Aqua(s)...no matter what you always attract a ??

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Harlequin
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Hmm pretty much a mixed bag for me in terms of who I attract.

However, looking at the figures I seem to attract a greater number of women that are Cancer, Scorpio, Libra or Aries. Or maybe its just because I'm more likely to respond to a wink or a smile from these types because of previous experiences.

But who do I prefer to attract

Saggitarians would be top of my list, followed closely by Libra and Cancer women.

I generally find Libra women to be very attractive and stimulating. However, their tendency to be a little indecisive can grate at times - taking the lead 24/7 can be a drain.

Cancer women make great friends in my case and who wouldn't want to be the recipient of all that loving/caring attention. They can be a little to wishy-washy and emotionally insecure at times though. I like you and I care for you please accept that - I've demonstrated it enough so why do I have to constantly re-enforce it (don't i deserve a break once in awhile)

I get on with Aries like a house on fire - but we are generally to busy facing the world to face each other in a meaningful way.

Scorpios are great fun in key areas, but they can be to much like emotional vacuum cleaners for me. Its as thought they need intense emotional conflict like others need air. To the point where they will actively set things in motion to create situations - just to get their fix. Can't abide emotional outbursts for no good reason so the inevitably annoy me.

Leo's are great as friends, but I wouldn't give a Leo partner house room. They seem to have this grandiose idea they they are natural leaders and they are the ones to be in charge. Might be valid for some, but most of the ones I've encountered are all talk and no trousers.

It's one thing to have the qualities of a leader and another to claim the throne because of some unsubstantiated notion that you deserve to be in a position of authority - simply because of some innate quality. Bearing this in mind they don't usually get much of a look in with me and if they do it is over very quickly.

Geminis - great fun to be around and i can talk to them all day, but i do find it difficult to talk to more than one face at a time.

And last but not least, other Aquarians, naturally they are right up their with the Saggitarians for me.
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@Valeria....you'll start to be more observant as you go alone. I always attract guys with similar characteristics. They are attracted to me because of the qualities I seem to display. I always attract very hyper men...I'm very laid-back. I attract guys with SUPER short fuses....I'm not like that. I attract guys that are usually not very fashion savvy because I'm very fashionista...lol. And I always attract men in Law Enforcement and/or the military.

Then you'll start to notice hmmm this guy liked me but he was a lot like "so-in-so" and they were both a (insert sign here). And if it's not the same sun sign....it's usually always a shared Moon or Venus sign.

Like some signs I never attract: Taurus (I'm too stubborn and they sense that). Pisces (I'm not going to put up with the lies and the daydreams). I never attract Virgos (They are tooo picky). I never attract Capricorns with the exception of my ex-husband.
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@Aquaguy...

Wowwwwww! Virgo! Really. You should read the post called "Aquas scare the hell outta me" written from the perspective of a Virgo. 🙂



Yes! It's strange but I've met many Virgos - some were best friends or close friends, others I didn't like very much. I know that a few of my closest friends have been Virgo - which is very interesting to me. Beyond Virgo, I would say Taurus is another sign that I seem to attract. I don't know what the whole Earth sign thing is about mind you. I'm sure I've scared a few Virgos myself.... I will try and read that post if I can find it 🙂
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I always attract Libras. Libras & Saggs. This isn't necessarily a bad thing b/c of course the friendships/relationships always work out & end up being worth while, but SHEESH sometimes I wish I could attract other signs too.

However, I rarely attract Scorpios, Cancers, Pisces & especially Geminis. For some reason, Gems just always tend to bug me. Even though we're supposedly "compatible," I just can't seem to stop noticing that my friendships/relationships with them NEVER work out. And by that I mean, they almost always end immediately.

Friendship wise, I tend to attract lots of Scorpios, Aries, Sagg's, Aquas, & Virgos. I'm not really as compatible with persay Taurus' for example. Idk why, but with some/certain signs, I notice our differences almost immediately & even though differences can be good sometimes (as they present a challenge & a good opportunity to learn/see things outside of the box), I am a firm believer that similarities bring people closer together than what makes them different does.
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This topic is funny because I always attract cancers for some reason, I recently slept with the security guard at my work and he’s a cancer!!!

My ex was a cancer, I recently got a gobbie from a cancer who wanted more from me and I was like no thanks! And my other work mate at work hits on me really hard, I thought he flirts with everyone the way he does with me but apparently not, he always calls me sexy and touches me in passing all the time.

The thing that all these cancers have in common is that they always break the ice and approach me which is what I like. The security guard at my work gave me a lift home the second shift I had at my work and pretty much begged me to blow him hahah and we’ve hooked up twice more on the sly (even at work and we were so close to getting caught) he’s Muslim and I think he has a girlfriend, 🤔 this woman in a hijab is always coming to work with food for him.

Anyways I met my ex boyfriend at a club and he just stared at me really creepily for ages till my friends told me that he liked me so I stopped dancing and introduced myself to him, worst decision I ever made. We were together for 3 years and he was way too needy and manipulative for me and would have violent outbursts and have tantrums like a kid, the fucker even burnt me with a cigarette and cheated on me, I was glad he cheated on me because that meant it was finally over.

The hardest for me to keep are Pisces, too slippery
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Posted by Harlequin
Cancer women make great friends in my case and who wouldn't want to be the recipient of all that loving/caring attention. They can be a little to wishy-washy and emotionally insecure at times though. I like you and I care for you please accept that - I've demonstrated it enough so why do I have to constantly re-enforce it (don't i deserve a break once in awhile)

LOL 😂
This made me laugh because it’s so true!
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i'm the same way... reading that LOL

i need constant reassurance.

it's soooo needy xd