with him so yes i settled. I guess the lesson i learned is to not settle this is what happens.. just three me off one min we were making plans to get ot in and the next min we call it quits.... he says i am not thst type of guy i am a one women man and i make love.. so i just said iy was nice meeting u and good luck... oh well....he was a great guy.. that just was a huge curve ball...of course there is more to this story.. this is just the surface.... thoughts plz

they don't like it when you're real. you're supposed to be the sap pining for the girlfriend title whilst he gets his nuts wet; nevermind having the audacity to voice the reality of the situation. you took it a step too far.

next time read love poetry down the phone to him while he tells you all the reasons he's 'not ready to be in a relationship', 'doesn't know what he wants', 'getting over his ex', etfuckingc.

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^^^ exactly! !!!